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Hi!! I am courtney and I am 13... i am here to give you advice that i hope will help you! remember that no question is too stupid and you wont be made fun of.... because i dont know who you are... *wOw* lol

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Well, I'm getting my Cell Phone in about 22 days.

Anyways, I was wondering:

1. Are camera phones good? I mean do they take good pictures?
2. Which is better: Flip-phone or hand-held?
3. How do you get ringtones? Like not the pre-set ones but ones that are actual songs that are like on the radio and stuff.

Thanks!

mmk.. i would recomend the t-mobile, motorola pay as you go flip AND camera phone.. this has a very very good camera.. it is a good size & nice looking.. & you can buy the actual songs off of the phone and they are 1.99 per song.. if you dont want a pre-paid phone then i would suggest buying like any camera/flip phone, its worth it if you ask me.

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okay so im 15/f and i like this guy alot. i think i might actually love him too. hes 14/m, a few months younger than me. but my one friend things im nuts! i mean her perfect dream guy is taller and older than her. While i seemed to always like younger guys.. (not too young though) But i mean shes just like "well are you sure you like him? i mean its okay if you though he was cute but liking him?" and i think its just so frustraighting! and i know i shouldnt care what she thinks about him but i mean... it would be nice to just have her be like more supportive about it. what do you say?? and i'm so sorry this is so long.. ill rate

well.. if you really have feelings for him.. it really doesnt matter what she says.. if it really bugs you that much though..you should talk to her about it.. in a nice way - just be like i really like him.. & im hoping that you can be supportive abuot this situation i am going through or whatyever. and im sure if yuo and the boy actually begin to go out she will ease her way into supporting you.. and if not then she is not a very good friend.. and yeah.. hoope i helped.

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im embarrassed to have an orgasm infront of my boyfriend, any helpg etting over the fear?

well he shouldnt care! especially if he is your boyfriend & he wants to have sex with you or whatever.. he knows that its part of it.. so he probably wont mind.

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Ok, so here's the deal, I have this REALLY good guy friend, I mean he's like my best friend. Well, he just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and it looks like they aren't gonna get back together like he wants to.Well... I have started kinda liking him. Well, last night, me and two of my other friends went over to his house while one of his other friends was there. Well, he kept flirting withme, and like touching me and stuff,then I was like "Let's play truth or dare" and he goes "I dare myself to have 7 minutes in heaven with -my name-" so, I kinda just laughed.. but, he was serious, and so was everybody else in the room. So, we go in the closet, and they shut us in. Well, I didn't think he liked me, and I didn't think anything would happen. Then, he started touchingme, and like pullin me closer, and we starting kissing (this was my first kiss),then we started making out and he was like touching my butt and everything. Then, we get out of the closet, when our time is up, and a little while later he started talkin to his friend privately, and I found out that he told his friend that he was gonna ask me out. Then, we went back in the closet for a few more minutes.. and that was it. But, I'm so confused, cause this was last night, and he hasn't asked me out, and he has said a few things about his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what to think.. and I feel so crappy cause I really dolike him alot.. and I just wish he would ask me out. Sorry this was so long, but if anybody has any advice it would be greatly appreciated, and I'll rate 5's. Thanks.

i would say give him some time & dont try to rush things.. because he JUST broke up with his girlfriend.. and you dont just want to be the rebound girl that he uses to make his ex jealous & such things.. so just give him time to get over his ex & to think striaght.. & yeah he prolly is sending mixed signals bcuz he is also confused.. rate me please love ya *courtney

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somebody help!

i really like my b/f. i think i love him. i know ppl say oh you dont know what love is when your 13. but i cant talk or breathe around him. and when he touches me i get chills up my spine. heres the problem. ppl r always tellin me hes cheatin and i dont know who to believe my b/f or my best frends?i mean i want to believe him but i think it mite be true because whenever we go to this dance place these same girls are all over him and he doesnt do anything he like ignores me.....i dont know what to do. i have tryed to break up with him but wen i try i cant i think im in love...plzz help

from confused!!!!!

welll i would say talk to your friends about why they say he is cheating on you.. and then talk to your bf about it.. ask him why he ignores you when you go to that dance place.. and that it hurts you to see him with other girls like that.. and if he continues to totally & completly ignore you & hang around with other girls that arent you.. well then i guess talk to him again.. but if you actually catch him cheating on you.. well i guess you shold prlly break up with him.. ik you wont want to.. but no one ever deserves to be put second.. and never deserves to be cheated on and treated like garbage.. so i hope everything works out *RATE ME PLEASE* -- courtney --

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My boyfriend and I have been dating since July 4th and he really liked me before then we've dated in the past and now lately he's been acting like he doesnt care and he says he'll call me back and never does and he says he wants to hang out but in order to hang out he has to call me! how can i get my boyfriend to like me more?!! and i need something really smart and please dont say break up with him because i dont want to..

