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Weird around the guys


Question Posted Saturday October 22 2005, 5:41 pm

ok well I am 14 and when I am around guys any guys i tend to go in look in the mirrior alot it is weird I don't have a boyfriend but I want one but know one I know is my type I like a few guys at school thats it
My question is why do I act so weird around the guys and why can't I get a boyfriend and I am not ugly but I guess I have a preppy personallitie]

well i hope i get helped


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whatulookinat answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 3:49 pm:
Um........the only way you can get a boyfriend is act like you around him.
If he's cool with it he's good with ya if he aint; "Next!"

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allknowing_123 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 2:40 pm:
i think the reason you look in the mirror all the time is because you want to look nice for the boys ~ future potential ~ because you want to be known as available. ni bigg im proud
<3 becca

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Advicelady6798 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 7:41 pm:
You act so weird around guys is because you are not comfortable around them. I guess you are classified as shy. Not shy around you friends but with guys. I suggest going to the movies. Invite your best friends and ask a couple of guys to go to. If learn to interact with guys with your friends then you will feel more comfortable around tem when you are alone. This helps you getting use to guys and you will feel comfortable flirting with them also. You should ask one of the guys that you like.

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TheTeenGirl answered Saturday October 22 2005, 7:14 pm:
Every girl is going to act weird and different around guys. But, you're a normal teenage girl who worries about how shes looking while shes around guys so that she can check up on her make up and hair and clothes. It's a common thing to do. Do you notice that when you're around your family, you don't tend to look in the mirror as frequently? Thats because you know that it doesn't matter how you look or how you're dressed, your family will always love you anyway, and you see them everyday. If you want this to stop around the guys, just don't worry about your looks every 20 minutes. And if you do worry, then the guys might find it to be something they are interested in. They like confident girls, and they do like some insecure girls, but try to be confident by not looking in the mirror as badly as you want to. As for the boyfriend issue, wait on it. Of course you probably aren't ugly, it has nothing to do with that, there are so many pretty girls out there that aren't with a guy. Theres truly nothing miserable or wrong with being one of those girls.


-TheTeenGirl

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sunnyville answered Saturday October 22 2005, 6:48 pm:
Guys porbably are either taken or afraid to ask you out or just not interested because they may think you're not interested in them you got to show the guy you are if you like him,look nice,talk to him,and just be yourself.If you act weird around the guys it's normal in a way because you probably like them so nothing is wrong with you it's something you got to get used to then one day you would be able to act yourself around them. Don't worry.

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Xo_GiulMare_oX answered Saturday October 22 2005, 6:13 pm:
you're not ugly...and its so natural for you to act weird around guys...i go to an all girls school and when i first started hanging around guys it was weird, but i just learned that i have to be myslef and they'll like u for who you are. And for the boyfriend thing...just giv it sum time....every1 gets a boyfrend, its just a matter of who gets one first.

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winter12 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 6:08 pm:
Well you are just like I am I'm preppy to,I think the reason is probably you wanna impress the boy's so you always making sure you don't have nothin wrong with you before you talk to the boy,my advice is that you just take a deep breath before you talk to a boy and look in the mirror only once.HOPE I HELPED

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DancinCutie08 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 6:07 pm:
well you act weird is because you are sort of uncomfortable. like your not uncomfortable but its just something different and your body isnt sure how to react. its kinda like a cute shyness kind of thing. the more you are around guys the less you will do that.

and for the boyfriend thing maybe they are too shy to ask you out outof fear of rejection. if you really want someone i would recomend asking them out yourself or get the into a possition where they feel more comfortable aroud you

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