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my boyfriend


Question Posted Saturday October 22 2005, 10:40 pm

my boyfriend is sort of moving too fast for me. we've made out but he was trying to really touch my the whole time. i liked it for a while.then is just got annoying. i love him more then like..i think¿ what should i do?

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TLM answered Sunday October 23 2005, 9:26 pm:
well the next time this happens tell him that your not ready to go this far and you wanna take it slow. if he respects you and cares for you then he will go slow but if he doesnt listen then he doesnt deserve you and you need to tell him its over. hope i helped and good luck!!! buh bye!!!

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amandasbabyboi answered Sunday October 23 2005, 9:25 pm:
Tell him hes moveing to fast and to sloe down

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allknowing_123 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 2:38 pm:
tell him to either back the hell off or to go slower i mean how old r you? i think if hes going to fast for u to pull a fake break_ when u tell him its over until you stop this_
good luck < becca

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GoodAdvice12345 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 1:21 pm:
Tell him that he is moving to fast for you and if he really cares about you then he will understand. And if he dosent just forget him! You will find someone better.

Hope I helped!
GoodAdvice12345

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angelfire2708 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 1:02 pm:
He keeps moving forward because youre letting him.
You need to be up front with him. Dont do things your uncomfortable doing. Who says you have to do things at his speed? You make the rules for 1ce!!

See if he wants you and not whats under your shirt or down your pants. See if he respects you. If he doesnt, hes not worth keeping.

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Sunday October 23 2005, 4:09 am:
&hearts; Hey.
You should never do things with a guy that your not comfortable with. Its seems to me that you may not be ready for him to touch you.And thats fine.
You should always talk about this kind of stuff in the beginning of a relationship that way you know if he respects you and doesnt want you just for sex.
You should deffinetely talk to him and tell him what you feel comfortable and what you dont feel comfortable with doing. If he understands and respects your wishes then he is a great boyfriend and hes deffinetely a keeper.
On the other hand if hes hesitant and he looks mad or angy, then he is not worth it=[. You want a boyfriend who loves you for who you are instead of what you do. & of couse guys love to do all that naughty stuff, but they need to respect their girlfriends...

I hope I helped!~ & GOOD LUCK! [ &hearts; ]

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karisue answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:43 am:
maybe you should tell him. let him know you don't feel comfortable getting that close yet. but i can promise you, once you do let him, you'll have fun ;)

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FrEe2bMe answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:30 am:
You need to speak up, for sure. I know it may seem difficult and you may be afraid of making him angry but you have to let him know how you are feeling. That is a part of communicating. Communication is vital in a relationship. If you are comfortable enough to be kissing and such, you should be able to talk to him about the physical aspects of the relationship. Just tell him that you feel like he is moving a little too fast for you right now. Chances are, he'll understand. Then see if he makes the change, if he doesn't..then he obviously doesn't respect you. Remember, you should never do something you are not ready or willing to do. :)

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karenR answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:06 am:
You need to talk to him and set some ground rules.

You need to say right up front. I do not want you to touch me "fill in the blanks". Let him know you are serious.

Don't be rushed into doing something you aren't ready to deal with. :)

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angelface answered Saturday October 22 2005, 10:42 pm:
u dont have to do anything u dont want to. if he is moving too fast... tell him darling. u really should before things just get out of hand and then he might think that you will let him do anything is little heart desires and thats not good. My advice would be just to nicely ask him to stop when it really bothers you. no hitting or yelling. and if that does not work...get back to me then...k?

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