THanks in advance**
i'll rate high

i would say just talk to him abuot it.. you shouldnt have to make him like you more.. if your going out already he should alredy like you.. right? right.. well yeah just ask him why he never calls.. or something of that sort.. and maybe he will understand that you really care & that he isnt treating you right... or there might be a reasonable explaination for why he doesnt call you back.. just talk to him abuot it.. you two are going out.. you should be open with eachother abuot these matters .. rate me please love ya *courtney

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ok, my school is starting in about a week, and i jus got my braces off. how do i make them look sparkly white in just 5 full days straight? i want them to look as white as they can get. please help me? how can I do it, wut are sum ways? thank-you

i would say dont waste your money on like crest whitestips or anythng of that sort.. because i have them.. and they take MUCH longer then 5 days to work & show results.. well you CAN buy them & use them daily or whatever.. but results will take longer than 5 days.. i wuold say just brush your teeth after every single meal & after everytime you eat anything.. *courtney*

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I've been trying to be a good singer lately. I went for lessons but they did absolutely nothing. I've been singing everyday after school for the past 3-4 years. It's the only time I can because I get embarassed. We had a school musical and when I had to sing to tryout, I choked. But before that, I sang for this girl that wanted to hear me and we both agreed I did good. So bottom line: How can I become a better singer and get over being afraid.

okay well i am a singer. well i enjoy singing and it is my "talent" i have also taken singing lessons for 5 years. (since i was 9 and i am now 13) i have went to 3 different places. but i didn't really like any of them. but they help with confidence. I dont know where you live.. but if you have ever heard of the studio R.A.P.A. that is a good singing place. it is also dancing, but you get assigned a teacher and u practice music and singing and you get to be in recitals too. so its like the whole deal. but theres nothing to be scared about when singing if front of an audience. i was in 3 recitals, 2 talent shows, a musical.. all county, solo fest and i had a solo in chorus. so i am used to it. but just do it. i mean what is the worst that can happen really? just sing, they will like it, and i know from previous experience that if you forget a word it is not that big of a deal. i forgot words twice and i mean the show still went on, the crowd is not going to burst in laughter or boo you off the stage. i promise. IM me if you want to talk babiixcorutx3 -- hope i helped

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ok, my birthday is in 5 days and my mom usually asks all her kids what they want and where they want to go out to dinner for their birthday. well, she didn't ask me anything yet and she forgot 2 years ago and i think she forgot again =/. i feel like she doesnt even care and i've tried to hint to her that i actually have a birthday unless i'm delirious and its not april 21st today?

dont worry about it. she may be planning a surprise? who knows. just wait until the day b4 if she still has not mentioned it.

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Hey you guyz does any one know if the ab lounge works. If so likie if it works good or not.

i have the ab lounge 2 !!! its great and you can feel it but i dont think it really hurts but you can tell its working. its very nice. but the only downside is that when you lean back to do the crunch repeatedly you get dizzy.but i mean if you can deal with it than your okay !!

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My friend's b-day party is on Saturday. I also have a very important softball practice that same day. They are both at the same time. I

try half of each. go to softball for a bit then to the party. but if the party is longer than the practice. then go to whole practice then to the party, but dont even bother going to the aprty if youre only going to be able to be there for an hour or less. thats kinda rude.

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Well everytime i go some where like walking around my neighbor hood or driving in my car all these guys stop and look at me! its really starting to make me mad. I was walking home from school and this guy stopped and asked me my name and stuff. and just today a car full of guys stopped and asked me to come over to them its really gettin on my nerves. i dont dress slutty or any thing i just wear jeans a a big shirt or shorts and a long shirt. how do i get them to stop!

it apparently means you are good looking ! thats a plus lol. i mean live it up. i wish guys would stop for me gosh. dont be too worried. unless someone like tries to seriously pull you in their car. well than you have every right in the world to be worried. i mean dont change the way you look just so guys will stop being asses. its the way they work.

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ok ther is aguy at skool and we r friends.. he is always tells me thing that he doesnt tell other people ... and same thing i can tell him stuff like that to.. and we always talk on the fone 24/7..... and we always flirt .. i dont kno if he likes me .. i really do and how can i find out??
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he may be into you or he could just confide in you and know you will keep his secrets and you could be close friends. just casually bring it up. be like so who do you like these days? or sumthing? ya never know.

