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my friends crush...
hey one of my bestest friends has this HUGE crush on this totally hot guy. and he is like so perfect for me. lol. well like he knows that my friend loves him and all and like we had heard rumors that he liked her too. but i dont think he does. ne way i am in love with this guy. and i really want him but i dont want to have a compatition with my best friend. but i just love this guy, and i WANT HIM!!!
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i think that first u should think about who matters most 2 u... the guy that ur friend has a crsuh on n might not like u anyway or ur friend that might be the only one u can come 2 1 daii when u really need sum1.
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This sounds selfish to me i would just let your best friend have a chance with this guy because friends first you know? Unless your best friend knows that you like him then i would talk it out but i wouldnt get in a fight over it before you guys know the facts-trix
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well say u totally "WANT" this guy rite but liking this guy might come between your best friend and you, so you ought to think of who u care more for, esp. since she since it sounds like she liked him first, as time progresses you probally will get over it. ya noe. so mayb just keep searching there are plenty others out there! and mayb u just might find the rite one, ya neva noe!
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I have been in this situation before sort of except i didnt totally want the guy lol! u should just talk 2 ur friend about it and be honest with her about how u feel tell her u really like him and u really wanna go out with him and im sure she will understand or maybe the 3 of u can all hang out and u 2 can get 2 know the real him ya know what im saying? well let me know how it goes.
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You loyalty lies with your friend. Or it should do! Often the right decisions are the difficult ones. Choices like this are a test of character, prove you have one and do the right thing. It doesn't matter how much you want to get in his pants!
Derfel
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Sorry to say this but you can not in a million years go out with him when your friend likes him! :O thats like telling your friend you don't care how she feels. That will cost you a so-called bestfriend and when you eventually break-up you will be left friend and bf less... you should keep your eyes open for other guys.
i hope i helped you!
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The word love gets tossed around like a fucking football. I think you summed it up pretty good with your last statement:You want him. Thats a sign of infatuation. Besides love takes awhile to build. The fact that hes a "totally hot guy" doesn't have anything to do with it huh? But why can't you both share the guy? Why do you have to just go out with one person at 14 or 15? It's not competition,it's just dating.
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i think you gotta tell your friend that you like him too! if she goes crazy at you, then tell her you tried to explain it to her, and if she does go crazy, just let her have the damn guy. but remember ~ your friends are more important than guys!!
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Well, number one: can you afford to mess up? if you have said or done something to offend your friend lately, i would stay clear of guys that she likes. If she has a problem with you going out with him, don't risk a friendship that you say is your bestest friend. But what i don't know that might be a little helpfull, is do you really like this guy? Sure, he's hot, and a lot of girls like him, but is it worth losing a friendship over? Good Luck
Lizzy
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Tell your friend how you feel so you arent mad at her for going out when she didnt know that you liked him. maybe tell him how you feel, maybe he likes you too, you never know
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