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ok well i met him before and now on aim and myspace he doesnt talk to me but he told me he liked me and along time ago we should hang out AGAIN but now he doesnt talk to me?? he asked me that a month ago and i like him alot but he likes other girls how do i get him to like me again? should i talk to him? or should i not give in. i have been waiting pathedicly for him to write me something. but he never does. but he does to other girls. yeah im kinda really obsessed with him.
so.
should i talk to him?
should i wait?
how do i make him want me?
WHAT SHOULD I DO!! (link)
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Hun>u cant make any1 like/want you. Being obsessed with some1 isnt a good thing either.
If a guy tells you something, then doesnt follow through on it, give it up! Hes not worth it. Hes not giving you the time of day, but he is to other girls>thats telling you something right there! Forget about him and find some1 who will be worthy of you!!
Whats meant to be..will always find a way!!
Good Luck!
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Yea im 15 years old and i am in love with a 17 year. He is about to be 18. but i dunno we barley know eachother n we are going out we have been going out for 3 days now n we havet did n e thing well becuz we havent seen eachother but yea when he comes to get me i just wanna grab him and give him the biggest kiss he ever got in his life! i dont no if he feels the same way! how do i no if he want to be sexually active or not? wat should i do i just dont no! (link)
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Do you wanna kiss him, or do you wanna have sex with him?
First of all, you bareley know 1 another and you wanna start being sexually active with him already? Why the rush? Get to know each other. Hang out, go places together, enjoy 1 anothers company.
Keep in mind also of his age. If you both do become sexually active, he could get it for statutory rape of a minor!!!
A relationship takes time to grow. Let it happen, dont make it happen.
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ok well there is this kid named Billy, who I really like! He jokes around with me, he calles me his future wife and stuff. I like it and my friend says its flirting and tat he probably likes me. I'm not sure. I really want him to like me. Also he gets really close to me sometimes and hugs me really close. When he does it is like the best thing in the world! He told me him self that he likes a few people including his exgirlfriend. Should I back off or what? I need help please help
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sry hun>you dont rate well.
See ive been around longer than you have, and guys like the 1 thats flirting with you, are a dime a dozen. He probably flirts with every 1 of those girls he likes, not just you.
hey i have tons of guys that flirt with me, and i dont assume that they necessarily like me. Some guys just need that sort of attention from girls.
The guy told you himself that he likes a few other people, so what is that telling you?
I think you need to find out alittle more about this guy, and see what kind of reputation he has with the girls!!
Personally i would want a guy who can devote ALL his time to just me!! Especially flirting!!
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i know it's not necessarily sex, but i didn't know what to put it under.
well, when i try to put on tampons, i get it in a little, but it doesn't go in anymore..
and also, when they teach you how to put tampons in (or, the pictures), it shows the plastic applicator going into the vagina. but i see the plastic part in the garbage can all the time (because my mom) and it's never covered in blood.. i don't know. i'm confused. people have showed me sites to help me, but it doesn't really necessarily help. (link)
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ok a tampon goes in much easier if you are in a half standing position. About a foot above the toilet. If you choose to use tampons that have applicators, yes the whole thing does goe in. You push it up from the bottom then dispose of the applicator. Now i personally dont like to use those, only because its hard to guide the tampon in for me. OB tampons are designed differently than the rest. Because you do have to push it up with your finger, do to the fact there is no applicator. Ive used them since day 1 and i love them because i know there in place, and i know how far to push it up. Alot of girls think its gross, but its not that big of a deal. The way that you are positioned when putting 1 in, makes a huge difference. Dont change it too often if you dont need to, because when your too "dry" it makes it harder to go in also! Just kind of experiment thats all you can do. Itll come with some practice.
Good Luck~
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Well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I still love him a lot. But he's going out with another girl. Im still crazy about him and I really want him back. Should I wait around for him or try to move on? ..Oh, and I've heard from a bunch of people that his girlfriends gonna dump him for his best friend which is really low and I wanna tell him but he'll just get mad at me and say that I'm just trying to break them up so I can get him back.. should I tell him and risk the chance of losing our friendship but keep him from getting hurt or should I not tell him and keep our friendship but have him get hurt? Thanks in advance.. Kellie (link)
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trust me, telling him will only bite you back!
