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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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I lost mine at 15 with a boy I was seeing for 3 months...before we were intimate together. We broke up 3 months ago after dating for 2 years and 3 months. I can tell you the moment you'll know...you'll know. You wont have to question, it will happen. If you're ready no one else will be able to tell you no. You'll be nervous and second guess yourself...but when you are ready you wont. There aren't really any tests you can do...I guess that condom one is good...but it just shows if you are embarassed by it or not. I still can't buy condoms like that, doesn't mean anything.
I wish you the best of luck with you and him, and with your sex situation...and just so you know...a good way to know if you're ready is that sex shouldn't be a situation...it should be a release and showing of intimacy that you want to feel with him.
Xo
Woven...let me know how it goes.
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is it shallow of me to want guys only for my butt.. i don't have much of a nice face or body for that matter but i do have 'a great butt'.. as i've been told.. so just tell me if im that shallow or not please (link)
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Shallow...yeah I guess in a way I could see that...but no. Most girls are concerned with hair, makeup nails...and so forth. No matter the age or what they say...it always feels good to walk into a room and know you have the attention. *Smiles* I dont think your shallow I think it's natural, and I'm sure one day a guy will come up to you and say everything but your butt is beauitful...if he does...keep him, becuase apparently he sees through to your inner beauty.
Xo
Woven
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I am 16yrs. old and my girlfriend who i love so much and she is 19yrs. old we live in oklahoma is legal? please tell me her mom does not like us dating and tells us she is going to call the cops on us if I call her so i need help please... (link)
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I'm not to sure if it is legal in Oklahoma...all you need to do is get online and ask...I would use Yahoo. Just ask the age requirments.
Let me know
Woven*
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I was wondering if anyone knew anything about depression, or manic depressive disorder, or what not.
I just recently started thinking i might be have depression, or some other mental disorder. After looking it up online, I think I might.
my mom takes medication, but i never knew what for, and when i asked my dad he said it was so she could "cope with life". So i'm pretty sure she has depression. And i was reading that it might be genetic.
Anyways, what i want to know is what do i do about it?
ive always wondered if I should go to a therapist just because i always have trouble dealing with my emotions.
and after looking it up, i think i might be bipolar or depressed.
I dont wanna say anything to my parents, because... i dont know. I guess its just that i'm their "good child" both my brothers are kinda bad, and i'm the ""perfect"" one that gets good grades, and doesnt have problems and things like that.
There really aren't any other adults in my life that i trust. and my friends, well i dont think i would want to tell anyone this really.
so, yea. i'm just not sure what to do. or if i should just ignore it.
i'm not thinking about sucicide or anything. so thats not an issue.
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Depression is a chemical inbalance....it's natural to happen to everyone at least once or twice in their lives. It might also have to do with your amount of stress right now. I can tell you a few things that might help. Venting...letting anger out. If something is bothering you, let it out...not in a negative way that can cause more back to you, but in a relieving manner...Like maybe picking up a sport of something extracurricular...ya know?
It can be generic...but you can kick it.
Let me know how it goes.
XO
Woven!*
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sorry if its long but i rate high
ok about 2 nights ago, i had a dream that really scared the hell out of me. I dont know what it means so i was hoping someone here could help me. I dreamt that i was picking up my little brother from school with my mom. We were on the end of my block when i looked behind me and there was a man running towards us with a knife in his hand, i could see the blade of the knife in great detail, it was pointy and very jagged. After a minute i realized he was running towards me becuase he was looking right at my eyes. He was wearign a black t-shirt and wasnt skinny but not fat, a little heavyset. He looked hispanic sort of. I couldnt move though, or at least i didnt move. He finally reached us and then instead of stabbing me right away, he asked my mother if it would be better to stab me in my heart or in my leg. He said something about "wanting to hit a major artery so i could die and wouldnt be able to tell the police". it was similar to that. I hid behind my mom and waited for her response and was begging in my mind for her to say the leg. She said leg after what seemed to be a few minutes and then said "why dont you come to my house so we could get you something to drink" i knew she wanted to call the police. So she tried to take the man by the hand to take him to my house, and the knife changed. It now had a reddish handle and a blade that resembled to me a corkscrew. He strugled with my mother and i ran up to opposite block, towards my friends house. Then i woke up. Since I saw the man running across the street, my little brother seemed to be gone in the dream. He wasnt really involved with anything and i dont remember seeing him. What could this dream mean? Im 13/f if that helps. Please help me. Ill rate high for good answers. ♥ (link)
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Not all dreams mean something, you could just look at it plain...and see that maybe the knife is a fear, the man that was running at you is something you're afraid of...something that you never want to happen. You're mom is your guardian in real life and the dream, but instead of protecting you she still choose the leg...which means maybe you feel she might of let you down once or twice. You're brother might of just repersented home...family, belonging..ya never know...they don't always have to have long hard explanations...take it for what it's worth.
