Member Since: September 23, 2005
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Last Update: September 29, 2005
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i moved here about a year ago,and i have no friends,i used to have friends..but they betrayed me..and everyone here..is snobby,barbie dolls,and there ALL the same.(im 13/in 7th) i dont even want to be friends with rude and mean people.I still have lots of friends in my old city..but i never get to see them..I tried everything i can to move back,and i really want to.I get bad grades,i cant focus.its like i cant make anything right.Everyone hates me in my new town,but its not like i care,because i dont care about them at all. i just really wanna move back..How can i actually try and get her to? (were not rich)Ps-- We are living with my moms boyfriend..he owns the house and we just..live in it.and i dont even think my mom likes him that much anymore. she doesnt listen to me and my brothers feelings (link)
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All you can do is try to find something there that you enjoy. Try joining clubs at your school or going to places like a library or church where that might be other people your age. I wasn't super social when I was in Junior High. I just had a few good friends. I am sure that there is at least one person at your school that would love to have you as a friend. You just have to put yourself out there. Talk to the snobs and the barbie dolls, talk to the yucky kids, talk to everyone. It doesn't hurt to talk to people. If they treat you badly, just remind yourself that their opinion or anyone elses opinion of you doesn't matter. Eventually you will meet someone that you can be friends with, and you will become friends with their friends.. and then living in that town in your mother's boyfriend's house won't seem so bad.
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me and my boyfriend are scared that when he turns 18 that he will get in trouble for messing around with me. i will be 17 at the time. can he still get in trouble for that. i mean it is only a year older it isnt like it is 5 or something? thanks so much i will rate all answers (link)
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Don't listen to any of the other advice here. Or at least most of it, because it is wrong. There isn't a single state in the US that has any law against an 18 year old boy having sex with a 17 year old girl. Most laws state a 3 year difference, and most states make it statutory only if the "victim" is 16 and the offender is 19 or older. You have nothing to worry about. Well other than getting pregnant and STDs. =P
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Alright, I liked this guy for the past three years and now I am over him. I don't want to be around him, I don't even want to see him. He plays around with me too much and I can't stand those games of his. It's games like his that hurt me so much. I don't want to be around him yet I want to show him that my feelings are changed . When I get off my bus in the morning, he's there at the table sitting there with my other friends and then he avoids eye contact. Then I do the same and say hey to everyone and put my bookbag down. He'll give me one glimpse and then I'll head to the restroom or to the cafeteria. There have been plenty of times that I have come back to the table to prove that I am over him and that I can be around him because I used to couldn't. But now , he's hitting on my friends around me, and I told my friend to go for it but she won't b/c she says that he's too hot for her. Why is he doing this in front of me, why won't he let me be, why does he have to act as if he is everything, why does he avoid eye contact, and how comes he's at the damn table every morning? I've moved on but this makes it way too complicated because I like to sit in the cafeteria in the morning but he's there and he's hitting on my friends in front of me and I don't want to be there. Oh what should I do. Please, please , please, please help me. Oh and I asked a guy and he said it's probably another game to see if I'll come back as I did all those other times before. Is this true? (link)
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He is just playing games with you. He seems nervous around you and that's why he is doing those things. Obviously he still has a pretty strong crush on you. The best thing you can do is to take him aside and talk to him. Ask him why he is acting like that (be nice =P), and then tell him how you feel. Let him know CLEARLY that you aren't interested in him. He will move on.
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