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future lesbo?
16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does
for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?
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im bi sexual to but no one knowsz it im still a virgin but hey lolsz itsz ma choice nd if you feel as if boysz disgust you then obviouslii your a lesbian so stick with girlsz
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You could be a lesbian. You could be bisexual. you could even be straight and just be curious or exploring. The point is that you dont really need to know exactly what your sexual orientation is right now. just do what you feel comfortable with and what is goin to make you happy. dont stress about it. youll figure it out sooner or later but u dont need a label.
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the position that world (at least the liberal world) is moving towards is that sexuality is a continuum that shifts throughout your life. this idea rings especially true for those who consider themselves bisexual. for instance, while I have only been with men in the past, I am now with a woman and know that there's a slim chance I'll ever be with a man again knowing how wonderful relationships with women are and how well they fit into who I am. it makes more sense this way and I am happy this way, so it is who I choose to be though technically, I am still bisexual because I will still keep the faint possibility open that some man will come along. it's just not a high priority to find him now that I've accepted that my mind is hardwired to be attracted to men and women.
all of this took me about 5 years to figure out and a good 6 months to fully accept and acknowledge. don't box yourself in until you explore all the boxes and don't box yourself in at all if you're not comfortable with them.
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This is a good way that you tell if you are straight or gay. Picture a guy naked and then picture a girl naked. Which do you like better and which could you see yourself doing things with and being more comfortable with?
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you could be, and there is nothing wrong with that.
i have a friend like you, she finds girls more attractive and better to have sex with since same genders can do it without condoms and not get pregnant.
but unlike you she finds guys attractive as well.
you should date a guy, see any good qualities in him but if you can't, if you still find men disgusting than i think your sexual orientation has changed to lesbian.
it doesn't matter how young you are, you can be gay at any age.
this could be a phase, or not.
hope i helped.
:) ~chris
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I usually don't answer questions like this because I have a tendency to see things as black or white. Just the other day I saw a similar question and here was my advice. I have noticed that mankind is the only species on earth that has sexual relations with it's own gender. We are also the only species with a free will. Notice that all birds of the same species build nests the same way even if the young birds are removed from their parents. A large dog will take food from a smaller dog and have no conscience if the smaller dog dies because of it. They are prewired that way. They have no choice. We on the other hand do have choice. We also understand the results of a poor choice. If you rob a store you o to jail. If you go to Harvard law school and get a degree you get a high paying job. For every choice there is a consequence both good and ad. You have chosen to experiment in an area of free will that now has become close to an obsession. The longer you continue to go down that path the harder it will be to get off of it.Man was never created to have sexual relations with it's own gender. Yes you may enjoy it but that doesn't make it right. Using drugs is fun at first but addiction and overdose are two very real outcomes if the behavior is continued. You will NEVER feel right if you continue to act in a way you weren't designed to act.
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The best advice I could give you is to go with what you feel, and do what you want. I can't tell YOU if YOU are "a future lesbo", because only you know how you feel. But, I dont think you should worry about that at all, and just keep doing what you want and be with who youre comfortable around, and are attracted to
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No one can really answer that question,only you can really answer that.If your more attracted to girls and get more turned on then with guys,then i think you answered your own question.It should be easy for a guy to turn you on,if that's what you like.But it seems like it's the other way around for you.Your still young,and your around that age where you start exploring your sexuality and see what you like and don't like.Your still trying to find yourself.But be comfortable in your own skin and love who you are,don't let anyone tell you otherwise :)
♥ danielle
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I can't answer if you are a into woman for the future. However, I can suggest and give you my best advice ;)
1. You are sixteen years old and you may just be exsploring your sexual side.
2. You could be into woman, but if you are it's not a bad thing.
3. Don't get it get awkward for you, We are who we are and if people don't except that it's nobody's problem but theres.
-BahaiMa22
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