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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
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***/confuzzzed/***
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I think if she iz your best friend then it shouldnt matta if she likes girls i mean it may seem aquared at first but u shouldnt see her n e different from b 4 she told u she iz your best friend and u need to support her.Hope i helped
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Hey it mite be a little wierd butshes still your bff so dont treat her any different.And she trusted you enough to tell you somethin like like so dont act any different
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Treat her the same. Just because she's not as heterosexual as you thought she was, doesn't mean she's a completely different person. Just be understanding and supportive, but don't avoid her or treat her completely differently. She'll love you forever if you can be there for her.
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Same you shouldnt treat someone diff. because of who they are who they like that is a form of racism and thats not cool-trix
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treat her the same its not like its gonna totally change who she is
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so she is gay?? ok well if she is dont treat her different but just be a little more careful around her 2 make sure she does not like u more than she used 2!!!
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No you should treat her the same way you always treat her.She is still the same person you always knew and she should be treated the same way.
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look.. its dusnt matter if ppl r blue gray pink gay strait or ne thing.. where all the same in one way.. and i think that its good that she is atleast tellin u now that shes liking girls.. and i hope i helped bcuz a lot of ppl loose frends bcuz they tell them that they are suttin other than "normal" ppl r.. every ones the same and everyone shood b treated the same.. u shood jus take it as u wurr ur frend and u told her.. if she treated u differntly then u wood b soo upset.. so jus think b4 u act and remember.. everyones the same!! i hope i helped!!
xOo.ashlee
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you should treat her the same ,, she is you bff isnt she ??
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You need to treat her the same. How would you feel if u were in her position? People will be jerks and treat her differently but u need to treat her the same. She needs u now more then ever.
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treat her the same..theres nothin rong with being a lesbian! (eben tho im not one)...buh i mean lesbias are ppl too and just coz she likes grls dosnt mean she cant be your frend...ya noe?
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your friend is probibly going thru a hard time right now getting out who she really is and everything so try to be understanding and if it becomes to much for u tell ur friend how ur feeling and talk about it. hope i could be of some help! u can come to me personally on my advise column page.
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No, don't treat her differently. She just now came out that she likes girls and you didn't know before. She'll always be the same girl you know, its just she likes girls and thats the only thing that is different about her. Just act like she doesn't like girls at all, its really no big deal. Just pretend when she looks at a girl that its a guy. lol. But, no don't treat her differently because I'm sure it was already tough enough to tell you she is starting to like girls.
xoxo Kourtney
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no! because she probally liked gurlz before you told her and you didnt treat her different so ya treat her the same!!
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You dont treat her different. Shes your best friend. She has the same personality no matter what. And besides , If your worried about her having feelings for you. Don't! The reason she prob. told you is because she trusts you enough to not get weirded out by it like sum of the other girls that she knows. Just give ehr support when she needs it. And always be the best friend you can be.
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just treat her the same. if you ever feel unfomfortable around her just make more space betweet the 2 of you or change the subject. remember she is the same person. and besides, its might just be a faze or something. -amanda
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just treat her the way u used to but to be on the safe side i dont say homo,homosexual,dyke,lesbian,fag,queer,or gay cuz one of my friends is like that n all and have a talk bout it just tell her ur cool wit her been the way she is but if u hit on me n n e way our friendship will be over good luck
tracy
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treat her just the same
do ur makeup together
hang at the mall together, the only difference is she likes gurls more then friends now.
She's still the same old BEST FRIEND 4EVER..4ever-keyword
heck there's nuttin wrong wit her, she still cool!!
treat her just the same as u would treat ne1 else
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Don't treat her different if she doesn't act different. Otherwise, you would be performing a level of prejiducy, (not based on race but on sexuality). Unless she starts coming on to you, just treat her the same.
lizzy
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bff= best friend forever....key word FOREVER. A best friend should be there for you through thick and thin. So, why wouldnt you treat her the same. Just because she is a little different doesnt make her the same person. If your nervous about her maybe liking you or something then just make sure she understands that your just going to be friends...maybe it will get hard for her, maybe things are going to tough for her. She probably deffinitly needs a friend through this, what will she have left if you treat her different or you stop liking her? I really do hope everything works out...go to my column if you need nything else......Janay
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Confuzzed...im sure that came very shocking 2 u bc its ur bff and u probably never would have expected it, but if u guys are really bffs dont treat her differently just let her know that all u will be with her is friends and nothing more then that just so she knows. well i hope i helped
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there would really be no reason to treat her different just cuz she likes girls....if she tried to pull anything on you then i would just tell her that your not like that and you prefer boys but other then that...just treat her like you always have
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i think this is the stupidest question not to be rude because the first thing you said was "my bff" if shes your BFF then why do you care who she likes? treat her the same! unless you wanna lose your bff .. good luck
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shes your best friend. she hasnt changed her personality. just what she likes. you really shouldn't treat any different. this probably didn't happen over night so she has probably been like this you just didnt know it. talk to her about how you feel. let it all out. she was honest with you. be honest with her toO!
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Well, You kno I also have a question myself, Would u like to have a friend that likes to talk about girls instead of boys?IF I were u I would kinda be grossed out about that.Well I hoped I helped<Sarah>
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treat her the same :)
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Hey, she's still your friend and I think you care about her so just treat her the same. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
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Hey dont treat her different shes just like any other person. Just be nice to her and comfort her if she has trouble telling anyone else. Shes still the same person, just has lifted some weight off her sholders and kept that a secret.
-holly-
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Treat her the same. Put yourself in her position. Wouldn't you want to be treated the same if you were a lesbian? Other people will probably treat her different. Since your her best friend, she really needs you to stand by her now more than ever.
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