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well my mom just told me that his little sister said he had just turned bi like liking boys i still like him what should i do should i talk to him or let him go its very hard for me cuase i liked him for 2 years know we been through a lot
well so what if hes bisexual? it doesnt change anything, just because he likes boys doesnt mean he still doesnt like you! just stick with him, and if hes intrested in some other girl or boy, then itll be time to break up. but until then, stick with him. if youre afraid of what people say, dont be. who cares, theyre most likely jealous! dont judge him and break up with him just because hes bisexual. if its been 2 years, then he must be a great guy, hes probably always been bisexual, he just never told anyone. so its always been like that, possibly, so nothing should change. dont change your perspective of him, because that will be really hard for him to deal with.
hope i helped :D
If you have had relationship that did not go so well what are somethings to have a good relationship with a male. I'm 13 and am a young lady.
im kind of confused by your question, but i think i know what you mean. are you trying to say what are some good things to look for in a good guy kinda thing?
well if thats what your trying to ask, the most important thing to look for in a guy is an amazing heart. dont go for the boys that are the cutest most popular guys, go for the ones that you connect with. dont just start liking a guy for no reason before you talk to him, that just wont work out.
some good things to look for once you start talking to a guy is a good sense of humor( he needs to be able to take a joke and also make them), a good heart (he has to care about you and everyone else so that he wont screw you over in the end), flexible( as in he lets you do what you want, and doesnt try to control you or who you hang out with), someone thats not a player( you dont want him going behind your back with your friends or anyone else), and a good relationship with his family(its amazing to have a guy thats really close to his mom or sisters, it shows he can connect with female), and trust and honesty is most important(if he cant trust you, leave him before things get serious because you dont want him to alwyas say "i dont believe you did this...blah blah" and you want him to be honest with you about anything, there cant be lying when you put all of your love into someone).
the other most imporant thing is to find a guy that likes the same things as you, and not to pretend to like things just to impress him. just be yourself and he will like you for the way you are, and he wont want to hurt you. if you pretend to be something your not, your already breaking the honesty thing, so the relationship would never work, you want trust and all of this stuff from him, you have to do the same for him.
i hope that helps you a little bit :D
I am getting sick of my music again and I was wonderring if anyone could recommend some good songs. I would really like some good acoustic songs (i have all the secondhand serenade so not them), and i also listen to heavy/death metal, as well as a bit of In Flames and such. Any songs would be a huge help. Thanks :)
emery, they have amazing acoustic music.
if you search it just type in acoustic, hope you like themm because i love them :D
Okay so I like this one guy...He's exactly the type of guy I want to date. But I kinda am skiddish...okay really shy. Only around guys. On any other occasion, my friends know me as an outgoing and bubbly individual...but with guys, it's different. I know that he knows that I like him...But I don't know how to talk to him, or even be by him, without letting my nerves take over! What do I do?!?!
-Totally confused
15/f
aw im just like you! i get really nervous sometimes. but i eventually worked over the fear and went all for it. you gotta think about it like this is your only chance, make yourself believe that you can talk to him, and if you do look like a fool, he'll laugh and think its cute. he may be the same way as you are, fun around friends but nervous around girls. sometimes guys get sick of making the first move and really really like it when the girl approaches them. i get really shy to, but just flash him a smile everytime you see him, and he'll get the hint that you want to talk. if that doesnt work, just go up to him and say something really nice, be like wow, i really love those shoes. it may sound corny, but it really works. they get all embarrased and are flattered and sometimes dont know what to say but thanks, but you just smile and walk away and then theyll remember you for saying that everytime they put those shoes on. if one of his friends are in one of your classes, go up to them and ask them about something from class, and then he'll notice you and he'll get more intrested. dont even worry about being shy, guys think shy girls are cute. if you embarrass yourself, just laugh and be like wow im an idiot or something. youll be fine, just try to get over your fear, and think that this is the only chance youll get at him, and if you wait nothing will happen. hope this helps :D
-jenna
well it's not realy like that cuz let me tell u from the beggin well he has a little sister around my age so i used to hang around her so one day she asked her brother if he liked me and he did so we went out for 3 weeks and then we both broke up wit each other and we both still liked each other and on the partries i would have he would come in sleep over and and one of the times he sleeped over he kissed me and that was like 5-6 mnths after we broke up so i guessed he still have feelings.well i had my birrthday party i was dressed up and pretty and he looked atmy whole offit and he had a mad face so the next day i go to his house he didn't even look at me and i had just gotten a new cellphone but when i was there he normaly would look at me but i guessed he was mad at me.the thing is i ain't his girfriend for a year now so i don't know uif he likes me.
