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okay so guys are like.. weird.. all of them like want sex from me and i dont want to be like no go away.. but i also wont have sex with them.. whats something i can do to try and tell them i dont want to have sex.. im not mean or anything so please dont put anything mean to say! thanks a bunch!
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draw the line. tell them that they are nice and all; but you're not ready for sex.
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No is the best way for that...just no. If they push the question just ignore them or be honest. No matter the way you say it...it may come out mean or not...but honestly...truth is never mean...just interpretted as so.
*WovenLynx*
Hope I helped
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honeyb thats all guys want and dont worry your not being mean your putting those perverts in therre place so next time somebody trys it deny it b/c you sound to me as if your not ready and hey some guys are attracted to gurls who say no
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just tell them you arent ready and you just want
to do it with someone you love and they love back
and that you want to go slow with things ..
and if they dont except your wishes than tell them
to fuck off cause that is controlling ive had a
bf like that and they suck ass so dont get stuck
with one of them .. i hope i gave good advice ..
ask me some questions ill be glad to answer them
thanks, Nikky Alese
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just say please,i just want to go slow..and if you cant accept that then i see no reason to go on with our relationship
hope it helps :)
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I think that it is great that you are standing ure ground on not having sex, i also think that you should be proud of yourself also; just tell them u dont want to have sex and thats the end!
XOX
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say im sorry but im not ready yet if there nice they'll understand.
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what ever you do don't have sex (a 14 year old guy is sayin this, so that means something)
the last thing you wanna do is when you get married and look into the eyes of the love of your life and know that you couldn't wait for them
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i would just let them know that you think highly of yourself, and dont want just give your precious goods to just anyone. most of my male friends have always told me they would rather a woman be honest and say how much she values herself then just sleeping w/ someone to make them happy. so good luck to you and im glad that that some people in this world still have values.
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Tell them no firmly. Eventually they'll realize that you're not going to do it. If they continue harassing you about it, I would consider talking to a trusted adult. Constant harassment after you've already given your answer of no is sexual harassment.
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Well, tell them that involuntarily you had an anti-rape system place inside of you.
Tell them to look up 'Vagina Dentata' online and they will be flaccid for probably a week straight.
They won't ask for sex anymore, but they will enjoy you as the good looking female friend which they will never get any from.
Which may be good because then you have people using you for something other than sex.
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Nobody can force you to do anything you do not want to. If they do not get the message from your lips then they must be shown the door. All you have to say is "I like you but I am not ready for this right now. When the time comes to do this with the right person they as well as I will know." Leave it at that. If people tease you at least it is for a good thing this time--morality, conviction and the desire to have something so personal remain that way between people who love one another. Think about it? isn't this whole desire to lose virginity thing screwed up? Who the hell are classmates to come up with the idea of when you should have sex and if you don't by that time you are weird? It's dumb.
It's not about age, peer pressure or any of that it's down to stong decisions and informed choices. If those are lacking you truly are f--ed biut not in the vulgar sexual sense of the word.
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be like i dont want to okay i jsut wanna go hang out today or be like lets see a movie instead or like i like you and everything but im not in the mood and if they force you they are complete jerks =] hope i helped sry i dont give the best advice =/
kmp
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