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so my guy asked me out on MYSPACE...
and now we dont even see eachother..
my ? is how do i ask him to hang out.
FAST PLEASE
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you tell him right out that you want to hang out with him but tell him where to meet you and go with a friend because you know its the enternet


what do i do if i really like this guy that might like me but really likes this other girl?? (link)
well he could like you but it seems to me that he likes this other gurl more you could either compet you know show him and her whos boss or you can try to forget him instead of chancing getting hurt


I'm married, and my husband and I rent a house from my parents. I'm 20, and my husband is 21. They've been pretty generous by offering us the house over other renters, and giving us a lower rent. They insist of holding a copy of the house key for emergencies, which is fine with me.

Here's the problem. Lately, they've been letting themselves in without knocking. After my husband and I come home from work and put the baby in bed, we tend to sit around...not completely clothed. More than once now, they've caught us like this; once just walking around naked and twice being intimate.

But maybe worse, they let themselves in when we're not home. I don't think they mean any harm, but they come in, look around, borrow our stuff, and clean.

I'm afraid that they'll find something they don't like and kick us out. I feel that we're adults, and we pay rent, so we deserve some privacy. Am I right that we should have privacy? If so, how should I go about talking to my parents? I don't want to make them feel bad, since I think they're just trying to help. (link)
i understand where your coming from yes it was very nice of your parents to rent to you but nevertheless you and your husband are adults who deserve your privacy and its about time you stress this to your parents because they need to understand that you have your own life and they need to respect your privacy hope i helped good luck write me sweet apples if you have any other questions


What possible problems could arise with being with a guy that was 17 years older than you? The guy I like is 44 and I am only 27.
The problems I could already forsee are that when I am 37 he would be 55, and maybe he would start to get insecure and think I might leave him for a younger guy my age.
Also, what could a guy that age really have in common with me? He likes fishing and golf, things that bore me to death. He hates a lot of the movies and tv shows I like too. He looks old enough to be my father. And I don't think my parents would approve.
But at the same time, I REALLY like him. He's a really nice guy and makes me feel so good about myself. He has a great sense of humour and more life experience than most guys my age have. He also has a good job, and would never freeload after me.(like some bf's of mine.)
Can anyone else think of any problems that could come from this relationship? And do you think we have a chance for this to work? (link)
well does he like you if he does than hey go for it because age is nothing but a number right but if you think that hell leave you in the future and you know become jealous or whatever than you have a choice to make you can either self protect and not take a risk that in the furture he might you know be insercure or you can take the risk and enjoy yourself when while you have the chance you shouldnt let love pass you by good luck


Im trying to lose weight Is it okay to consume more calories but w/less fat in them by end of the day.

Example: Consumed total 1770 cals
" " 24 grams

Pls reply
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oh dont worry i have the same problem but what i did was cutting down on my eating and exersising 5 days a week if you really want to know how many calories you should have go to e diet.com


My boyfriend broke up with me in october because he thought i was cheating but i wasnt. After it happened it was like nothing, but now i really miss and i want us to get back together but i dont know if he still has feelings for me. My best friend said she was going to talk to him for me but if that doesnt work then what will i do. i would write a letter but he isnt the type of person you give letters, he is a really sweet, kind person and im still in love with him. PLEASE tell me what to do. (link)
well i think that you should just talk to him face to face and tell him that what you did was stupid and it was a mistake and you've learned from them remeber everybody makes mistakes


hey hun...this isnt a question this is just me sayin hi and i hope you write me back..my name on here is So_In_love16 so write me and please dont tell your brother that im on here cuz he will totaly flip out on me..he dont want me around a computer you know how he is..anyway i want to say thanks for everything you have done for me and if there is ever anything you need just let me know cuz im here for you just as well as your here for me well hun i got to go ill talk to you later (link)
aww shit dont worry i wont say anything thats so cool now we can write to each other all the time i have a lot of questions on here so did you and frankie work it out i hope so anyways im doing this instead of doing and ill hide the cd from frankie if you want gotta go im working on my pimping lol p.s. thank you for keeping everything private love you too write back and dont worry i wont tell frankie b/c i dont want to here his mouth eigther.

love careen


This is going to seem really ridiculous, and I am sorry for asking such a stupid question. I'm too insecure for my own good sometimes, I think.
I'm meeting my boyfriend for the first time ever in 3 days time and we're picking him up at the airport really early in the morning. I want to look my best for him. I never look really good in the mornings; so I'm just wondering where there's anything I can do the night before to make sure I wake up and look and feel nice and fresh. Is there any creams or exfoliation that i should use for my skin, or anything? Should i get up early? Thanks. (link)
honey let me tell your i look like shit morning to night but any wayz try a hot relaxing shower you know some lotion and try to relax blow dry your hair or striaghten it whatever so than its easier in the morning oh also keep a ponytail in it because you dont want it all over and i dont know if this helps but it helped me try a little eye liner so you dont look as scary hope i helped


so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
i rate (link)
well tell him to stop pressuring you and well you might like him alot but that doesn't mean he likes you alot and anybodys who keeps pressures you than you can find better


i thought my real dad was in prison but the other day this man came to the door saying he was my dad had my birth certificate and everything im just confuse he said do i want to come out with him to get to know each other. But why has he waited al dis time to come see me im 16 now so do u think i should go and wat would i say to him (link)
honestly i dont know but i wouldnt go anywhere with him until you get to know him and ask your mom for advice too because i wouldnt trust anybody who has been in prison


okay so theres this guy that is in like all of my classes, and ive liked him since the beginning of the school year. and he has a girlfriend, but he always flirts with me and asks me who i like and asks me to be his science partner and he told me my school picture was amazing and all this stuff. but like im so confused because he has a girlfriend so i dont know what this means. does anyone know (1) what this means or (2) how i can get him to like me (link)
yeah i kno how you feel alot of guys are lke that but you could ask him or if your to shy write him a letter telling him that you like him and that you dont want to interfer with his relationship but ask if he likes you and if your afaid that he will stop flirting with you and you dont want him to stop than you kno he's a guy you kno so's hes not the smartest and ask him a little hypotheical question


I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.