well he may like you then, but you dont exactly know. the only way to really know is to either ask him or have someone else ask him, like his sister like she did last time. in my opinion, hes acting like he still likes you. but you cant go from what anyone says but him, because only he knows how he feels. hope that helps :D
-jenna
13/f
well here i go, well my ex boyfriend and me r not together and on my birthday i had a party and he came wit his family i was waering a show off offit and he looked me up n down and i said stop looking at me and then he stoped.the next day my ma had to go to talk to his mother and i had just gotten my new celllphone and my lil brother asked who is on there i said everybody just playing and he did not look at me evn when i got there so i guessed he was mad.so 2 weeks after that i went wit my ma to work and he was there and my ma bought pizza and i was at the itchen eating and he was to and he was getting close to my face so i said back off because his little cousin was there and he was talking to her and tahts when he got close to my face.soo 'm not sure if he ikes me it looks as if he does and everytime i there he be flirting wit me so what do u think
well right now, you cant really tell if he likes you or not. the problem is, you told him to get away the first time, so thats probably why he didnt talk to you the second time. maybe he tried again to see if you would react at the pizza shop. it depends on if you explained why you said back off, not just saying it because he'll either back off completely, or like that youre "playing hard to get". the real question is, do you still have feelings for him? because if you dont then keep telling him to back off, but if you do, you should just let him in. hope that helped a little :D
-jenna
what is spooning?
well it kind of depends if youre the boy or girl, but its when a boy lays front to the back of a girl, and they fit together like spoons.
-jenna
im going to make the long story short.
me and my BF broke up. and now he's acting real immature, he keeps talking about me, people keep comming up to me telling me about what he said about me and why we broke up, and calling me a bi*** and a ho, and im getting real irritated, it's like he WANTS me to get mad. the reason we broke up is because i cheated. and i was being honest and told him. then told him that it would be a good idea if we broke up, rather than me cheating over and over again. and now he's acting this way. and it's like "what the hell is your problem?"
but that day, i was on the phone with my friend and he decided to call my ex, but i didnt think it was a good idea, because we was just going to end up aurguing and yelling. and we did. which continued for about 45 mintues straight. then after that we decided to talk to eachother like mature people. and a few hours later he was like, "its okay im not even mad nomore" then im thinkin okay its squashed he cool. now i get to school, and he gossiping like crazy! but now, to this day he's been buggin all the time, and i dont kno what to do! i also noticed he cant even keep my name out of his mouth. and everything that he says about me, he NEEEVER said this to my face. alwayz behind my back or something. and this boy who likes me i told him what happend and he said that if i want him to beat his a** then tell him. i thought that was real sweet. but told him i had to think about it. he said he wont say my name or anything about me, he said wen he see him on the street, he'll jus come up to him, and hit him so they would fight. but i think it might turn out bad because he(my ex) MIGHT for some reason get the idea that i sent him out to fight my ex, and then my ex will get one of hiis friends whom is a gurl to fight ME, and i dont want that to happen. omg, what am i going to do?
oh wow, this boy is more like a girl. he sounds so immature. first of all, hes just a big bowl of drama. if he keeps talking shit, let him. he definately wants you to get mad, hes only doing this to get under your skin because of your break up. act like nothinggg is even wrong and that your not even irratated, even if you are. dont tell anyone that might talk to him that its making you mad, because thats just giving him more enjoyment.
if people ever come up and say oh he was talking so much crap about you, just laugh and be like hes pathetic, he cant even get over me. act like he doesnt even matter, because when he acts so immature he shouldnt matter.
the only reason hes doing this is to get a reaction out of you, once you stop caring he will too.
it is really sweet that the new kid you like wants to fight him for you, i say let him! i mean if he wasnt being totally immature, i would say no because violence doesnt usually solve anything. if he assumes that you sent him out to do it, just be like uh no im not that immature, he felt bad for me and wanted to beat you up on his own. and if he does send a girl to fight you, which is totally pathetic on his part, dont fight her if you cant. just make sure your with your friends all the time so she cant come after you. i mean if you want to avoid the whole fighting thing, it wouldnt be such a bad idea. because he may use it against you, but you never know. you do what you want, but i hope i helped a little bit :D
Hi!
