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you know how the united states won the men's 4x100 relay against france? and you know how michael phelps like threw his arms up and was yelling in happiness? well the guy behind him (unfortunately, i don't know his name, but he is on the united states team) like grabs michael phelps from behind in order to hug him and celebrate too. and i want a video of that portion.

FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=21lUFXQ4ycE

if you fast forward to 7:27 and watch, the guy behind michael phelps grabs him (not violently) and pushes him aside to see what happened. i want the front view of that.

i know they aired it on TV, but i can't seem to find the front view ANYWHERE! i searched google and youtube but it always shows from either behind OR doesn't show the grabbing part at all, only showing phelps moments after the "grab."

can someone please help me? i really want the front view of that guy grabbing phelp's amazingly toned body. please help me i promise that if you find what i'm looking for i'll five you a 5 and if you need anymore details just TELL ME AND I'LL ADD THEM!

IN CONCLUSION: i'm simply looking for a video of the guy behind michael phelps grabbing phelp's body miliseconds after the united states won the men's 4x100 from the FRONT. not the back like the youtube link above.

http://olympicgames2008medaltally.blogspot.com/2008/08/beijing-2008-swimming-men-4x100.html

towards the middle of the page is the video
i'm pretty sure the last three or four seconds is what you're looking for.

wasn't it an amazing race?!

oh and the guy who grabs phelps name is garrett weber-gale

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is there a website where i can search for movies, that i cannot remember the name of? i know what happens but i cant remember any characters names. and if anyone knows a website where i can search it based in key information please let me know

imdb.com

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i masterbate using the handshower..it is a real pleasure..its really intense but dunno why my genitals have become big so have my side bones and my back hip bone..is this serious??? do i consult a doctor??? is this normal??
can u suggest an exercise or anythng so that i can get them back to their normal size???

I'm sorry to say that I can't really help you with this because i honestly don't know. If you think it's serious, then by all means consult as doctor just in case. I'm really not sure if it's normal, and no i can't suggest an exercise to get them back to their normal size.
♥danielle

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I'm on a diet & I'm eating out with my friends tomorrow & were going to go to this place called The Pita Pit. They have a nutritional information chart online but I'm not sure how accurate it is. I was going to get a pita with turkey breast, lettuce, tomato, & honey mustard. Does this sound like a good choice?? The info said it had about 4g of fat & was around 405 calories. Does this sound about right & would it be a smart choice?? I really want to stick to my diet. Thanks!!

yes that sounds right and would be a very smart choice. if you happen to go off your diet a little bit, don't worry about it. as long as it doesn't happen often, it won't really effect you. everyone makes mistakes.

♥danielle

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if i do twenty in the monring tenty in the afternoon/night
what would it do for my body?
seriously its the only excersize i'm starting to do.
also, what kind of excersizes can i do to lose weight? i want to weigh like 15 pounds less really badly.

14/f

sit ups won't really help you lose weight. they're calisthenics, and all calisthenics really do is tone and build a little bit of muscle.

like the other people said cardio exercises are good for weight loss.
running, biking, swimming etc.
you could take up some sports to lose weight; in my opinion swimming and soccer would be the best because swimming also tones your body at the same time, and soccer is pretty much all running, so that would be great if you;re trying to shed a few pounds.

eating right is also important when trying to lose weight. try to stay away from fats, but not all. monounsaturated fats are good because they come from vegetables and can help lower cholesterol. polyunsaturated fats are also good because they lower cholesterol too; they're found in fish.
saturated fats aren't great for you, but they're found in nearly all foods so its hard to avoid them.
trans fats are the absolute worst kind of fats. not only are they unhealthy, they stick to your arteries and eating too many can lead to a heart attack. not that a 14 year old has to worry about that, but still. avoid them at all costs.

drink plenty of water. remember, water has 0 calories, so drink as much as you want :] you won't gain any weight from it so don't worry if you feel bloated; thats good. drink a glass of water before meals because it will fill up your stomach and you'll eat less. try to stay away from soft drinks and sugary drinks. if you drink soda regularly, you will lose at least 2 lbs within a week if you stop. if you get tired of water, you could always add a little flavor by adding lemon or lime.

also when you diet, DO NOT try to go without food for long periods of time. not only will you be very hungry and probably eat more than you usually would at meals, it will not help you lose any weight. in fact, you'd probably lose weight because your metabolism will slow down. i'd explain further but this is getting pretty long now.

if you have any more questions, feel free to ask me :]
♥ danielle

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how should i go about it.

5'4 100 lbs?
hun, you're underweight.

if you're unhappy with your body and maybe your stomach is flabby or stuff like that, losing weight won't do anything for that.
you should do some exercises to tone your body then, like sit ups, push ups, squats, etc.
calisthenics basically.

if you do want to lose weight though, even though i advise you not to, make sure you do it in a healthy way. rather than eating 3 big meals a day, eat 4-5 smaller meals. eat plenty of fruits and vegetables and take multivitamin pills. whatever you do, don't try to eat less or go days without eating because that will actually make you gain weight in the end because it slows down your metabolism. while exercising, choose something that you enjoy doing so you'll be able to stick to it and do it consistently.

♥danielle.

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Hi.
I've come across yalyta.com. It's a cheap designer clothing online store.
But, none of my friends have ever heard of it.
Has anyone had experience with them? Is it good or bad?

it's a scam.
unfortunately, if something sounds too good to be true, it usually is too good to be true. and considering the fact that no one you know has heard of it does not make the situation much better. Plus, I looked at the website, and even if it wasn't a scam and they actually gave you merchandise, I doubt ANYONE would actually sell items like seven jeans for 20 bucks.