Question is: how should I go about handling this?

Should I bring it up to HIM first?

Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?

Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?



I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :( (link)
well i would because he not only used you but he played you too and now he's doing the same to his wife and in my opion she deserves to know that her husbands a lieing cheating fuck and dont think about not getting into his business because he brought you in it the day he lied to you hope i help sweet apples oh good thinking about taping him i like the way you think


well in April of 2005 recently.. my aunt died.. i took it very hard because i was very close to her like staying with her days or weeks at a time in the summer,shopping and stuff like that just another best friend really.. well ever since she's died i have had weird dreams about her like she's alive in my dream but im there when she dies.. she died from an anerism i wasnt there when she had it but i was at the hospital.. well that weekend she died i was pose to go over there but instead i wanted to see my boyfriend.. i keep thinkin things like if i would of seen her she would of lived..or i was suppose to be there for her.. well everytime i dream about her were always tanning,talking and stuff like that then she just dies.. i dont understand this dream maybe im not suppose too but i keep wondering if things would of been different if i didnt diss her like that.. Also im having a very hard time believing in God i was raised to believe in God and that Jesus died on the cross for our sins but its really hard.. i mean i pray and everything still but its still hard for me to believe.. so if you can give me tips on how to deal with this id really appreciate it and sorry its so long.. (link)
awww i feel so bad and dont worry it wasnt your fault you couldnt help that she got sick and passed away and dont blame yourself im sure your aunt knew you loved her and for your dreams maybe your just not over her and maybe you havent forgave your self honey work on that and she will always live in your heart


okay so guys are like.. weird.. all of them like want sex from me and i dont want to be like no go away.. but i also wont have sex with them.. whats something i can do to try and tell them i dont want to have sex.. im not mean or anything so please dont put anything mean to say! thanks a bunch! (link)
honeyb thats all guys want and dont worry your not being mean your putting those perverts in therre place so next time somebody trys it deny it b/c you sound to me as if your not ready and hey some guys are attracted to gurls who say no


What do you guys think of the idea of having sex with your ex boyfriend that you are thinking about getting back together with?

I just want to know if y'all think its a good idea or not and why.

Background info:
It was a nutural break up
We broke up becasue we kind of just got sick of each other
It was getting too serious for me (not him)
He was my first
I wasn't his first
We've been broken up for almost 2 months.
And we do entend on getting back together...eventually


i'm 17/f and he's 19/m (link)
maybe you want to have sex because your not fully over him and hey if your ready to slep with him agian than no one can stop you do what you think is right exspeacially if he was good j/k but hey if you want to more power to you fuck what everybody else says right there not sleping him lol hope i helped


I am 13 and a female. I like this one guy who is one of my friends. He has liked every other of my friends except me out of all my friends (not trying to be self centered or anything) I seem like i'd be bettter with him because we have a lot of things in common. we have weird things in common about our family and grades etc. we just seem like we'd be really good together. i have liked him for a couple of years now and he most likely knows that. Why would he not like me? (link)
awww i have something of the same problem but he might not know how you feel b/c come on hes a guy so ask him and find out why goodluck


ok.. im 13 years old and ive known this cute guy for a couple years now but we never really had a conversation. this year were going to florida together cuz both of our brothers play on the same baseball team so yeah. but i wuz just wondering wut little things i culd do to like become "friends" or get to know him better. thnx (link)
well he should know you exsist so go up to him and start the conversation and dont stop intil you think you know him enough and plus honey your a gurl you got the power flirt flirt and make sure he notices you


Yesterday my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We broke up because he has to work this summer and he says itll be really hard for him to just see me for one day a week instead of the six that were used to. I was so sad after hearin this, I cried almost all night cause i really miss him. Now last night he started to second guess himself, and he tells me how he made a huge mistake and he didnt think it thru. Well he wants me back for the summer. What sould i do, I do really like him amd want him around. Should i let him back??? just be friends??? or take a step backwards and say were just dating again????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
well thats a hard one so im going to tell you what i would do well to start off i would have a nice long conversation with him asking him why he felt it was neccessary to end it in the first place and if the answer to that question soots you than remeber every body makes mistakes right


This guy keeps coming up to me and saying can i feel your boob and i really don't like it and it gets annoying. I only let people i like do it and he is just not getting that straight. He thinks i like him and i don't like him like that!! what do i do (link)
smack the little pervet in hos face and if he trys to do it ago kick him in the balls and tell him to leave you the fuck alone before you do more than just kick him and tell him that anit a threat thats a promise
write me anytime you have a problem


Me and my old not quite boyfriend got in a fight because i had hickys on my neck and i said they were from one of my g/fs and he found out i wAs lying and he wont talk to me.. Should i give him a call and tell him im sorry? Or what should i do i miss him.. And i made a huge mistake.. (link)
well you made a mistake by lying to him but hes the ones who should be calling you but if you miss him that much call him and ask him what his problem is he has no control or special hold on you you too arent dating




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