Xo
!Woven*
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I am 14 and all my friends are the same age. (we are not punk rock or emo people, just so you know). A lot of my friends tell me sad things or problems in their lives. (boyfriend problems, cutter problems, ect.). Whenever I hear about this stuff I usually don't care much, it's sadly just not in my character. But when I get home I'll do all the normal stuff I normally do, but I'll end up crying for no reason. I'll feel horrible inside but I won't know why.
So what my question is: How can I make my enviorment less negative other than getting new friends? I can't tell them that they can't tell me their problems. If I did then they would be keeping their problems inside them, and that would be giving my depression problem to them. (link)
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Sweetie...there are plenty of things to do. Listen to their problems...if you don't care about their problems then you dont care about them. Problems come with everyone no matter their shape size whatever...issues occur. Let them know that each problem has a different solution, let them know that if they ever need you to come to you...but don't just not care.
Now...to answer the question, let them know that their problems are a little over bearing on the ones you have going on. Simply explain that you need a break...kind of like a rest time to gather yourself back up. Let them know what's been going on, I mean the crying and feeling bad thing afterwards. Just be open and honest, like their being...but choose your battles wisely. You can tell when some one is telling you a huge story, and when they really have a problem.
XO
Woven~
I hope I helped.
Let me know how it turns out
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As laws change almost every day I need to know what is the age limit in florida I am 21 and my girl is two months away from being 17. (link)
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After she has turned the age of 16, in florida she has a thing called the right to consent. Which means if her parents, or guardians were to call the Police on Rape, she has the say so to say it didn't happen pretty much, or that she agreed to it. A 17 has the same rights pretty much unless shes dating an 18 year old. 21 is illegal in Florida until she's 18...but keep it on the Downlow...type thing, if people ask tell them shes 18, without hesitation...then leave it at that until she's about 6 months from being 18...then it would be okay.
XO
*Woven**
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I a suffering from:
Chronic depression, social anxiety disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, panic attacks, an eating disorder, obsessive complusive disorder, and anger/low self worth problems. I don't see how I am still living. Could any illness occur from all these, I have heard you can deveop tumors and other various things from so many mental illnesses? (link)
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You are already ill from them. You can become overly depressed...which can cause more stress, that can cause Stomach Ulcers, you can have kidney failure, heart attacks from the panic attacks, and a lot more. You need to see a psychologist.
*Woven*
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I write out suicide notes and read them over and over...i write long paragraphs explaining to my family why I killed my self..while I write it I am laughing and thinking how fun this is, I get a thrill out of it. Sometimes I think I am depressed, but I don't feel depressed. I love thinking about suicide, wondering who would be at my funeral, if anyone would cry or care. I feel like I am going crazy, it's always on my mind, am I just crazy? Because I don't have any of the symptoms of depression.. (link)
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You aren't crazy or depressed. I use to do this exact same thing. Just to think of what would occure afterwards, like what my boyfriend would do...or my parents, friends yadda yadda. I got over it after about 8 years of doing it. I recall leaving one of my suiced notes out in the open 'on accident' for my mom to find. She did...and she came to my school thinking I had done it already, on my way to school or something. Well...needless to say I almost put her in the hospital from a heavy and hard hitting panic attack. Yeah, my parents and I dont get along still...but it showed me a little. Maybe you should do this...just set a stage...and play it out...If it doesn't turn out your way...then continue *Best of luck*
Woven
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Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice. (link)
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Your opinions are your own. I'm okay with sex before marriage...it is everyones own decision...but what you are thinking is normal.
I think so anyways
*Hope I helped*
WovenLynx
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I am reguardimg my last queation that nobody answered. It was titled websites?? My question is does anyone know any websites that teens can learn about sex?? I'm 13/f. *danielle leigh (link)
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Yes. I like www.gurl.com Also...go to yahoo and do a search for informational websites for females.
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14/F i am really confused rite now i have this boyfriend who is id say about 3 years older than me [ 17 ] hes a senior im a freshman & hes not a virgin and whatnot and i am . . we`ve been goin out for almost 5 months and hes starting to hint around that he mite want to mess around or somethin and the whole idea really makes me nervous considering hes my first real relationship & considering hes had more experiance than me and i am absolutly clueless . . hes never asked anythin be4 and im afraid that if maybe i dont do anything he mite break up with me . ? or something but i think its more of the fact that im nervous . what do you think i should do?
- confused & clueless
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You answered your own question...if you think he might break up with you because you dont mess around with him then...you shouldn't be with him. I know that may sound like something your mom or dad might say...but come on. If you aren't ready and he can't respect that now...then what else...whats to far...Be careful...seriously. Be nervous...thats normal...completely normal. I was so nervous my teeth chattered...but my boyfriend tried hard to relax me...and he did. But I still was beyond nervous. I still get nervous and we've been sleeping together...for over a year now. Your nerves might just be a way or telling you how much you care for him...but it is also very normal. I think you should wait until you're sure.