Well, while I was watching the final challenge on Real World/Road Rules Guantlet 3, a song that was playing while the teams were aboarding the yacht to meet with TJ really caught my attention. I don't know if the lyrics are precisely correct, but the words are fairly similar to these:
"When I command, you start to sing-don't worry, don't worry I've got it"
If anyone can provide me with the name of the song and the artist who sings it that would be great!
ps- I've already tried inserting the lyrics into Google's search engine but it uploaded irrelevant songs. However, if you find it on there a link would be awesome!
i watched the whole episode again, and there are no words to that song lol, its just a beat. when they are boarding the ship and TJ starts talking, both songs are just beat. usually all of their songs on their are just music, no lyrics. so maybe youre thinknig of another show?
if you dont believe me, go on mtv.com, go under shows, click gauntlet III, then scroll down a little and there should be a picture of rachel and next to it it says Gauntlet III Ep. 9 'The finale' we have a winner. click that and watch the episode and theres no song, sorrrry :D i hope i helped a little!
i need some funny dares for my friend, hes a guy so nothing like go into the boys bathroom or somthing haha. any ideas. thanx so much!!
13/f
any funny dares uve done/heard of work! i just need a little inspiration
haha okay well it depends on where you are doing this, but ill give you some ideas and you can go along with it.
me and my friedns used to dare each other to go someones house in the neighborhood(no one you know) and knock on their door and when they open, ask to talk to their dog. and if they dont have a dog, you say im sorry for your loss and run away. corny i know, but its really embarrassing :D
another one is to dare him (depends if your at school or at your house) to go into your bathroom or the girls bathroom and put saran wrap under the toilet seat so when a girl sits down the pee drips all over their pants.
well this isnt really a dare, but more of a prank. dare him to go up to someone with a funnel, a penny, and a bottle of water. then he shows them what he wants them to do, by placing the funnel in his pants in the front, and put a penny on his nose, and he has to tell them that they have to try to get the penny into the funnel. now they will try and when they put up their heads with the penny on their nose, he pours the bottle of water down the funnel and it looks like they wet their pants. its reallllyyy funny. or you can just do it to him saying i dare you to get the penny in the funnel :D
dare him to dress up as a girl, and wear makeup and everything, and tell him to go somewhere to get you something. and even funnier, make him walk to a corner store to buy tampons and random girl stuff.
haha thats all i can think of, but have funn :D
boyfriend cheated on my with my best friend. (now ex best friend)
so on her myspace, she mentions in her about me; my NAME && calls me 2 faced.
and shes the one who effin kissed my boy.
s0o my question is, why should she right my name? for some reason she turned everyone against me "making is my fault or something" I MEAN WTF.
ugh
wow what a bitch, its kind of good that she did that so now you see what a horrible person she is.
first of all, break up with your boyfriend. hes just as bad as she is.
then dont worry aobut your friend spreading stuff like that, if they ask you just say that shes lying and tell them the truth, if they believe you they are true friends. just dont talk crap about her, because then youll be as bad as her. just talk plainly about it, and then they will be like woah her best friend is the bitch, not her.
hope that helps a little :D
what was that song on the hills, when they were with the rock group, drinking, before the photo shoot. if it helps, it went like "......queen eliza bith...." "cuz im a rockstar"
its rock star by prima j. i loveee that song! hope that helps :]
I have REALLY oily skin.
Like I wash it and everything, and take pretty good car of it. I wear makeup.
i just need someway to stop it from getting so oily in like my 4th period class, thats when it really starts. any facewashes or powders that will help? thankz.
ahh i had the same problem. i have the solution though. there are these things called clean & clear oil absorbing sheets. they are a little packet of blue sheets that you can carry in your purse or wherever and you just pop one out and wipe your face and all the oil comes off! i usually use one in the morning after my shower, and it lasts a long time, but whenever i wipe my face and feel oil, i take one out and it works perfectly, and it usually doesnt take any makeup off, if you wear any. just use those and your problems will be solved. hope that helps, because they helped me :]
Okay well I'm going to try and describe it the best way I can.
I have a eating problem. I eat so much fast food and bad food it's gross. At my house, I always say "We don't have anything to eat." pretty much as an excuse so I can get some money and order food. I usually get McDonald's three times a week, hoagies, and pizza, the rest. I eat at home like once a week! I probably have such a high cloresteral.
haha ok, well the other person basically helped you a bunch, but ill try and help a little bit :] ok so i know how you feel about eating all the time, i do that too, well did. i know its hard, but somehow you have to give up fast food, i know its so tempting, trust me i really know, but try asking your parents to make hamburgers and baked fries for dinner, its much healthier and for me it tastes better.
talk to your mom about making healthy dinners that still have the same image as fast food, sort of a mirage for your craving for fast food. drinking pop: baddd idea. you should probably stop asap. i stopped and ive lost over 5 pounds, by just not drinking pop. tea is very good for you, try something like lipton iced tea in the bottles. they have a white rasberry one, it tastes really good and its healthier than pop for you.
and something that helps, set a time that you cant eat after, say like 7:30, dont eat anything because that adds fat because when you sleep, your not buring/ digesting any calories.
