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E-mail: mpafka@rochester.rr.com
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Location: Rochester New York
Age: 13
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Okay.....how do you get over a guy you really like? Do you go out with someone else to get ur mind off him? Or do you just let things be n see what happens? Help Please!! (link)
What i usually do is just flirt with guys and start talking to them more after you talk to them a lot your sure to find one that you like as more then a friend and you should forget about the other guy sooner or later About oging out with another guy to get over him unless you like the guy dont just go out with him to try to forget about your crush because it doesnt do anything youll jut want to break up with your bf thats what happened to me
Hope i helped ya out
♥Steph


where is the best place to get a cat that is a kitten and declawed neotured...thanks (link)
Well around where I live theres a place called Lolly pop Farm and they only sell you pets that are netuored and spayed But about declawing it depends on the family before you if they already had them declawed or what so it depends on the cat and its previous owners
Hope i helped
♥Steph


Okay, well I know this is gonna sound like all the other questions about crushes, but here goes.

There's this guy who's in a some of my classes. He's really good-looking and nice but i think he's out of my league. That's the thing. he hangs out with really "preppy" girls but he's not stuck up or mean or anything. I really like him and i think he knows and kind of feels bad. I want a way to attract his attention without being too obvious but without being "preppy" or wearing overly revealing clothes.

thanks so much in advance!! (link)
Well clothes shouldnt matter You should just start talking to him and if he sees how good your personality is then he should like you
Hope i helped
♥Steph


Hey all.
I got this hair curling mouse, and the thing is, I dunno how to use it. I tried 2 times to do 'something' but I ended up with my usual normal hair.
Can you tell me how to curl it?...

Thanks loads.
Kay (link)
Ok well if you are trying to scrunch your hair its gotta be damp After that you take like a little bit of mosse in ur hair and then take lil peices of your hair and squeeze it you gotta do this all around your head and it should come out curly
Hope I helped
♥Steph


i have been going out with this boy for a week.
i want to invite him to my house to just hang out, however, i don't know how to bring it up to my parents. i know this is immature, but i just think my mom would be embaressing and constantly check on us.


how do i bring this up to my mom and have her not intrude? (link)
Well just say hey mom can i have a friend over on saturday ? and if she says who just tell her who and if she gets an a weird look on her face tell her nothing is going to happen and that you will stay downstairs
Thats what i do
Hopei helped
♥ Steph ♥


ok..i'm more of a tomboy..and my best friend is a tomboy too. but lately, all the preps and 'popular girls' are getting all the guys. haha. and so me and my best friend decided we were gunna act preppy and shit. and so she got kinda pissed that all the popular girls started liking me and the hottest guy started talking to me. so shes like forget it im not goin prep. but i still like the feeling of being preppy and shit...and so i signed up for basketball cheerleading...im wondering...was this the right thing to do? i mean, she still likes me and everything but i kinda feel weird...plz help. (link)
It wasnt the wrong thing to do your free to be who you want to be and how you want to act But if you feel weird being prep stop and go back to being a tomboy Dont try to be something your not]
Hope I helped
Steph


Alright, so I have this friend. Let's call her Diana. Whenever I tell Diana something that I am excited about she just brings me down. She'll tell me "Oh my god, no one cares" or "Does it really seem like I care?", stuff like that. Sometimes she will even hurt me physically also. She always flirts with all of the guys I used to like or even my boyfriend. Diana is very beautiful and she knows it. All of the guys adore here and such. Sometimes she can hurt my feelings so bad that I just want to cry. I really am not trying to be mean about this but how can I help get our friendship back on track? Sometimes when I tell her things I feel like she's jelous. Am I the one doing something wrong? Please help me, this is making me go through a lot of pain! Signed, Best Friend is hurting Me (link)
Well it seems this girl is useing you to make herself feel better she has so many insecurities that putting you down makes her feel good But those arnt the kinda friends you want if she was a real friend she wouldnt do that and WOULD care when good things happen to you because thats aprt of what makes a friendship great if it were me i wouldnt hate this girl i just wouldnt be as tight with her
Hope i helped
Steph


So, there's this kid John and he's one of my best guy friends but the thing is..i've liked him since I was in 4th grade. Last year, John and my friend Lauren went out for 2 months. Over the summer she broke up with him. Then, about a month ago, John asked Lauren back out and she said yes. I don't think Lauren likes him alot though because they don't talk --alot-- but he really likes her. John knows I like him but I don't know what to do. Am I way out of my league? Should I stick with him? Should I move on? What do you think? p.s I'm a female..He's a male..I'm 13 and he's 13 (link)
Hey hun its Steph well i talked to "lauren" and she does like him cuz she was worried "john" was gonna break up with her cuz eric was trying to convince him i know it may be hard but if you let go of "john" than ill let go of that loser Anthony Belive me theres wayy better guys then "john" out there and dont you think going out with him would screw up your guyzes amazingly amazing friendship?
Well see yaz at school
Hope i helped


so heres my problem, my boyfriend doesnt like that all my friends are guys... so its hard to talk to him about my friends. he thinks i need some girlfrieds too, i do agree with that but see i have this little problem... im bossy to girls, i cant help it, its always like direct competition with them. im very protective of my friends and im very opinionated... i tell my opinion. im very outgoing and stuff. im just hard to get along with around girls. but around guys im totally different. im not as bossy, im nicer, i dont feel that i have to fight with them and be better than them. but with girls i just do i have this alpha female thing going on. i want a girl best friend too. but its hard for me to be around girls cuz im a tomboy and i like cars and im i have blue hair and they dont accept me well. girls are soo uptight and stuff. i need a girl that is passive and will love me for me and be alot like me without being bossy and that will let me sorta... well protect her...
im just liket that... so heres my questions:
1)how can i find a girl like that?
2)why am i like that?
3)how can i make my bf like my guy friends?
4)why do i get so jealous of other girls?
5)how do i go about finding a best girlfriend?

thanks
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1)Wow i have like the same personality as you im very outgoing and I always say whats on my mind and very bossy at times so i know what you mean Every year at school we switch teams so i meet a lot more friends and what i usually do is start off by telling them that i can be very bossy and if they dont like what im doing to tell me So to start off tell the girl then at least she will know know ahead
2)Your just like that cuz your you ! Everyones different
3)Well to make your bf like your guy friends start off by letting him meet them and that way he will see there just buds and not anyone your interested in
4)Everyone gets jealous of people for all diferent reasons
5)In classes you could just start up a convo with someone you think would make a good friend and if you talk enough your sure to find one

Well i hope i helped

Steph



My boyfriend tells me he likes me and all this stuff and he like actslike it sometimes but other times he acts like he completly just doesnt care and never talks to me and when i ask him he tells me he likes me and gets mad sometimes when i ask him. but idk does he really like me??! (link)
Wow I know exactly how your feeling a guy i went out with about a month ago did the exact same thing In school after people found out he would barley talk to me but on the computer he was all lovey when i asked him about it he didnt really have a good answer at all to why he wouldnt talk to me when i tried to talk to him so i broke up with him and as soon as we broke up he was all over me !!And he still likes me a lot I think the problem with guys is that they just have trouble showing how they feel infront of their friends Because when they guy i went out with wasnt with his friends he was all lovey but infront of them he wasnt I hope I helped


so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
i rate (link)
Well it seems that all he wants is sex but it may be because hes never done anything with anyone else before and just wants to try it with someone special to him for instance you either that or he is using you for sex and if this is so tell him your not ready to rush things and you want to take it slow If he doesnt respect your boundries sorry but id let him go




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