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alpha female


Question Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 1:43 pm

so heres my problem, my boyfriend doesnt like that all my friends are guys... so its hard to talk to him about my friends. he thinks i need some girlfrieds too, i do agree with that but see i have this little problem... im bossy to girls, i cant help it, its always like direct competition with them. im very protective of my friends and im very opinionated... i tell my opinion. im very outgoing and stuff. im just hard to get along with around girls. but around guys im totally different. im not as bossy, im nicer, i dont feel that i have to fight with them and be better than them. but with girls i just do i have this alpha female thing going on. i want a girl best friend too. but its hard for me to be around girls cuz im a tomboy and i like cars and im i have blue hair and they dont accept me well. girls are soo uptight and stuff. i need a girl that is passive and will love me for me and be alot like me without being bossy and that will let me sorta... well protect her...
im just liket that... so heres my questions:
1)how can i find a girl like that?
2)why am i like that?
3)how can i make my bf like my guy friends?
4)why do i get so jealous of other girls?
5)how do i go about finding a best girlfriend?

thanks


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missxunperfectx99 answered Thursday December 8 2005, 6:48 pm:
1)Wow i have like the same personality as you im very outgoing and I always say whats on my mind and very bossy at times so i know what you mean Every year at school we switch teams so i meet a lot more friends and what i usually do is start off by telling them that i can be very bossy and if they dont like what im doing to tell me So to start off tell the girl then at least she will know know ahead
2)Your just like that cuz your you ! Everyones different
3)Well to make your bf like your guy friends start off by letting him meet them and that way he will see there just buds and not anyone your interested in
4)Everyone gets jealous of people for all diferent reasons
5)In classes you could just start up a convo with someone you think would make a good friend and if you talk enough your sure to find one

Well i hope i helped

Steph

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brittx33 answered Thursday December 8 2005, 4:05 pm:
1) You could probably find one around school;theres bound to be a lot around there
2) Maybe because all your friends are guys. Or you grew up with all brothers
3)I'm not sure;; maybe they have the same interests. They could become best friends. Maybe invite both of them over;; you never kno whats gonna happen.
4)Maybe because they want the boys that you have as friends;; but can't connect with them the way you do.
5)Like in my answer. Go to number 1 and read it. Thn, try to be nice and talk about what you like;;also don't forget to let them talk too!

good luck
♥britt

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