hello, you can call me chris, i am fourteen. i rather not tell you where i live other than it's a big city. as for advice, i like to think of myself as a good advice giver in almost about anything. yes, i may be young but don't underastimate me.
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Age: 14
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I want to have a Sweet 16 Kayne West "Glow in the Dark" themed.. For my invitation I want to put Kayne west lyrics that apply, preferably new ones from Graduation or Love Lockdown. Any ideas are appreciated.
Like.. When people first walk in, I want a sign that says: "Welcome to the Good Life."
What I'm really looking for is for some invitation ideas, though. Thanks! (link)
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That's so cool, I bet it'll be amazing.
& Maybe something from 'Good Morning'?
"Good morning
On this day we become legendary
Everything we dreamed of.."
Or something from Late Registration,
'Celebration' (:
Hopefully I helped!
f/14
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Okay, so my parents just found out I have a myspace about two months ago. I'm not supposed to have a myspace. They blamed me for "lying" about it. And I'm aloud to have other websites. I just want them to trust me enough to let me have a myspace. My mom says I'll never get one, but that can't be true. How do I convince them? (link)
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Tell your parents to chill, theres nothing wrong with myspace. Tell them your smart enough to not talk to any bad people or even think about meeting up with some stranger from myspace. It's just a website to talk to your friends from school or wherever, just like Facebook.
Hope i helped,
chris-14/f
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hi, lol. im the girl that you answered the hemoriod question! uhm, im a little confused!
so this cold pack thing, how do i put that?
and the hot baths. does this make it go away like, it disapears?!
help, lmao! :X (link)
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Well, it will eventually go away on it's own.
but only if it's painful or itchy you should put the cold pack on the hemroid & bath in warm water daily to like, relax it & to make it stop with the pain and itchyness.
go to this website for more help:
http://www.hemroidshelp.com/female-hemroids.html
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lol, this is kinda embaracing, but, i have a hemoriod, its not that big, kinda small actually. but my question is, how do i get it to go away?!!?!?! (link)
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It should go away in a few days or so, but if it's itchy or painful use a cold pack & apply it to the affected area. Take bath three or four times a day in hot water for about 20 to 30 minutes too.
uh, hope it goes away soon
;D
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are there going to be anymore zoey 101 or drake and josh episodes?
and if not,how come? (link)
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definitely no more drake and josh.
i saw it on the conan o'brian show, drake said it's over. they're getting too old for the show.
as for zoey 101, there'll be more episodes. jamie lynn obviously is busy with the baby, but once she gets in shape it'll be back. i don't know WHEN it'll be back, i just know that it WILL be back, sorry.
hope i helped.
~ cris
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hey im 13/f and i have a boyfriend of 1 year. i love him so much! And we got talkin about sex, and he said that since ima virgine, he would be super carefull with me. and then i told him im scared of ending up pregnat, he said we wont have sex untill i'm ready but i really want to, we were going too hang out tonight at ten so whom ever reads this please give me some advice, cuz i need it. P.s I really wanna wiff him i just dont knoe what ta dp.
Love,
Lil Ms. Cunfuzzled (link)
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you're way too young to be thinking of sex.
your hormones are telling you to do it,
but the right choice is to not do it.
really, think about it. do you want to be seen as the girl who lost her virginity at 13? people are going to say things if they hear about it, your boyfriend might go telling his friends, what if your parents find out?
and even if you do use protection theres always that chance it can break n you'll get pregnant.
my advice basically is don't do it.
i'm sure anybody would say that seeing that you're only 13.
~chris
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I'm a 15 year old female and I have a question involving a guy. I promise it's not one of those "There's this guy..." questions. About a year ago, I started going out with this guy at my school. He was really sweet and totally devoted and always there for me no matter what. Then, over the summer I went to Europe for 3 weeks on an exchange program. When I got back in Sept. we were at different schools. From a friend I found out he was cheating on me. We broke up. Half a year later we're going out again because we both still like eachother a lot. The problem is I'm in Europe again, for the whole summer this time and I'm afraid that he'll cheat on me again, even though he promised he wouldn't. I want to trust him but I'm afraid of getting lied to and hurt again like last time. I'm not so sure what to do. Was it wrong of me to give him another chance?
I hope you can help me. Thanks! (link)
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you should call him, ask how he's doing without you.
tell him how you feel about the situation.
make him feel guilty for what he did last time and maybe he won't do it again.
don't go falling for the guy to hard otherwise if he does cheat on you again i'm afraid you're gonna get heartbroken and i don't want you getting hurt over a someone stupid like him.
~chris/14
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Hi, I think my bf is ready to have sex. It's like i kinda want to, but i don't think i'm ready. How do i know when I am ready. (link)
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Depends on how old you are i guess.