♥danielle

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I'm going to a high school graduation next month; I'm not graduating, but my boyfriend is. We go to the same school. I'm going to be sitting with his parents during the graduation. What should I wear? We go to an average, middle class, public high school. Here are some outfits:
1.Black dress pants with a nice shirt and nice shoes
2.Khaki pants with a nice shirt and nice shoes
3.Jeans and a tee shirt with sneakers
4.Jeans with a nice shirt and nice shoes

i agree with the person who mentioned a skirt. but if you do decide to wear a skirt, make sure it's not too short. you don't want to send the wrong image. a nice knee length skirt that flows, and a simple white top with some heels would be nice. the first outfit would work too. i'd stay away from khaki, but if you decide to go with jeans then don't wear sneakers with them.
♥

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Can someone tell me what type of dress most girls wore on their grade 8 grad?

http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewInCat.asp?CatID=113

Like the green one in the second row, or someone simple, or something cute but simple but special material like the two poka dotted ones on the 2nd row?

Because Everyone last year wore like the green one but I was wondering if it's ok to wear like the poka dotted ones, I don't want to be dresing disrespectful or anything.

And what style did most girls have their hair? Leave it normal, striahgt down, Curled down, or tied in a half pony tail and curled?

Oh and I'm taking my friend too so what dress would look good on an asian?

the polka dotted ones are really cute. Just make sure your dress isn't too short, at least keep it at knee length.

and about your hair, are you going to be wearing a graduation cap? because if you are, don't put it in a half ponytail or ponytail. i tried half ponytail last year and it didn't work at all. curls would probably be cute.

♥danielle

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I want a halter tankini bathing suit this summer. The only thing is, they never have cute patterns. I guess designers usually assume tankini=middle aged women. Stores that I shop at only have bikinis such as PacSun and local surf shops. And other places I know of have ugly patterns. Are there any online websits that have cute patterns? Thanks a lot (:

victoria's secret has a lot of cute ones, delias too.
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/?cgname=OSSWMTNKZZZ&cgnbr=OSSWMTNKZZZ&rfnbr=157

http://store.delias.com/browse.do?categoryKey=seasonal&topnavTrack=seasonal

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does anyone know where I can get these shoes at?
http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls/Adidas&id=48747

i don't want to get them from a website. thanks

well journeys is a store so you could get them there
but since they're adidas, you could probably get them at a sporting goods store like modells etc.

or, you could get them at an adidas outlet if you happen to live near one.
you could find a store near you using this link
http://www.adidas.com/us/heritage/shop.asp?strCountry=us&strBrand=heritage&lpos=Header&lid=Shop

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This is EXACTLY what I want. A North Face jacket in the style Pumori, in a size medium and being pink (don't care if it's either oddysey pink or captiva pink, either is ok) Where can I get exactly that?Websites or stores are ok. Thanks if you can help!

ok, heres an idea.
since the north face has a website,
and you have an internet connection,
you could go to www.thenorthface.com
and find it!
they have it. i saw it myself.
but im not going to give you the link because i'm 100% sure that you're capable of clicking a mouse 3 times to get to the product.

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I'm in 7th grade & I'm taking Algebra1. Do you think this is advanced?

It depends of the Board of Education for your state.
In the New York City Board of Education [I live in NYC], 7th grade is when you start to learn algebra.
So it really depends on your state.

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are the adidas addissage(sp?) slippers still in style? I know they were last year, but I dunno. I play soccer, so I wanna know if I should get them for the Spring, cuz also, they're pretty cute, heh. Also, where can I buy them? They sell them at a store called All 4 her I think but I cant find it on the internet, and idk where its located either IRL! unless theres another way i can get them... thats not thru the internet. thankyou!!!!!!!!!!!

i think they're still in style...i see a lot of people wearing them.
http://www.shopadidas.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2007343&shopGroup=R&cp=2019628.2039726.2039729.2020255&parentPage=family&colorId=
i went to adidas.com and found them :]

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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating.

I'm sorry, but to me it just sounds like you're some whiny brat who expects everyone to be perfect and have everything go their way or else they get all depressed. If you really want to help yourself, stop with the self pity and actually do something. If you keep thinking in such a negative way, you'll never love life or be happy. If you don't like anyone, well then thats your problem because you cant change people. you'll either have to lower your standards a bit and become more tolerant of people, or just sit there and complain for the rest of your life. Do you have any hobbies? If you do, try joining some clubs or groups that involve whatever it is you like to do. And maybe girls dont like you because of the vibe youre giving off. Try to be a little more enthusiastic and then maybe people will talk to you and you can find someone that meets your standards. Sitting there and complaining will not solve or change anything. Trust me. And if you're going to, give me a 1 because I really dont care. Im sick of people sitting there and complaining when really its themselves that's the problem, not the world.
-danielle.

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if you had to choose between the Ipod Video, a nice digital camera, and a PSP, which 2 would you choose and why, could you give me some reasons?

hmm...i would choose the PSP and digital camera because iPod videos store music, videos, and pictures. A PSP does all that, plus you can go on the internet with it and play games. And the digital camera because..well...if you eliminate the iPod then thats the only other one left lol
hope i helped

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i was on youtube and i found this on the top videos: http://youtube.com/watch?v=gSmYVlofcZE does that really happen when you get your period? lol probably not but im still wondering ... thx

nooo not even close. thats just someone with wayyy too much time on their hands :]

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I had unprotected sex on friday night and got my period on saturday. Is there still a chance I may be pregnant?

theres always the risk of getting pregnant after having unprotected sex. id take a pregnancy test just to make sure.

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Is there any codes on myspace that can hide your comments, but you'd still have a link that says "Add Comment". Can you give it to me, or the site? I don't mean a comment box by the way.

add comment


just put your friend id where it says to. And you can change the part where it says add comment to anything you want, like "leave me a comment" or "comment here!" etc.

♥danielle

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