He most likely wont listen to you, let alone believe you. Let him hear it from some1 other than his ex!
Not to sound mean or anything, but if she is planning on breaking up, maybe he has it coming. He shouldnt have jumped on her so fast after you, and if she does follow through on it, doesnt mean youre gonna get him back.
I was in the exact same boat as you. I guarantee, your relationship will go downhill if you do tell him.
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OK this is really ticking me off. I stopped my period the 27th and i JUST got it back today, which is the 8th..im getting really ticked because my periods NEVER regular its always early but this is the EARLIEST. I'm getting really frustrated because my periods getting in the way of plans and i dont know its just SO ANNOYING! what can I do about it??
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Try going on the pill
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Okay i know this happends to alot of girls but its happend to me all the time and i want it to stop and i want a guy to take me serusly.....all guys want from me is sex and blowjobs and i want it to stop and i want to have a good relationship with somebody but it just doesn't never happend. for instance my best friend has this brother and i went over there last week and we were getting in to it and i thought that i might acually have a chance and he just says"Don't tell anybody about his" and of corse i know that that means i mean i'm not that stupid but really what should i do.. and i dont' want to sound like a slut but every time a guy asks me for something i give it to them because i just want somebody to love me but there'll all just playing me and playing me........Will i ever find somebody that loves me for me? what should i do? (link)
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Well first of all hun> you need to love yourself. You sound very insecure, and you dont have alot of self confidence.
Your not going to get any kind of respect from guys if you keep doing whatever they want.
Thats not how to get a guy to love you, or want you in that way!
If you get into a relationship, and the guy wants something right away, hes not worth keeping!
Learn from your past mistakes. If a guy hardly knows you and he wants something from you, DONT DO IT! Dont let them control you! Just tell them that you dont do that stuff until you get to know them.
Your only giving yourself a bad reputation, and when guys get wind of how a girl is, theyll take advantage of the situation.
Just dont set yourself up, only to be shut down by a guy!
BE STRONG> and take charge of yourself.
There are nice guys out there, you just have to be patient.
Good Luck Hun!
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Just yesterday I got my first period, and I'm unsure how to tell my mom, or if it's even neccessary. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. I just don't know how to tell her this because she's not one of the cool moms that are easy to talk to, and I'm the youngest of four, at 13, and I just want a way to tell my mom. (link)
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You make sound like shes gonna be mad at you for getting your period. Its a normal thing.
Just tell her straight out that you have your period. Shes a mom.
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Me and my boyfriend recently broke up, and he already has a new girlfriend. There's this guy I've been talking to, but we're only friends. We've hung out ALOT, and done some stuff. I have the choice to have sex with him, and I think I want to. But people say he has herpes, and I'm not sure if he does or not. Should I ask him? Or just go for it? And if I need to ask him..what do i say? (link)
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ok hun>do you want to have sex with this guy because you LOVE him, or because your ex has new gf?
Dont have sex for the wrong reasons. Youll regret it down the road!
If there are rumors that he has herpes, why would you even have to think about it?
He obviously uses girls, so why would you even want to be part of that?
Good Luck with whatever you decide!!
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Im in a new relationship.Before we started going out we were besttt friends. sO my bf told me he doesnt know about anything right now. Hes very confused. He wants things to work but he has to figure things out. I told him i would stick by him and he can figure out what he needs to. He really is sweet..he caress about me and doesnt want to hurt me. I told him I want it to work also and I am going to stick by him, give it a shot at least. He said things are going too fast..i guess the transistion from friends to more than friends..plus our friends are acting weird about us (i hate when PEOPLE ruin a relationship) He said maybe hes just feeling weird because this is all new to him..hes just so confused. I like him a lot and i dont know what to do to help him get his feelings straight? after he told he all this online, he called me which is a good sign. it shows he really does want it to work right? what are some things i can do to show him our relationship can be great. im aiming for nonphysical things ...activities..games..things to talk about because he wants to take it slow and i have no problem with that. please help me .5's for anyone who tries..thank you so much (link)
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Sounds like hes getting cold feet now that youre his gf. It may be weird to him, stepping up youre relationship from friends to bf/gf, but i think if he really and truly did like you, it wouldnt matter/bother him! Especially if youre friends are acting all weird about it.