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Earlier today i went to the orthodontist and got my braces changed and now they are extremely sore and i can't stand it i've taken medicine and everything but it didn't help...I need your advice on how to make them stop!...they hurt so bad ive cried my eyes out over them!..thanks in advance i will rate if thats what you want!

take aleve or motrin....(medicines) and maybe go to a drugstore and buy Anbesol or Oragel ( they numb your gums for a bit so you cant feel them ) they are just like little tubes with clear gel in them and you squeeze it on or w/e

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i have naturally curly hair, and i want to straiten it. i have a revlon flat iron and it works ok, but it makes my hair look dry, and burned...i use silk therapy, but it still looks dry. do you know any straitner under 50 dollars that will straiten my hair, but not burn it? thank you so much!

Wet 2 straight hair straightener. gosh i have it. LOVE ITTTTT . you can use it when your hair is soaking wet too.. but that really makes it dry. but i dunno. deff. use Garnier Fructis shampoo .. but especially Garnier Fructis conditioner. its so good ! seriously i mean .. ughhh i cant even explain its wonderfulll !

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I don't know what's wrong with me. All my life I NEVER shed any of hair on my head. Hardly any hairs were left in my combs and brushes. Now all the sudden my hair has been falling out. Not just pieces of damaged hair, I'm talking the ROOT and everything. there was tons of hairs on my school uniform today and all my friends had to pick them off. If I run my fingers thru my hair there's a whole bunch of full hairs in my hand. This is not normal, what could be wrong? (there's no change in my diet)

if your anorexic or dont eat your hair falls out. but you sed there was no change in your diet. now i dont mean to alarm you.. but i know that ppl with cancer.. there hair falls out. so tell your mom or dad. they might know.. or a less frightening thing.. did you die your hair lately ? cuz if you mess up and scrub it into your scalp i have heard your hair can fall out? i dunno tell yor parents !

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is it normal that when you put your hand on your stomach you feel a heartbeat-like thing? it like pumps and feels like there is a heart beating in your stomach? everytime i touch my stomach it is like that, as if it has its own pulse or something.

have found a vien congrats lol.

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A couple nights ago I got the worst feeling.. like something was TERRIBLY wrong but everyone and everything ended up being okay. So I don't know why I got that feeling. But lately, i started noticing bruises and discolorations on my body. Most of them don't hurt. Then today i started getting sick.. like i could barely breathe, i was dizzy, my head was pounding, and i blacked out a few times. I don't know what's wrong. Someone please help me.. and please be serious.. this isn't funny at all. I'm really scared.

okay well i think you deff. need to see your doctor right away or if you black out any more go to the hospital. definitly tell your parents bcuz it sounds kinda serious. could it be intirnul bleeding?i dont know what the symptoms are. but i thought it was when bruises show up and like they dont really hurt? but dont take my word on that. deffffffffffff. tell your parents and see a doctor !!

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ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do..

i would say deff. break up with him. but not yet.. haha. well first talk to him in person. just take him to the side or sumthing and tell him how you feel. just say that you noticed that he doesnt seem to care about you and he is really being mean and hurting your feelings when he says he doesnt weant to hang out with you or to break up with him or w/e he says. and if you see no improvement than i would say the next step would be to break up with him. but dont just say were over or w/e tell him what he did wrong so he knows what he needs to work on to be a better b/f in the future and tell him that if he changes maybe you two can get back together sometime. hope i helped

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I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 monthes now, and we havent kissed yet... part of the problem is that i havent really found the time right, i would like a spot that (i know this may be kinda unlikly) but later on down the road maybe if i proposed to her, it would be the same spot... the other problem is that she never makes any "moves". The only times we talk is when i call her, (or at school) and the only times she ever calls me, is when she missed my call and is just returning it. Now a bunch of things are going on, and we are both a little buisier (sp) and really stressed out. We both have a really short fuse at the moment, and i know sometimes i can be kinda annoying. What should i do since we are both really, really competative, im affraid if i dont say it exactly right, it will turn into a fight, and i havent had one with her (or any girl) yet, but i really dont want to... so what should i say to her to kinda tell her i dont want to be doing everything in the relationship?

call her and ask her if she wants to go somewhere or come to your house or sumthing. i think that you two need to hang out more often then you will be alone together and have a chance to kiss. or even just a kiss goodbye, after school, when you see her out of school whenever, you guys dont have to have a make out fest. even just a kiss when she leaves. also talk to her.. be like why dont you ever call me? but if she never ever calls or even tries to talk to you or hang out with you. you may want to consider breaking up with her? i know thats not the greatest choice. but i mean if you two never talk, you have no time for eachother and she doesnt seem to be interested in you.. well ya know? well do what you think is best for the both of you! hope i helped

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