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I'm afraid that he'll cheat on me again
I'm a 15 year old female and I have a question involving a guy. I promise it's not one of those "There's this guy..." questions. About a year ago, I started going out with this guy at my school. He was really sweet and totally devoted and always there for me no matter what. Then, over the summer I went to Europe for 3 weeks on an exchange program. When I got back in Sept. we were at different schools. From a friend I found out he was cheating on me. We broke up. Half a year later we're going out again because we both still like eachother a lot. The problem is I'm in Europe again, for the whole summer this time and I'm afraid that he'll cheat on me again, even though he promised he wouldn't. I want to trust him but I'm afraid of getting lied to and hurt again like last time. I'm not so sure what to do. Was it wrong of me to give him another chance?
I hope you can help me. Thanks!
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I agree that you shouldn't have gotten involved with him again, as he cheated on you, and you are perfectly normal for being worried. It may sound sneaky, but call a friend and ask maybe to check up on him. If he cheated on you before, I don't see much stopping him from doing it again.
To be honest I think it was wrong of you to give him a second chance. Most often, second-chance relationships end even worse than the original relationship. To be even more honest, I think you should break up with him if you get any feeling/indication that he's cheating on you, but until then, just trust that MAYBE he's being faithful.
--Jack
(16/m)
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you should call him, ask how he's doing without you.
tell him how you feel about the situation.
make him feel guilty for what he did last time and maybe he won't do it again.
don't go falling for the guy to hard otherwise if he does cheat on you again i'm afraid you're gonna get heartbroken and i don't want you getting hurt over a someone stupid like him.
~chris/14
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i personally think you should never get back together with someone who cheated on you unless you are totally in love with them, because the likelyness they will cheat again is like 95% or something like that. so why get hurt again.
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