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Letting my nerves get the best of me
Okay so I like this one guy...He's exactly the type of guy I want to date. But I kinda am skiddish...okay really shy. Only around guys. On any other occasion, my friends know me as an outgoing and bubbly individual...but with guys, it's different. I know that he knows that I like him...But I don't know how to talk to him, or even be by him, without letting my nerves take over! What do I do?!?!
-Totally confused
15/f
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aw im just like you! i get really nervous sometimes. but i eventually worked over the fear and went all for it. you gotta think about it like this is your only chance, make yourself believe that you can talk to him, and if you do look like a fool, he'll laugh and think its cute. he may be the same way as you are, fun around friends but nervous around girls. sometimes guys get sick of making the first move and really really like it when the girl approaches them. i get really shy to, but just flash him a smile everytime you see him, and he'll get the hint that you want to talk. if that doesnt work, just go up to him and say something really nice, be like wow, i really love those shoes. it may sound corny, but it really works. they get all embarrased and are flattered and sometimes dont know what to say but thanks, but you just smile and walk away and then theyll remember you for saying that everytime they put those shoes on. if one of his friends are in one of your classes, go up to them and ask them about something from class, and then he'll notice you and he'll get more intrested. dont even worry about being shy, guys think shy girls are cute. if you embarrass yourself, just laugh and be like wow im an idiot or something. youll be fine, just try to get over your fear, and think that this is the only chance youll get at him, and if you wait nothing will happen. hope this helps :D
-jenna<3
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