Why cant you just do the same things you did when you were friends. Have fun, like you used to! Things shouldnt change just because youre bf/gf now!
All you can do is keep doing what you both have been doing, before you 2 starting going out. Sometimes good friends try the relationship thing, and it just doesnt work out for both. It might be 1 person is feeling more than the other.
I wouldnt push things with him. Let him go at his own pace, and just be patient with him!
Good Luck!
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okay, i know how to flirt and i think i do it well, but this time i am stuck. There is this guy i like and he seems interested in me at times and then he doesnt, when i do flirt with him he just acts as if im not a big deal. Also he is a huge flirt...with girls except me!!! I dont know how to get his attention more and make him want to like me the way i like him. (link)
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You cant get anyone to like you. If youre flirting with him and getting no response, sounds like hes just not interested.
If people dont like us for who we are, then theyre not worth having in our lives!!
Dont try to be some1 youre not, just be yourself!!
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There's this guy I like.. And I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's got a girlfriend but he'll say I'm cute and pretty and everything. He'll even slap my butt and put his hands on my waist. When I talk to him I don't really know what to say. What are some things that I can say to him that are really flirty and sort of get the point to him that I like him? (link)
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Hun>he has a gf. He shouldnt be doing anything like that with you. Would you want to be going out with a guy that puts his hands on other girls? Just because hes flirting with you doesnt necessarily mean he likes you. Maybe he just likes getting attention from other girls. Sorry, but not MY type of guy!! Sounds like a bit of a player to me! Some1 who cant be trusted.
What makes you think hes gonna break up with his gf for you anyway?
Dont mess with guys that already have gfs, even if theyre flirting with you!
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hi i'm sandhya,i'm 18years old i m female
i love with,
someone,& he is also luv me but i m not assured that he will marry with me in future. sometime i m confuse that he love me or not but i really luv him & i never live without him i think & i feel i will die without him. is he flirting me,really i need ur help,i always crying for him only,but he is always active when he feel i may go with someone,otherwise in normal case he react as normal,plz tell me early what i do for him
thanking you
bye
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Your 18? You sound more like 13.
Youll die without him? You always cry for him?
>this isnt love!!
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Signs You Are Infatuated :
You are extremely insecure!!
Your life revolves around his!
You need to know everything!
You would die if he left you!
You call him way too often!
So what about infatuation? That’s when you think of someone all the time, you go out of your way to be around him/her, and you begin to center your priorities around him/her as well.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he/she is away you wonder if he/she is cheating.
infatuation brings the feelings of jealousy and distrust
love means trust, you are calm and secure with 1 another.
Love says don't rush into anything.
You are sure of everything!
Hun>your not in love, your infatuated!!
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me and my bf arent sexually active even tho i want to be cuz i was wiht my last bf. i did it cuz i thought i loved him. i didnt. i know i love my bf now. after such a long relationship i just wanta take it to a new level. i want to be with him in new ways. i wnat to share that wiht him. how do i tho. and... here's where it gets hard. were both grounded for a party we were at and he lives a 1/2 hour away. we r never alone. what can i do. (link)
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You thought you loved youre last bf? What makes you think you love this one? Why do you feel the need to take your relationship to a new level? Thats a very immature decision on YOUR part!
Sex vs. Love
love is not based on sex>sex does not equal love
Having sex and being in love is not the same thing
Mature reationships are built on mutal trust and repect, having sex wont make a relationship work. Having sex to prove ur love for some1 is one of the worse mistakes any1 can make. sexual pressure is a sure sign that the motivation is LUST rather than LOVE!
Sry hun, what you are feeling is not love if you feel the need to want sex. Doesnt sound like your bf is the one wanting it either.
Why not leave things as they are? You only complicate a relationship when you bring sex into it. Thats why relationships DONT last.
You sound very young. It doesnt matter how long of a relationship youve had, obviously sex didnt keep your last relationship together!!
