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hey kiddos! well im ur typical 16 yr. old girl and i love 2 have fun and help people! well ask away and if u want 2 know nething bout me just ask or IM luv u all!
E-mail: irishqtpie7488@netscape.net
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Location: illinois
Occupation: employee at a bakery
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Member Since: July 19, 2004
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ok so there is this guy that i really like.. but the problem is he lieks my best friend. but my best friend likes this other guy. the other guy that i dont like likes me and i dont wanna lead him on or anything but i got with him last weekend. we got a little drunk and things got a little crazy. so now the guy i like looks at me weird because i got with one of his best friends.. i dont like his friend that i got with. things just happened. but i really really like this guy and i think i messed things up. what should i do to let him know i like him? and not his best friend.

PS... im old fashioned.. no first moves for me!:) (link)
ok well in my opinion since u say ur old fashioned....u should first explain 2 the guy u got with that u dont like him like that and u didnt mean 2 lead him on but since u both were a bit intoxicated then u couldnt really control what happened and then let him down easy and tell him u just want 2 be friends so he doesnt think that u used him.

then about the one u do like explain 2 him what happened and that u dont have ne romantical feelings for his friend whatsoever, and that things just happened that u couldnt control since u were drunk. then since u dont wanna make the first move get a group of friends 2gether guys and girls and then him so he doesnt think u just wanna get with him right there and u guys can get 2 know each other then and then let it go from there 2 see what happens...and just be yourself and try 2 find things that u both have in common...well keep me updated and i hope i helped ya and if u need nething else u can IM me at irishqtpie7488

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hello i*m really into this guy and i seriously like him SO much i think i might be in love but i hardly see him anymore and its killing me and dont say just ask him to hang out b/c we cant complicated situation... what do i do i have totally fallen for this guys and i CANT get back up!!!! .x.cOnfUseD.x.
p.s i*m 14 and a girl (link)
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well i wont tell u 2 hang out with him seeing that the situation is that u barely see him nemore but u really need 2 tell him how u feel so he knows then u will be able 2 find out if he feels the same way and then maybe u guys can work everything/or something out..dont give up just bc u dont see him alot nemore...well i hope i helped keep me updated and if u need nething send me another question or IM me on irishqtpie7488

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Whats the point in trying to find a girl these days? There is so much competition out there...what is the point? A girl will say she likes you and the next shes on to another guy..that obviously must be better...so whats the point in even trying? Ive tried so many times and every single time its because they find someone better. Theres always going to be someone out there better looking...more athletic...better body...better personality..so tell me..WHATS THE POINT? (link)
Honestly u should keep trying bc there are some girls out there like myself who look at personality and intelligence before body and looks. i mean dont get me wrong body and looks is important but personality and intelligence is what makes u see the real person inside the guy. so keep trying and keep me updated if u ever need ne1 to talk 2 just Im me at irishqtpie7488

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i hjave this friend that i love very much but the things she talks about somtimes i dont beleve are truthful..i know if i confront her then she'll get mad and not want to talk to me and say i think shes a liar so whats the point but i dont like being lied to..what should i do?

i need help! (link)
i know this is something u dont want 2 hear but if this person is a good friend of yours u have 2 be honest with her and tell her how u fell she might be mad in the beginning but after a while she will realize that u werent caling her a liar u were just stating how u fell let me know how it turns out

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Alright, I'm a Christian and last night me and my friend were talking about her dad bieng in the hospital and I told her that I would pray for him, and she said "whats the use in praying since God allready has your life planned out for you"...that totally made sence to me, I mean what is praying going to change. I believe in praying for your sins...but now I'm stuck on this one. What do you guys think?
-Zero (link)
Zero, im christian as well and thats how i used 2 think that well how does praying help a person get better....but a relative of mine was in the hospital a while a go and i was very scared so i started praying to god 2 watch over her and help her get better..and she did...its not that u can be all like hey god dont let them get worse but praying 2 god will help bc he will see that maybe this person deserves a lil more time in his life. well i hope i helped please rate


hey one of my bestest friends has this HUGE crush on this totally hot guy. and he is like so perfect for me. lol. well like he knows that my friend loves him and all and like we had heard rumors that he liked her too. but i dont think he does. ne way i am in love with this guy. and i really want him but i dont want to have a compatition with my best friend. but i just love this guy, and i WANT HIM!!! (link)
I have been in this situation before sort of except i didnt totally want the guy lol! u should just talk 2 ur friend about it and be honest with her about how u feel tell her u really like him and u really wanna go out with him and im sure she will understand or maybe the 3 of u can all hang out and u 2 can get 2 know the real him ya know what im saying? well let me know how it goes.


Hello. I'm Angie. For a few months now, I've been trying to decide whether or not I want to move with my father. I obviously live with my mom, then. And I've finally came down to my decision and I do in fact want to live with him. My mommy has known for awhile now that I've been thinking of moving with him... she doesn't mind it. My dad knows I've been wanting to too and he doesn't mind it one bit, so I'm finally going to talk to him about moving in this weekend when I visit him, but I don't know how to break it to my mom that I want to move with him.... What should I say? (link)
Angie....u have to be honest with your mom and tell her that u want 2 move in with ur dad but tell her that u still wanna be able 2 c her on weekends and occasional visits she will appreciate the honesty hope i helped ya

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omg u r an exceptional writer! i mean i am totally serious i love poetry 2! from those poems u can tell how ur feeling dont stop writing keep it up and if u want ne more opinions on them just ask me or IM me on irishqtpie7488


well my frend.. she likes my boii frend.. but she got uss toghether.. and now she wants to breakuss up!! and even tho my boiifrend sed that hell love me 4 ever and that he wont cut me cuz of her.. im still afraid what shood i do/?? 4give my frend.. or hate her for ever
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Dont hate your friend just bc she likes ur bf i mean do u really wanna lose a friend over a guy??? but u just have 2 explain 2 her that u guys are 2gether and thats just how its gonna be until everything if anything changes..but also she could just be saying she likes him cuz shes jealous that maybe u r spending to much time with him and neglecting her so just tell her how u fell


good luck hope it all helps keep me updated ask anything and dont forget 2 rate me


Ok, Well, my hamster Cocoa is acting very sick latley. I love him so much and would do and thing for him. He seems to be shaking almost and sneezing/sqeaking and i think he might even be trying to cough! He is now forming this crust around his nose and just a lil around his nose. I'm so worried about him, does any one know what sickness this could be or how i should handle this? (link)
I'm not sure what it is but i think u should bring Cocoa to the vet just 2 be safe hope i helped. let me know how it turns out


my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
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Confuzzed...im sure that came very shocking 2 u bc its ur bff and u probably never would have expected it, but if u guys are really bffs dont treat her differently just let her know that all u will be with her is friends and nothing more then that just so she knows. well i hope i helped
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does anybody know any jobs that will allow 14 year olds to work for them

like there's a harris teeter (grocery store)
and a walgreens (pharmacy)
opening right up the street from me

also a blockbuster and bank of america

does any1 kno if any of those allow 14-15 year olds to work there

also if u know any other places that aren't in food service, i don't wanna work anywhere like McDonalds or anything (link)
Not many places will hire at ages 14 or 15 but there are few places that will..honestly basically its only food places t hat will but u can also go and babysit for neighbors or relatives or something like that well i hope i helped




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