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If you have had relationship that did not go so well what are somethings to have a good relationship with a male. I'm 13 and am a young lady.
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im kind of confused by your question, but i think i know what you mean. are you trying to say what are some good things to look for in a good guy kinda thing?
well if thats what your trying to ask, the most important thing to look for in a guy is an amazing heart. dont go for the boys that are the cutest most popular guys, go for the ones that you connect with. dont just start liking a guy for no reason before you talk to him, that just wont work out.
some good things to look for once you start talking to a guy is a good sense of humor( he needs to be able to take a joke and also make them), a good heart (he has to care about you and everyone else so that he wont screw you over in the end), flexible( as in he lets you do what you want, and doesnt try to control you or who you hang out with), someone thats not a player( you dont want him going behind your back with your friends or anyone else), and a good relationship with his family(its amazing to have a guy thats really close to his mom or sisters, it shows he can connect with female), and trust and honesty is most important(if he cant trust you, leave him before things get serious because you dont want him to alwyas say "i dont believe you did this...blah blah" and you want him to be honest with you about anything, there cant be lying when you put all of your love into someone).
the other most imporant thing is to find a guy that likes the same things as you, and not to pretend to like things just to impress him. just be yourself and he will like you for the way you are, and he wont want to hurt you. if you pretend to be something your not, your already breaking the honesty thing, so the relationship would never work, you want trust and all of this stuff from him, you have to do the same for him.
i hope that helps you a little bit :D
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