If you want to keep this one going, grow with him in other ways, put sex aside until your old enough to make more mature decisions!!!
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me and my bf have a good relationship. i want to have sex.i love him. i think he loves me. how would i tell him. or make it happen (link)
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why wreck a good relationship? Sex only complicates things for young people.
You THINK he loves you? Hun, if youre not sure about that, then having sex isnt gonna prove anything.
LOVE DOES NOT EQUAL SEX!! Love says don't rush into anything.
You are sure of everything!
Having sex to prove youre love for some1 is one of the worse mistakes any1 can make. sexual pressure is a sure sign that the motivation is LUST rather than LOVE!
When teens want to have sex, its for ALL the wrong reasons!!!
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I know this looks stupid from what the subject is but plz read!!! anyway I like my ex alot more than I did now than when i was going out with him, and I made the cheerleading team and he made the basketball team and this prolly sounds stupid but I think if we do go out again that it would be so cute the idea that he and i would be like the jock and the cheerleader, anyway i like him alot and my friends say go for, yet they say dont at the same time what should i do, tell my best friend (Jon) to tell him i wanna go out with him again or aomwthin????!!!! (link)
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i dont think i would just up and ask an ex back out, out of the blue!
Do you and him still talk?
The feelings may only be 1-sided.
Before i went and did anything stupid, id somehow find out if hes still interested!
Good Luck!
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why does sex hurt girls theyre first time??
some people have told me that its because girls are scared and the stress makes theyre body tighten up.
and then others say that its cause girls are tight and the guys are big for them.
i know this sounds stupid. but please answer my question.
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Pain or discomfort during the first time a woman has vaginal sex have three common reasons: the inexperience or lack of attentiveness of her partner, the fact that she may be too young and her body isn't ready, and the stretching open of her hymen.
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im 13 female and im like so scared right now. i was just in the bathroom and i wiped and there was brown liquidy stuff on the toilet paper. no i didnt go number 2. ive never had my period b4 plz help (link)
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welcome to womanhood hun!!!
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My boyfriend and I been going out for a little over a year and I feel like im a noboby to him cause he never opens up with me, he won't tell me what he's feeling. Example..Just a feel minutes ago i called him and hes like hello and im like hello and he said what do you want and i said what do you mean what do i want don't you want to talk to me? he says no i don't want to talk to anyone and i asked him what's wrong and he just won't tell we got into a fight to because i hung up on him because he was being rude to me. This happens all the time! And i can't take it anymore, i want to feel like im his girlfriend when im around/talk to him not a fucking noboby!...Do you think i'm just wasteing my time on this, is the relationship dead? help please... (link)
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I dont know if thats just his personality or what, but he doesnt sound like a very caring person. He sounds like he has a chip on his shoulder for some reason.
There are alot of guys who dont know how to or want to open up.
I think this relationship is going nowhere fast!
i cant believe you stuck around with him this long.
A relationship is communication between 2 people.
It doesnt sound like you even have a relationship.
Hun, i think you already know what you should do.
There are so many nice guys out there waiting for some1 like you. Give some1 else a try.
Good Luck !!
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I have a boyfriend that I've been datinf for four months. I most certainly am not getting tired of him in any way, shape, or form, but I am getting upset with him a lot easier.
(IE: He went over to this girl's house to watch a movie. I didn't like that at all because it was just her and him.
He wasn't able to do something today like he said he was able to. He kinda ditched me, again.)
So, yeah, I've been getting upset really easy with him and it's taking a lot longer to get over things. Is this just a phase? How will I get over this phase? He's wonderful and I don't want to lose him, but I know if I keep this up he'll realize how sucky he has it. I want to change this before he gives up on me. (link)
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ok, first of all you need to ask yourself what are the reasons hes ditching you.
Did you guys used to hang out alot more then you do right now?
Im sorry, but i would be alittle upset if my bf was watching tv alone with another girl. Would he be ok with you being alone with another guy?
Its not a phase. It sounds like maybe something else is going on with him, but its out of your controll if there is.
Maybe you need to ask him whats going on with him lately. Ask him if theres some1 else. Hopefully he'll be open and honest with you!
Good Luck Hun!
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