Member Since: October 23, 2005
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I am a good writer and I LOVE writing shor stories. I am 13/f. I was looking for a new topic to write about but no one has any ideas. I like writing about reality... meaning I don't like to write fantasies. For example, I don't write about dwarfs, dragons, elves, etc. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone had a summary or something of something yall have heard or something so I can turn it into a story. Much appreciation.
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write about real life and everyday ppl. gives u someting to think about
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My mother just recently died from lung cancer. She was just diagnosed on Sept. 15th of this year and she passed away on October 28th, 2005.
My boyfriend of several years had already told his spoiled rotten, self-centered, selfish daughter that she could have a Halloween party before the incident with my mother came up.
Instead of being here, supporting me, helping me make the needed arrangements and just being a shoulder to lean on, he decided it was more important to help out with his daughter's Halloween party, because everybody knows "Courtney" comes first....no matter what!
I think that's about as sorry as you can get. What do you think? (link)
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what on earth wold make him think tht his sister comes before his girlfriends dead mother! i just dont understand. we have to do something about this. its just not right.
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I'm 16 and I've never been in love. I'd just like to know if anyone else out there has ever been in my position, because I really feel alone. All of my friends throw around the word "love" after having a 2 hour bf/gf relationship. But, I'm scared when I'm older that I won't ever have that one person to wake up and want to be with everyday! It like scares me. Had anyone else been in my position? (link)
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its perfectly normal. infact its kinda great cuz not only will you have to decide between your first love or " wait i just made out with him at a party". you will have a pure relationship with your first love bc it will mean tht much more. in other words you are normal and special! aha
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my girlfriend is having a halloween party and i forgot about it and made plans with my friends to go to the movies. should i go to half the party and then to the movies or to all of the party. do you think my girlfriend will be mad if i dont go to the whole party (link)
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well you might not want to tell her you forgot about it. but more or less along the lines couldnt avoid this. i think you should go do both and make everyone happy. your girlfriend wont be ubber mad but she will understand tht not everything revloves around her and unless she does think like tht, she wont give it a second thaught
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ok...im like one of the most popular girls at school but my friend is known as a "almost geek" and i love her to death shes like my sister...and i have been so popular since elementary school and i cant give that up but i also cant give my bestfriend up...Why is this so hard for me to decide on?What should i do give up popularity or help my friend become popular 2? please help!!
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okay so your popular... ur friend, er, not so much. that is perfectly fine. if you are as popular as you say you are then yopu should have no problem setting the example for your other popular friends. and besides she is your FRIEND not just last seasons clothing
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Last saturday I went on a "date" with my guy friend Jake. After we went out to eat, we sat in his car for a few minutes and just talked. I've never hugged him, or anything. But we were sitting there, and I put my head down to pick something up when he touched my hair and said, I love your hair. you look so beautiful with it. After that I was like, omgosh he's the best guy ever! Is this normal? Like just from him touching my hair and telling me I look beautiful - like I think I'm really starting to like him.
Sorry if this sounds cheesy. (link)
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you might just be feeling even more feelings then you were before. previously you have had feelings for him right? but nothing major. now that he sees you as beautiful and flirts more often you can make a move but just make sure. go out with him again and again until it just feels right.... or possibly not right, but whatever one you choose will be better for the both of you.
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Hey ummm does anyone have any cute hair styles because i'm runing out of ideas! I have dark brown hair and wear mostly pink( if it helps). It also usually frizzes!!! Well thanx. Will rate high for cute hairstyles!!! (link)
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bed head products help with frizz control. pink and orange and yellows generally look good on brunettes. depends on the deepness of the brown i could go further
dark dark brown- lighter colors and more reds
mocha chocolate- reds and browns
light brown- yellow and pink
blonde- well blondes ar'nt brunettes
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okay so im 15/f and i like this guy alot. i think i might actually love him too. hes 14/m, a few months younger than me. but my one friend things im nuts! i mean her perfect dream guy is taller and older than her. While i seemed to always like younger guys.. (not too young though) But i mean shes just like "well are you sure you like him? i mean its okay if you though he was cute but liking him?" and i think its just so frustraighting! and i know i shouldnt care what she thinks about him but i mean... it would be nice to just have her be like more supportive about it. what do you say?? and i'm so sorry this is so long.. ill rate (link)
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your friends do not make major decisions like this one. if you ar eworried tht she will judge you just tell her tht its not her crush its yours! not to be mean but maybe this friend isnt the cooliest. just try but think to urself now.... do you like this guy now or do you like him as a friend.
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My face skin is really dry and the dry skin starts to like fall off. I think its very nasty. Is there anyway i can get my face skin not to be dry? (link)
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ok i had a similar dish. just get morning glow moisterizer. i saw a difference. hopefully you will to.
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I feel bad for duming her. I dumped her because i felt bad about dating her because my parents did not want me to.If i date her again i will feel bad for disobeying my parents. what can i do?
And if there is no hope for me what do people do to make themselves happier? (link)
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okay, if your parents said you couldnt eat would you do it? No! because its what you HAVE to do. if you really love her then go out with her again but if your doing it out of self pitty then spare the heartbreak and just make up and close loose ends.
