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Guys treating me like trash
Okay i know this happends to alot of girls but its happend to me all the time and i want it to stop and i want a guy to take me serusly.....all guys want from me is sex and blowjobs and i want it to stop and i want to have a good relationship with somebody but it just doesn't never happend. for instance my best friend has this brother and i went over there last week and we were getting in to it and i thought that i might acually have a chance and he just says"Don't tell anybody about his" and of corse i know that that means i mean i'm not that stupid but really what should i do.. and i dont' want to sound like a slut but every time a guy asks me for something i give it to them because i just want somebody to love me but there'll all just playing me and playing me........Will i ever find somebody that loves me for me? what should i do?
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Well I would first start out by stopping giving them what they want. The more you give into them, the more they are going to think that they can get whatever they want from you. Once you stop, you will have narrowed down the guys who will be coming to you and then real guys who want to love you will come in. Someone will come along, just give it time. And never rush into giving the guy something just because you think they like you. Hold off on it and if they still stick around, you know it's for you and not the stuff you give out. Good luck!
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Haha I think i had answered your other question. Because its the same situation. But you need to get the right guys. They will come at some point. Dont go for the bad guys, (i know its hard, right?) but go for the really nice guys.
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Look you're are going to have to realize that it takes time to find someone like that. You can't let these boys treat you like that. I know you want someone to love you, but first you need your respect.If no one can give you the respect you need believe me you don't need them.
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Well first of all hun> you need to love yourself. You sound very insecure, and you dont have alot of self confidence.
Your not going to get any kind of respect from guys if you keep doing whatever they want.
Thats not how to get a guy to love you, or want you in that way!
If you get into a relationship, and the guy wants something right away, hes not worth keeping!
Learn from your past mistakes. If a guy hardly knows you and he wants something from you, DONT DO IT! Dont let them control you! Just tell them that you dont do that stuff until you get to know them.
Your only giving yourself a bad reputation, and when guys get wind of how a girl is, theyll take advantage of the situation.
Just dont set yourself up, only to be shut down by a guy!
BE STRONG> and take charge of yourself.
There are nice guys out there, you just have to be patient.
Good Luck Hun!
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hi.
i understand the way you are being treated. no one treats you with respect and the right kind of love. i HOPE your not 15 yrs.old or younger because your at a pretty big risk right now. you don't need sex to find love. the only love you need is the love given by your family and friends! your a good person, don't ruin your life. you only have one life to live, spend your time wisely!!! you will find someone that LOVES YOU. then tell the guys you go out with that you want to be treated with respect, if he don't have respect for you then leave him. everyone deserves to be treated with repect, including you!!! thanx 4 writing
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listen sweetie..you have to have more respect for yourself. ok so you have a rough past with going too far with guys who dont like you. it doesnt mean thats going to be the same you...put your foot down and make a change for the better! no more doing this until your in a good solid relationship for a period of time! lay low from hooking up...get to know someone who likes you for you ..and trust me you will find someone hun. It might take awhile..im not saying you will find someone overnight. i stayed single from any real relationships for 2 1/2 years! what you do is pick yourself..DO NOT GIVE IN TO ANY MORE GUYS...put your foot down..rebuild your self pride and repuatation..get to know some guys..find someone you like..get to know him..and build up from there. a strong foundation and strong bonds with someone is key. you will find someone who truly cares for you..but right now you have to lay off going so far with these guys. you desserve better.
keep me posted
-melissa-
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most girls will use their own body to show how that they care about someone. guys just want sex for the pleasure and that's about it. If you really want to find a special person to have in your life you need to take a couple steps back and not be fooling around with anyone at all. I would be completely horrified if i fooled around with someone and then they said 'don't tell anyone' I'm so sorry that someone treated you that way.
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