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Virginty?? Help me fast
hey im 13/f and i have a boyfriend of 1 year. i love him so much! And we got talkin about sex, and he said that since ima virgine, he would be super carefull with me. and then i told him im scared of ending up pregnat, he said we wont have sex untill i'm ready but i really want to, we were going too hang out tonight at ten so whom ever reads this please give me some advice, cuz i need it. P.s I really wanna wiff him i just dont knoe what ta dp.
Love,
Lil Ms. Cunfuzzled
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first of all make sure he lovessz you once you do that go for it if u know you r readii nd den use a condom if you dont wana get pregnant you heard of pre cum right .... use a condom itsz da safest thing to do nd the smartest
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-Use a condom, and make sure to use it properly. By this I mean don't use two at once, make sure to roll it on when he's hard, leaving a little bit of room at the tip and then pinching the tip part. Always use lubricated latex condoms. They are 98% effective against STDs and pregnancy, and the non-effective part is usually due to people using them improperly
-Buy some other kind of protection, like VCF (vaginal contraceptive fluid) that is usually found in the same isle as the condoms. This will make sure that, in case something goes wrong with the condom, you probably won't get pregnant.
-Make sure that you are relaxed, turned on, and very wet before he enters you. Otherwise it will be uncomfortable for you, and who wants that the first time?
-Make sure that you are both communicating before and during sex. You don't necessarily have to be having a full out conversation about the deed, but it will be better for both of you if you do things like moan (or whatever you usually do) when it feels good, and telling him to stop if he does anything that hurts.
Most of all, don't let anyone shame you for having sex. Many people have different opinions about the topic, but they don't know you as well as you know yourself.
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You're obviously not ready- not based on your age, but based on the fact that you're nervous. Whenever you're nervous it means you aren't ready, and when you aren't ready, you really shouldn't have sex. Unless you are 100% sure that you're ready, you're not.
If you decide to have sex with him, well then have him wear a condom, though you can still get pregnant with one. Obviously it lessens the chances enormously, but there's still a slight chance.
The only 100% effective way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Make sure he wears a condom, and tell him to go slow at first so he'll be careful with you.
And don't let him try any weird positions with you the first time, just take it slow and you should probably just do missionary position.
hope i helped. let me know.
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you're way too young to be thinking of sex.
your hormones are telling you to do it,
but the right choice is to not do it.
really, think about it. do you want to be seen as the girl who lost her virginity at 13? people are going to say things if they hear about it, your boyfriend might go telling his friends, what if your parents find out?
and even if you do use protection theres always that chance it can break n you'll get pregnant.
my advice basically is don't do it.
i'm sure anybody would say that seeing that you're only 13.
~chris
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ok i just went thru this to and take my word 4 it, dnt do it! please just trust me. im 14 its not just pregnancy u have to worry about... theres also STDS and plenty of otha things. just take it from me. im a virgin and i almost did it but dnt just trust me dnt. if u wana talk to me more let me no im all ears
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