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i had two dreams of me getting raped. i it wat does it mean and wat should i do help me plez. (link)
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its perfectly normal to have nightmares. just last night i had 3 in a row. just think off your favorite thing tht you dont get tht often ~ FOR ME IT WAS CHOCOLATE ~ and calm your self down. either tht take a good book out and listen to your fav. cd. just keep your mind off it. trust me if you avoid the situation it wont go away but if you replace it, you will soon overcome your fears.
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Okay. I just got the nerve to try out a tampon. I was all relaxed and read directions and I finally got it. So, I was excited I did cause I wimpped out before. and my mom got all mad at me cause she said i could get toxic shock syndrom and like something in my vagina broke? What the heck is she talking about? Im scared to use another one cause she freaked out. So help me please!!!!!!!! (link)
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your vagina will not break! i had the same prob. i was so totally afraid but you just gotta do it. its not gunna hrt or feel awkward. and if i would have known tht when i started i would have never chosen pads in the first place.
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I need some 1 2 help me out on this one when ever im with my girlfriend and i hold her hand i get a boner how can i cantrol that cause its really embarassing and i need help fast plz (link)
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tape it to your leg
im kidding u might kick her
no seriously just control urself as much as you can okay and breath.
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Ok, well I have no ideas for a costume for Halloween! We just went to a cheap store and bought some stuff that my mom basically picked out that I don't like. Does anyone have any ideas on what to do with stuff I could buy at wal*mart or stuff around the house. No Devil Costumes cause i have like 3 friends being those. thanks! (link)
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well my friend for halloween is being funny things like she is being a bush. shes taping tree limbs on her shirt and arms and running then crouching down really fast to scare ppl. make your costume practical and funny.
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okay im 13.. i started my period 2 months 3 months ago.. and like they went okay for the 1stand 2nd month i had it.. but this month i havent had my period and i usualy start on the 20th and its the 24th.. and im a virgin just so you kno ..lol .. whats wrong with me?? is this normal?THANKS! (link)
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ntohing a lot of the time girls in the first year have very VERY iregular cycles.
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Dear Advicenators,
I'm a 13 year old girl who is turning 14 in January. My hieght is appromiatley 5'3" and I weigh 103 lbs. I feel fat and ugly and I am determined to loose 5-10 lbs. in the next month or two. What do I need to do? I feel so gross, and when I'm flirting w/ my cush and he offers to give me piggy back rides I always have to turn him down bc/ i think i'll break him. How do I loose weight fast, and not to much exercising because exercise=muscle, which is heavier then fat. I want to build my stomach and my butt and thighs so they are extremely tight and fit. I want to have the perfect body, what diet can I go on, or simple quick exercises that only loose fat and build ur stomach fat, no muscle! Thank-you. I'll rate (link)
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well it turns out you are pretty perportionatte to your size. now if you were 4'9'' and 130 pounds then you would be over weight. but then again its never to late to lose a few pounds ~few being the opprative word~ and if you monitor you eating habits ~ and yes you HAVE to eat!~ and make sure you do excersize about 3 or 4 times a week you will be down to 98 pounds in about a month. dont do crash diets theyd o hurt you as much ppl tell you they dont. and i am pretty sure you wont break him bc unless he is smaller then you he can support you, especially when you r only 103 pounds.
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
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i think what he is trying to do is to make you think things like what you are feeling right ow to see if you still like him. or he really does like you. hes not ignoring you but just giving you a little breathing room before he dives in at you again. if you truely like him you can continue but if you aren't sure, let it be known to him so he isnt lead on by your flirtation. its okay to flirt but when he finds out tht he wants to be with you for ever and you still aren't sure... how will you feel then.
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ok well I am 14 and when I am around guys any guys i tend to go in look in the mirrior alot it is weird I don't have a boyfriend but I want one but know one I know is my type I like a few guys at school thats it
My question is why do I act so weird around the guys and why can't I get a boyfriend and I am not ugly but I guess I have a preppy personallitie]
well i hope i get helped (link)
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i think the reason you look in the mirror all the time is because you want to look nice for the boys ~ future potential ~ because you want to be known as available. ni bigg im proud
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my boyfriend is sort of moving too fast for me. we've made out but he was trying to really touch my the whole time. i liked it for a while.then is just got annoying. i love him more then like..i think¿ what should i do? (link)
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tell him to either back the hell off or to go slower i mean how old r you? i think if hes going to fast for u to pull a fake break_ when u tell him its over until you stop this_
good luck < becca
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I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 6 months. We're very romantically close, and quite physically close(we've only kissed, but we're still very physical). She has a bit of a confidence problem, but I've mostly got that controlled. I'm wondering, what can I do to make her feel more sexy? She does a lot to make me feel sexy, but I think I need to do more to let her know that I think she is too.
Thank you in advance for your help.
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well i wouldnt just flat out tell her shes sexy cuz then she would feel more obligated to say " your just sexy and yada yada" but if you make her feel special and dont single her out but show the world how beautiful she really is. put how you really see her as into your words to express it the right way.
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