and if you dont like exercising, try something fun like yoga. i know this part is kind of stupid, but it works for me. if your at home watching tv while on the computer or something, or just watching tv, get up every commercial and just pace back and forth, or do a little dance. yes it sounds corny but it keeps your energy level high and it burns calories. also try playing a dancing video game like ddr, that burns a lotttt of calories and fat, and its really fun.
have your boyfriend help you too. if he's with you, he needs to help you resist fast food, and suggest something healthier. at the most right now, try to limit yourself to fast food 1-2 nights a week, no more. trust me it will be hard, but it will be so worth it.
if you also drink a lot of milk, it will help you lose weight, what i do is eat a lot of yogurt. you can have beef and things like that, but try to do it only 3 days a week, the rest chicken. chicken and fish are really healthy for you. and if your mom or dad doesnt want to cook, then you get out there and learn yourself! its really fun and it helps you lose weight.
as of snacks, when you have a sweet tooth, eat a granola bar, they appeal your craving and they have less calories.
you should also eat a vitamin everyday, it helps boost energy and get you to want to do more.
thats all i can think of now, i hope that helps you a little. im not good with the excercise part, the diet is what i stick to :]
and by the way, dont count calories or anything, it is so much harder
Is it weird for a 9th grade girl to date an 8th grade boy? I rate and thanks so much!
oh no of course it's not wierd at all, it's not a big deal either, if people have a problem with you dating an eigth grader, they're probably jealous that you have a boyfriend and they dont, i mean thats mostly why people talk about other people. but yeah, its totally normal, im in tenth grade and im about to date a guy in ninth, its completely not wierd, dont worry about a thing. hope that helps :]
i'm getting my temps in a few days, and i'm just wondering, what exactly do they do? i know you take a test on the computer, but like when you pass, you get your actual temps. it'll have your height, weight, eye color, hair color, and all that too right? do they actually weigh you and stuff, or do you just tell them? how does all that work? thanks.
ok i just got my temps, and yes it has all of your details, but you fill out a form and put everything yourself at the place, i had to kind of guess because i didnt know it was coming,then they ask you all these questions about your health and is you were born in the u.s, and you need your birth certificate and social security number, then they take your picture and you take your test, its forty questions, 20 on signs, and 20 on the rest of the booklet, and if you get 11 wrong you fail, but once you get enough to pass the test stops you, then you drive etc etc. hope that helps :]
my friend who is fourteen and a male has been having stomach pains and the feeling to throw up only in the morning for the past year. we are very concerned about him. we tried to look up things on google but we couldnt find enough information can you please help us. =]
go on webmd.com.
mostly everyone uses that site and you can find out what the problem is
hope that helps a little :]
m/13
i feel like a poser for saying this or whatever
but i really like emo punk cloths now i have no clue were to start and its all to confusing i know that goodwill is a great place to get cheap vintage stuff but i have not been able to find any hoodies,jackets,shirts, nuthin that fits the description at goodwill... also my freinds told me that guys who are trying to fit the "emo" thing buy girls pants but i feel weird doing so any advice at all would help
ok its fine if you want to turn more emo. its not really being a poser.
also girl pants on guys, its the new thing, and personally me and all of my friends think guys look really good in them. if your not comfertable with them then you shouldnt wear them.
most emo people, like my brother, buy things from hot topic and he wears more band clothes which you can get at a lot of places, mostly hot topic.
hope that helps a little :]
ive only seen the commerical for it but is it acting or real?
its acting, but they make it seem real. its an ok show but it seems kind of corny. its kind of like punk'd but they dont tell the people that its fake in the end. they just get scared and then walk away.
hope that helps a little :]
Ok I have been datting my boyfriend for almost 9 months.Let call him 'bob'. Well bob is best friends with my best friend lets call my best friend 'stacy' so 'bob' is best friends with stacy and stacy is also my best friend. But it seems like to me they hang out more than me and him do. And it really upsets me.. beucase it makes me think that bob is doing stuff behind my back with stacy and whenever they are around eachother and they call me.. he acts completly diffrentt, and it makes me so.. mad. I dont know what to do or think.. is he doing stuff behind my back.. should I tell him how I fell ( which I have tried and it just starts a fight) what do I do? what do I say? please help me.
Thank's
Much Love XoXoX
just sit him down and talk to him. tell him first that you dont want to fight, and you just dont want to feel like this anymore.
tell him that you know that him and stacy are best friends, but they spend more time with each other then you both do.
tell him that you trust him enough to know that he wouldnt cheat, but you worry sometimes because its a natural instinct to feel a little jealous when your best friend hangs out more with your boyfriend.
tell him that he acts so different around stacy, and ask him why he does.
hope that helps a little :]