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she thinks im a freak
okay so im 15/f and i like this guy alot. i think i might actually love him too. hes 14/m, a few months younger than me. but my one friend things im nuts! i mean her perfect dream guy is taller and older than her. While i seemed to always like younger guys.. (not too young though) But i mean shes just like "well are you sure you like him? i mean its okay if you though he was cute but liking him?" and i think its just so frustraighting! and i know i shouldnt care what she thinks about him but i mean... it would be nice to just have her be like more supportive about it. what do you say?? and i'm so sorry this is so long.. ill rate
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my friend is dating a 14 year old and shes 15 and her friend liked him. ok there is nothing wrong with liking younger guys as long as the age gap isnt too big and urs isnt if shes not supportive of your liking him chances are she never will be friends are weird like that she is just looking out for you or thinks you can do better not caring what ur friends think isnt always the best idea listening to what they say isnt the same as following what they say she may have a reason for what she thinks its not that shes not supportive its that she wants you to do the best you can and as her friend she wants you to be happy with that and know that shes happy w/ whoever your dating
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well.. if you really have feelings for him.. it really doesnt matter what she says.. if it really bugs you that much though..you should talk to her about it.. in a nice way - just be like i really like him.. & im hoping that you can be supportive abuot this situation i am going through or whatyever. and im sure if yuo and the boy actually begin to go out she will ease her way into supporting you.. and if not then she is not a very good friend.. and yeah.. hoope i helped.<3
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You need to just straight out tell her that everyone has different opinions, and you happen to like the guy. Is it a crime? Is it going to kill her if YOU like a guy? I think not. I would even go so far as to telling her to stop being a drama queen. Trust me, if you stand up to her she'll respect you for that, although she may look like she's hurt or mad, she'll get over it. Just like who you want to like and don't let people like that get to you. They're not worth your time.
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your friends do not make major decisions like this one. if you ar eworried tht she will judge you just tell her tht its not her crush its yours! not to be mean but maybe this friend isnt the cooliest. just try but think to urself now.... do you like this guy now or do you like him as a friend.
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well, you shluldnt care what she thinks. but sometimes people can be like that. yes it would be nice for her to support you, but things dont always work out the way you want them. now, you sound like a nice enough girl. id say if you like him then ask him out. age doesnt matter these days, and neither do freinds's opinions. hope i helped! nellie x0x
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first of all, its your choice to like whoever you want, i mean you cant help who you like right? i understand your friends point of view, becuase guys are own age are immature as it is. But does she really know this guy? If you like him im sure hes fine for you! And its only a few months difference...i say you go for it! Just tell your friend the way you feel about him and how you dont like her putting your feelings down. You know how you feel-she cant dictate your feelings. If shes a true friend, and im sure she is, she'll understand and be more supportive! hope this helps! <3333
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she's your friend, she just wants whats best for you. she doesnt want you to get into something BIG like i got myself into,...alone. she's just tryin' to protect you from heart break etc.
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