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hey is it better to have sex for the first time with a virgin or an experienced guy
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well, i would think someone expirenced unless they have an STD or something... good luck
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i think you should have sex with a vrigin. because it is less likely they have STDS or AIDS but that is just me.
*~Stephanie~*
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WTH? It's about love and commitment, not if the guy is a virgin or not. Moron.
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Well I am still a virgin, but personally, I think it would be better to have sex with a virgin. Both of you don't know what you are doing and if you make a mistake he wouldn't know anyways. But on the other hand, people would say that having an experienced guy is better in bed and would know what they are doing. It's your call though.
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Definitely an experienced guy! Can I stress it enough? ;) Guys who already have experience will be more gentle and will cater to your needs before worrying about how they need to get off. Having sex with a virgin the first time can be awkward for many reasons. He may not understand where to "put it" per se, he can be forceful and hurt you (not that it's going to be fabulous the first time), and it can end in like 5 seconds. So if you want a more memorable experience, I'd go with an experienced guy. He'll get you in the mood and he'll use the right moves.
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it is soo much better to have sex with a guy that is experienced cuz if you have it with a virgin he won''t know what to do or anything like that.
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You have sex for the first time with someone who you love and who loves you back.
Their history, other than being something you need to know to prevent disease, shouldn't matter. :)
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An experienced guy is going to know what he's doing so it may be more enjoyable. But if you have sex with a virgin when you're a virgin you'll feel less pressurised to know what you're doing as he won't know either! Either way it shouldn't matter- you shouldn't have sex with someone just because they're a virgin or just because they're experienced.
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it all depends. i have to say that you should have sex with some one it will mean a lot with. you dont want to have sex the first time with a guy who doesnt mean anything to you. well i dont know if you do or not, but i wouldnt. but there are pluses to each side. virgin: same situation. experienced: could feel better. it is all up to you really. personally i would go virigin b/c they prolly dont know too much of what they are doing either. so then you wont be imbarassed and neither will he. but i wanna say something. make your first time mean something ok? drop me a line sometime if you need more advice.
the future mrs. steven mark jones
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its better to have sex with somebody you love.. sorry i didnt answer the question.. <p>
i dont think it should matter if they are a virgin or not it should matter how you and this person feel for eachother.. <p>
Yea a guy who isnt a virgin could be better.. but that doesnt mean anything to me.. a guy that you love should matter.. dont waste you time asking such silly questions.. ♥ Dez
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Sometimes it is better to have sex for the first time with a virgin because you'll both be in the same boat and you wont get as embarassed. That said, some people prefer to sleep with an experienced person the first time so they can guide them through it and show you what to do.
It's up to you. If it was me then I'd go with a virgin because it'd make it easier and he wouldn't expect so much from me.
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