If you're sixteen and older than i suppose you can have sex at that age just remember to have protection and check if he has any stds.
Then there's the whole sex after marriage.
Alot of adults would encourage you to do that but that's your decision.
If you don't think you're ready, don't have sex.
and i'm not sure but i'm guessing you know you're ready when you really love him, when you know he's the one you want to be your first. :)
Hope i helped.
~chris.
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16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does
for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?
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you could be, and there is nothing wrong with that.
i have a friend like you, she finds girls more attractive and better to have sex with since same genders can do it without condoms and not get pregnant.
but unlike you she finds guys attractive as well.
you should date a guy, see any good qualities in him but if you can't, if you still find men disgusting than i think your sexual orientation has changed to lesbian.
it doesn't matter how young you are, you can be gay at any age.
this could be a phase, or not.
hope i helped.
:) ~chris
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almost 16 female.
I like more than one guy. 5 to be exact. and if one of them asked me out, i would go out with any of them. but heres the thing, my friends say that im too shy and that i should make the first move. (btw im not even friends with any of these guys) so all of my friends say that i should send them an IM and be like hey whats up. now im really desperate for a boyfriend so i dont know if i should first be friends with all of these guys and see who makes a move first or just go for one guy and play hard to get.
or should i even play hard to get? because im so desperate and i was thinking maybe i should just straight out tell one of the guys that i really like him... what do you all think?? help! (link)
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do not play hard to get.
trust me, i've tried it.
if you know one of their IMs, message him.
befriend him. flirt with him. ask him if he can hang out with you, to the movies or wherever.
if you're too shy to go just with him, tell himto invite a friend and you'll invite a friend, a double date.
if you want, experiment. by that i mean, IM one the five and flirt with him and ask him if he wants to go out with you, if you're really that desperate.
hopefully i helped. good luck with the five.
~chris.
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so i'm on vacation, i have been for 2 weeks. my family is staying with our old neighbors who moved here, and we wanted to visit them. before they moved i had been fooling around with their son, but he only fingered me and we made out. i was pretty much guessing something else was going to happen between us when i slept in his house for two weeks, and it definitely did. he fingered me, ate me out, and i have him a handjob and blowjob. but my real question is that one of my other neighbors that still lives with me, shes one of my really good friends, and in their son's grade, told me he has herpes and gonnerhea and all these other STD's and i have one sore on the inside of my lip and i'm really really nervous that i got an STD from him even though before i gave him oral sex he told me that he gave blood 6 months ago, so theres no way he could have one, right? and to make it worse, he has a girlfriend, so who knows what he's been doing beind her back other than me, right? how do i know if i have an STD? or just any other advice on what to do? i cant drive to a doctor, and im not telling my mom. i'm only 14. (link)
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sore on the inside of your lip can possibly mean you have syphilis.
good news: it's curable.
bad news: you'll need to see a doctor. meaning, your mom will find out.
if you ignore this, syphilis could cause serious effects such as damage to the heart, aorta, brain, eyes, and bones. in some cases these effects can be fatal.
now about the boy and his girlfiend..
honestly if i where you i wouldn't talk to him.
but that wouldn't help, so just confront him and tell him that what you did was a mistake n to forget what happened becaue i'm sure his girlfriend wouldn't be too happy if she found out.
i'd probably warn his girlfriend too, and next time try having a romantic relationship not a sexual relationship, you're way too young.
good luck and hope your mom doesn't completely kill you.
:) ~chris. stay safe, kay?
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my summer vacation is europe for a month and it has already been 2 weeks. a bunch of people would kill to go to europe for a month but me... i would rather be home.
i am so homesick right now i cant even describe it. I dont get to go anywhere because all of my relatives are busy with work and school etc. and i came here only with my siblings and they are always with their other friends and they dont want to include me with their plans.
my question is what should i do. I feel like im wasting my summer by sitting at their home on the computer and watching movies all day long. i am still very jetlagged so i go to sleep way early in the morning and i wake up in the evening. so i can really do anything during the day and i cant do anything at night because everyone is sleeping and ill make noise. please help??
oh and the last week im going to be in a country where there is beaches and im going with my dad and siblings (brothers) and i think it will be a little akward because the only thing we will do is go to the beach for about a week. what will i do?? i want to go shopping but they are all guys and they will never take me. i need some fun in my life! (link)
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Go by yourself to the mall, why should they spoil your fun? that wouldn't be fair. You should get your sleeping schedule together as well.
Go to other fun places in Europe too, ask atleast one of your brothers to take you and have fun together, i mean, he is your brother he should show some sympathy for her sister being isolated at home doing nothing but being a couch potatoe.
If your brothers still don't want to include you in their plans than i suppose your only choice is to go on your own.
Please, do something while you still can in Europe otherwise i'm sure you'll regret it.
:) ~chris.
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