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I have medium length lightly layered dark blond hair. It is frizzy and wavy, not like a pretty curly hair but just frizzy waves here and there that kind of resembles clown hair!

I have a CHI straightener, which is supposed to be a really good brand, and the other normal stuff, hair dryer, brush.

How can I get my hair to look sleek, non frizzy and straight? Sort of like tyra banks, or miranda cosgrove.

Examples:
http://khairilhusni.blogmas.com/files/2008/12/miranda-cosgrove-wango-tango-nc.jpg
or
http://coincidemedia.com/graphics/kori/tyra-banks-bangs.jpg


Is there a certain spray or shampoo that will help or a straightening technique. Something farily cheap?

THANK YOU

John Freida and Paul Mitchell have some good anti-frizz products, they aren't exactly cheap but the quality is amazing, the extra dollars are completely worth it.

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I met a guy at the beginning of the summer and we've been spending a lot of time together... almost every day. I'm a virgin but I'm ready to have sex (save the sex speeches please, im 17 and i can make my own decisions) and I really want to with him.... i like him a lot and he likes me a lot. The other night we were getting pretty close... and he said "its up to you". After hearing him say this and knowing that it could really happen made me think... and kind of nervous. He's leaving in less than a month and he goes to school thousands of miles away. There's a chance I may never see him again... and if i did it wouldn't be for, like, a year. It makes me sad to think he's leaving and we can't be anything more than we are... and I'm wondering if sex would just make me even more emotional about it. Can I hear your thoughts and/or stories? Thanks!

Well before I say anything I just thought I would tell you, that if it were me, I most likely would decide to have sex with him. Just because I have the "act now, think later" curse.

The advice I could give you is, if you like him and want to do it, then I think you should do it. But, to answer your question, having sex would probably make things more emotional for you when he leaves. But, if you're serious about him, and want to see him again and keep in touch, then I don't think it will be too bad. If you don't do it you could look back and regret it. Or vice versa, really. This is a tough situation but the best I can say is follow how you feel, and if being emotional in future months while hes gone would be worth it?

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I've liked this girl for awhile now, and I've been thinking about asking her out, but how can I figure out if she likes me?

Honesty is best I think. Just ask her out, and you'll know if she likes you back from her response.

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16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does

for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?



The best advice I could give you is to go with what you feel, and do what you want. I can't tell YOU if YOU are "a future lesbo", because only you know how you feel. But, I dont think you should worry about that at all, and just keep doing what you want and be with who youre comfortable around, and are attracted to

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I'm going to the beach with my sisters, mom, and boyfriend for the day, and don't really know what to do. My boyfriend and I can only hold hands, so no romantic stuff really. But any ideas on games or anything different to do at the beach? So far we've got:

-Swimming in the ocean
-Digging a hole
-Looking for sand crabs
-Photo shoot, haha
-Going running

But we can't really think of anything else. Anything really creative or weird? :P Also, money's kinda tight, so no boardwalk. Hah.

When I go to the beach with my family and boyfriend, we always ditch them and go in the water so that way it's kinda just, us. you know? I can spend hours in the water -- its so much fun. But, you could also lay out and tan with him, or take a walk down the boardwalk (not necessarily spending any money) because window shopping is fun too! Hope I helped? and have fun :)

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Do any of you'll know how to make your lips look bigger. And you any of you'll know what is the best lip plumer and which lip plumers are available at local stores.please help.

If you have a sephora or anything like that near you, then I suggest you get this stuff called Lip Venom, I have it and it's amazing, it tingles for a little while but the appearance of your lips will be much fuller after applying it

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how do you lose face fat!

thanks.

You have to lose weight all over in order to lose weight in your face. That goes for pretty much anywhere you want to lose.

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Okay So I have an out break of acne on my forehead, right. Well I hate it . IT's everywhere. It's SO embarresing I've tried all the products that say will work like the "wave" clearisill, neutrogena, etc. Is there any house hold products that'll work

LIKE some people have suggested lemon juice will that help it go away, or irritate it? 17 days till school gotta get these zitz gone. asap

I've never tried it but I'm almost positive that toothpaste works also.

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18 me
20 him
-my boyfriend and I will be together for 3 months when he leaves to college in california. in september (8 hrs away if that matters)
-i want to get him a couple of gifts that will remind him of me and that are just funny going away gifts.

-no websites please.
-just ideas.
-he loves baseball favorite team NEW YORK YANKEES. likes basketball favorite team LA LAKERS.
-he likes to do anything thats active and he is an outdoors typea guy but he does like staying home and relaxing sometimes.

hope I helped you so you can help me thx!

get him a fitted yankees hat, he'll love it

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I was wondering...does deleting your myspace profile delete messages you sent a person?

I sent someone this really...messed up message when I was on medication and I don't know...I don't want them having it...

From what I know, the message completely erases and in the persons inbox is a message saying that the account who sent the message no longer exists.