*WovenLynx*
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i started my period around the first of august. like the 2nd..about.. for the first time. its september now & i havent started yet this month. will the date i start this month be the date for every month ? ?? help me out w/ this time date stuff (link)
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Give your period about 6 months to a year to find it's normal path and regulate itself. Mine still changes to beginning of the month to the end...just make sure you keep a calendar for the days you started and ended. Normally there should 18 - 24 days from the end of your period until you begin again. That is regulated...but it should not skip months normally...It may though.
*Wovenlynx*
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can you get pregnant if a guy is wearing a condum and pulls out before he cums? (link)
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There are always possiblities to get pregnant. If you are that worried about it...you shouldn't be having sex yet. Not to sound mean...but look at what your question is. The guy not only wore a condom...but pulled out..and you are still worried enough to ask a question about it. The chances of that are slim...but still...you never know. Just be careful...and make sure you are ready.
*WovenLynx*
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if you havn't had your period yet and you have sex can you still get preganat? (link)
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Yes. It is more likely. Your body still produces the eggs, your period is just when they are dispursed. You ovulate before your period...no matter what. Meaning your eggs are fertile. The highest possiblilty for you to get pregnant is before your period...even if you've had your period before. You ovulate and the eggs are highly fetile. Just have protected sex.
*WoveLynx*
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okay so guys are like.. weird.. all of them like want sex from me and i dont want to be like no go away.. but i also wont have sex with them.. whats something i can do to try and tell them i dont want to have sex.. im not mean or anything so please dont put anything mean to say! thanks a bunch! (link)
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No is the best way for that...just no. If they push the question just ignore them or be honest. No matter the way you say it...it may come out mean or not...but honestly...truth is never mean...just interpretted as so.
*WovenLynx*
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Hi
I am 23 yrs old and recently started taking Tri-cyclen brand B. C. pills. I know that you are supposed to take them at the same time each day but no one is perfect. My pills are 28 pack and Sunday start.There was one day when I forgot til 2 hours later and another day for a half hour. I read that combination pills are okay to take off your schedule if you forget, as long as it's within 8 hours or something than it's not considered missed. So I should be fine if Tri-cyclen are combination pills. I assume they are from the TRI part but this is the first time I've taken them ever and rather than making another appt just to ask my MD that one question, is there any experienced birth control takers that can answer my question? I know that you should wait 7 days til you have sex unprotected after you take them so we did that. My bf and I only rely on the pill now since we've been together 6 months and he doesn't want to use condoms anymore. We've both been tested for STDS also so we're okay with that. so I want to make sure that I know what I'm doing.
Can someone please help me?
Thanks, I'd really appreciate it.
H (link)
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I've never taken Birthcontrol..but I do know that if you get off the pill you have to wait near 3 months before it exits your system completely...so I'm pretty sure if you are 30 minutes to 8 hours late...you're okay. You are 23 years old...then I'd say let him not wear a condom...things will prolly be okay. But, I'm not sure...
*Hope I helped a little*
Woven
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i have 2 questions...
1. what is the law about dating a person over 18 if your a minor? some people say its not illegal till u have sex some say its if you touch in any sexual way even kissing
2. i am 15 and the guy i like is 18 is that soo bad....
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You have to be the age of 16 *In florida* for it to be legal. Yes, if you touch in a sexual manner, or whatever like that...even kissing and someone has hard feelings for him, like your mom and dad per say...then they can fill an appeal against him for Stachatory rape...and you can't say anything about it because you are underage...
*WovenLynx*
There are a couple of websites you can look on for laws in your area and such about it.
Hope I helped
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ok this is my 4 or 5 period (don't really remember) and it started on wednesday and on friday night i had like very very very little blood and over night there was none at all so it was 12 hours with no blood and now all of sudden i had kinda alot what the heck!? Please don' tell me "thats the way the body works or your periiod is iiregualr" i wanna why that happened?! (link)
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Okay, I wont tell you that...but I will tell you it may be a possiblity. But...actually it is most likely because your period is brand new...so your body isn't use to it yet. But...mine still does that sometimes. It might of been the position you slept in. *Which is what it is with mine* It might be because you're sleeping with a tampon in...which is SERIOUSLY bad for your body...especially if your period is only a couple months old.
*Hope I helped*
WovenLynx
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Why do females regret losing their virginty when they did? What's the average age that a female loses her virginity? There is no way to get over losing your virginity is there? What if u only did it one time, then u wait like 20 years will it be tight again? (link)
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Most girls regret it and blame their mistake of letting it be taken on the male. That isn't true...most blame the male because they *thought* he loved her...or she thought she loved him. Really...deep inside they regret it for spreading their own legs to someone either so earlier...or so fakely. I dont regret it and I can say it with a clear heart. Even if I found out that my boyfriend of two years now doesn't love me...I'd know that the time we laid together that it was worth my heart.
The average age..normally averages from sometime in high school to the end of college.
After 11 years the 'cherry' normally grows back, if the women hasnt been sexually active, or used certain feminine products.
*WovenLynx* Hope I helped
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