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please help me
so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
i rate
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you stupid and youre being used but im not goin to give you advice cuz you to stupid to take it you just a booty to him.
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i know how that feels hun. i went through the same thing but i never gave into it. what i did was that i told him that i wanted more outta the relationship then just sex and he was hesitant at first but then he got the jift on what i was saying. so talk to ur man. =]
hope i helped
--jESSiCA*
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okay hes sittin here wanting you for sex. if you stay with him your hurting yourself..i mean hes gunna think that since hes your boyfriend..he could take advantage of you..how horrible is it that you have to be with a guy that doesnt really love you.find someone else for you..nto someone thats gunna use you for your body. i mean i dont wanna tell you to break up..but seriously..i believe that if you get over him..youll have a much better life being with a guy that cares about you. i mean if this guy was holding you or w/e..i meann its so hard to feel nething because hes standing there thinking' when am i gunna get this girl' and thats just not how a ggirl should feel.
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Im not going to say brake up with him, dnt worry, i too have been in a relationship where all he wants is sex, but at the end of the day you have to ask yourself,do you want to be his little toy. You obvioustly care about this lad but does he really care about you?? think about it
From Dannii n Channii xx
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Well. Let him know that you want to wait a while for sex. Sit him down alone. And talk about sex. And taking your guy's relationship farther. Tell him to wait a while and maybe you guys can have sex.
Make him get excited about waiting. And tell him that you will do alot of things with him when you guys get into the relationship more.
hope I helped.
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do what i would do. fuck him one nite so hard that he won`t forget you & you`ll live happily ever after. la la la laaa. yep & then you would become a pregnaunt whore & have to raise kids in your trailor park home full of at least 10 kids at age 16 :] cuz that`s the way to goo ♥
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Hun I'm sorry but I think you should dump him. But also listen to my other brilliant plan. If you say no then he should respect it. Try feeling him all over when he doesn't feel like and do it often. See what happens. And If you really like him and he really likes you and you know in case maybe I have no idea if the condom somehow slips off make sure he'll be there and help you take care of the baby. I know you might
probably be thinking what the hell do you know I love my boyfriend to death because he makes me feel special etc. etc. but is that really how he feels about you. Make sure before you take any drastic steps to sex. And remember it just takes one time to make your life change forever. I'm not trying to scare you I just want you to be aware of these things that might happen.
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if all he wants from you is sex...he obviously doensn't like you as much as you like him. he's just gonna use you and make you think he'll commit after you let him do you but no, he's just gonna leave you in the dust after. <3
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talk to him and let him know how you feel. dont let him pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do. make him understand that if you dont start getting more respect it will be over.hope i helped XoXo
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Well he needs to show you more respect. I would seriously talk to him and explain to him that you don't want to have sex and he shouldn't pressure you into something that you don't want to do. And if he says that stupid line," If you really loved me, you would do it".. psh.. just be like," Well if you loved me you would respect my decision". Just talk to him about it and explain to him how you're feeling. He's your boyfriend, you should be able to talk to him about anything and let him know what you're comfortable with and stuff :] I hope I helped.
Love,
Mel <3
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well tell him to stop pressuring you and well you might like him alot but that doesn't mean he likes you alot and anybodys who keeps pressures you than you can find better
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aw well if you really want to then..do it but if you totally arent in love with him and have 2nd thoughts just tell him, you might be scared or w.e but just say you dont want to and tell him your kinda sad too just w.e in on your mind tell him.. i promise it will work ♥
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tell him NO I'M NOT READY!!!!!!!!
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Well it seems that all he wants is sex but it may be because hes never done anything with anyone else before and just wants to try it with someone special to him for instance you either that or he is using you for sex and if this is so tell him your not ready to rush things and you want to take it slow If he doesnt respect your boundries sorry but id let him go
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tell him how you feel....n just tell him that you are a virgin....even if you arent....it make kind of give hima little more respect for your boundaries......N if he breaks up with you just kno wthat he wasnt right for you in the first place. HOPE I COULD HELP
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Well i guess i can`t convince you that your boyfriend is an asshole and no good for any girl if all he wants is sex.. But i deff. wouldn`t give it to him just cuz you like him.. i garantee this will not last long anyways.. especially if all he wants is sex and you don`t give it to him.. and if you DO decide to then i also garantee it`ll lead to a broken heart and a big mistake/regret.. ♥ Dez
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He likes you enough to have sex with you. If you want more than that you have to find someone that likes you for you and respects you a whole lot more than that.
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This is a problem, because when he's complimenting you, your never gonna know weather its to be nice or just to get "action". You'll just have to talk to him, as hard as it may seem. Just come to some kind of an agreement. I'm not calling you a slut or anything, but it's apparent your willing to compromise, otherwise you would have just dumped him. You have my respect for that. Just say something like "sometimes we can do "stuff" and we'll always have a physical intimate relationship, but we need peaceful time too, where we just catch a movie or get dinner at a nice returaunt" It's importatn for you guys to have a segragated relationship. Public relationship, than Sexual relationship. I know it sounds a bit confusing but he should understand if he really cares about you.
Good luck!
Dr. Minkus
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no offense but it doesn't matter if YoU like him alot...its whether he likes you. If you like him so much then u have to talk to him and find out if he really does like you or not..
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Once it starts that's kind of the way it seems to go from then on.
You need to have a long serious talk with him. Let him know you do want more than that from a relationship.
If he cares enough for you and not just what he can get from you, he will listen. If not and you want to stay, then unfortunately it probably will not not change.
Good luck. :)
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