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Alright, I liked this guy for the past three years and now I am over him. I don't want to be around him, I don't even want to see him. He plays around with me too much and I can't stand those games of his. It's games like his that hurt me so much. I don't want to be around him yet I want to show him that my feelings are changed . When I get off my bus in the morning, he's there at the table sitting there with my other friends and then he avoids eye contact. Then I do the same and say hey to everyone and put my bookbag down. He'll give me one glimpse and then I'll head to the restroom or to the cafeteria. There have been plenty of times that I have come back to the table to prove that I am over him and that I can be around him because I used to couldn't. But now , he's hitting on my friends around me, and I told my friend to go for it but she won't b/c she says that he's too hot for her. Why is he doing this in front of me, why won't he let me be, why does he have to act as if he is everything, why does he avoid eye contact, and how comes he's at the damn table every morning? I've moved on but this makes it way too complicated because I like to sit in the cafeteria in the morning but he's there and he's hitting on my friends in front of me and I don't want to be there. Oh what should I do. Please, please , please, please help me. Oh and I asked a guy and he said it's probably another game to see if I'll come back as I did all those other times before. Is this true?
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i would say you friend is right he is just trying to see your reacton to his games he thinks he has it over you and he is seeing hoe far he can push you i say just do wat you do every day but just be yourself act like he is juust another boy and dont give him the satiafaton of trying to get a reacton if he dosnt get one then hell probly just drop it when he gets the point hes got nuffin
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well i think that guy is right!!! for get him and if he starts to really tick you off catch him in the act of ticking you off and tell him that he should really get over himself and leave you alone and that your never coming back, and say that loud just enough for other people to hear you and that will embarrass the hell out of him and he will never wanna speak to you again.
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He is just trying to get you jealous. That other guy could be right, if you went back to him many times before, this guy thinks that he could have you back whenever he wants. It sounds like you do have something for him. Don't let him bother you. Or, talk to him and tell him that you have completely moved on.
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maybe he is trying to prove that he is over you too. or he could like the feeling of being wanted..and having the power over someone else's heart. i say don't worry about proving to him that you don't like him. not proving it is the best proof. it will also keep you from letting him lure you back in.
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ok..he *might* like you..and gets jealous other people like you to? He could also be priving he's "cool/hot" by hitting on your friends..just ignore him,dont even look at him. I know this kid that i used to love..but i got over him and not he likes me.I think he WANTS you to like him.He wants to make you confused and want him..but he doesnt like you like that.so yeah hes playin games.I'd say...just..ignore him,have fun with your friends and when he does that stuff to your friends then you should just change the subject and be like "hey (your friends name) whats up?" or start a different conversation.and if he joins in..just talk to him to. try that :-) ok,good luck!
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Rissa
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He is just playing games with you. He seems nervous around you and that's why he is doing those things. Obviously he still has a pretty strong crush on you. The best thing you can do is to take him aside and talk to him. Ask him why he is acting like that (be nice =P), and then tell him how you feel. Let him know CLEARLY that you aren't interested in him. He will move on.
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ok well what I think is that guy you asked before is right its probably because he wants you to finally give up and finally come back to him the jurk...
or it could be that he still has feelings for you and if you won't come back to him then he thinks that he has the right to make your life a living hell...
Soooo..
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