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14/F
I have a lot of unwanted bodily hair. I have long sideburns and dark arm hair, along with hair on my stomach above and below my bellybutton like men do. My bikini line is horrid. Shaving this hair causes discoloration and its so temporary. I try things like nair and veet but it doesnt work either. I know this is a family problem because my grandmother was extremely hairy, and my mother has a beard. I dont want to end up like them, but they don't sympathize with me on my body hair, because they grew up in a society where that was accepted, and somewhat favored over no bodily hair. I live in America and of course, hairy is ugly. I just want this hair to be less noticible, or to stop growing back in. I can't invest in expensive things because I don't have a job and my parents would probably make me send it back, because they want me to keep my hair. What can I do about this?

I'm hairy too, but it isn't dark, it's blonde, and I find that a lot less noticable then dark hair. I would try bleaching it, yet still shaving when needed but if you slip up and forget every once and a while then it won't be noticable.

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what album did mandy moore sing "Someday we'll know" in?


is osmeday well know a soundtarck from "awlk to remember"?

yes it is! i love the song, she sings it with the lead singer of switchfoot :)

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you know the commercial where all those people have their nentindo DS and they are playing with it like its a guitar? it starts out with just one guy singing it, and then there are 2 other groups of people singing the same song. does anyone know what the song is called?

-Thanks!

sublime - santeria, its a good song!

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okay so i'm 15/f and i live in new jersey. My bf who i've had sex with once so far is 20. I don't want to hear about how i shouldn't be dating someone older then me b/c i love him, and yes i do know what love means. My question is he doesn't what to have sex any more cuz he thinks its illegal. What if i give consent, doesn't that make it fine? and if it is illegal, what is the punishment?

i live in new jersey and its not really okay, but it doesnt become a problem until you report it, like if he raped you or something, but as long as you and him both wanna do it, then by all means.

hope i helped?

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I know this is going to sound really skanky but, I gave this guuy head a few days ago, and when he cummed I swallowed a little bit, but then spit the rest out. Now there's this rumor going around he has an STD, can I get it from swallowing just a little bit of his cum!?

pleasee helppp.

the rumor could be false, but if its true then yes. even if you didnt swallow the cum.

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ok so today me and my boyfriend had sex and we didnt have proctection but we cant get it because none of our friends know and we arent going to go and buy them ourselves so he just takes it out before he feels like he is going to finnish, well today he said he didnt feel it until 10 seconds before he finnished and he pulled out and about 8 second after he finnished. i freaked out of course but he said he could feel when he pre cums so i dont know if i should believe him or what. ALso, what are the first signs of being pregnant ?

pulling out is bad dont do it, you can still get pregnant, you arent gonna know right away. wait and see if you get your period

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- he's in my computer class, and sits next to me. his feet are always close to mine, and he doesn't move them.

- he showed me his cell phone and let me mess around with it.

- when we walk out of the classroom, and he goes in front of me; theres a big crowd of people, but sometimes he looks over his shoulder to see if i'm there.

- we've made eye contact, and we talk to each other, meaning we look into each other's eyes when we talk.

- he always jokes about how slow of a typer he is and how fast i am. one time, he went "i hate you", when i finished an assignment and he wasn't even halfway done, and he smiled.

- he always smiles when i'm around.

- one time, he pushed the black handle on my chair to make it go down while i was typing something up. i rolled my eyes (jokingly).

- i was wearing coach sneakers, and i noticed that he kept looking at them, and he went "i didn't know that Coach made shoes". i was surprised haha..

- he's Christian, and when I was looking through his songs (he has the SLVR), and he goes "you probably don't know who the bands are", and I mentioned the Christian band Thousand Foot Krutch and his face lit up when I started talking about them. he also mentioned that he plays baseball.

does he like me or is he just being nice?

would it be weird if I asked him for his number or gave him my number? or should i just wait a little while longer?

when your playing with his phone, simply tell him "im gonna put my number in" and smile.

:)

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im 18/f and ive had this problem for years. everytime i bend my knees they crack. it sounds like a nutcracker. its gross. even happens when im simply walking up the steps. anyways, i want to know ::
1. what this is? i went to the doctors a few years ago and he said just hold my legs out for a few minutes at a time every night. this did nothing. and
2. if i work out and do squats, which will require me to bend my legs constantly, will it just damage my knees more?
im afraid i might be waring away the cartlidge or something. if anyone has any info on this id reallyyyyy appreciate it!

sorry its so long.

this happens to me too, the same exact thing, and i hate it i dont know what it is, i never considered it as anything serious..though

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okayyy so, i already had my period this month. [august] started on the 15th, ended the 18th.. but yesterday the 31st i started again.. is something wrong here?????? i wasn't suppose to start till later in september..

help?

coulda just been discharge, or it could be irregular. whatever it is, it's normal. nothing to be worried about

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I want to get extensions but I know there are a lot of cheap, fake types out there so are there any brands you reccomend?

Also, I only want the clip-in kind so do I need to buy special types of clips?

Thanks :]

Jessica Simpson has a brand of them, my friend was gonna buy them, i think they're a little expensive, like 90$ but they're good!

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