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Hey I'm mystical_breeze! I'm a Christian, so Jesus comes first in my life. When I'm older I want to be become a comsmetologist or a writer. I love the jonas brothers like whoa man :]

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I started high school yesterday and noticed an EXTREMELY cute boy in two of my classes. He is so adorable and I already have a massive crush on him. But how do I talk to him? He's pretty quiet and I think I would have to make the first move. There's not really much time to talk in class... But some days maybe there will be. I'm bad at talking to boys and I would just feel so funny going up to him and talking! Please tell me how to initiate a conversation with him in a non-awkward place or time. Ahhh he's so cute!

Just start out by smiling at him if he looks your way. You don't need to have a full-on conversation to have him notice and want to talk to you. You need to start out with small things... like a flirty smile, or making a joke out of something in class. Guys appreciate you trying to make them laugh even if it's not that funny. If they find you attractive, they'll think it's cute. The only thing that kinda worries me is that he's really quiet... so, just make the first move. Make sure you're not making ALL the moves though. If you talk to him first or smile at him first and he has no response, then forget about it. Girls should never be the one to always initiate because it takes the guy out of their rightful place. If he doesn't take the hint and talk to you first after already talking to him a couple times, then he's not worth it.

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Ever since I was little I've had the worst experiences in church I was always badly judged because of my past mistakes and because my father made bad mistakes to I tried soo many churches but it was all the same. I've greatly improved and I've devoted my life to God and doing my best to please him but I get so scared I don't want to go near any churchs so I don't know what to really do. Anyone know what I can do?

God takes you in after every past mistake. He still loves you exactly the same as He loved you before. If people aren't willing to look past your mistakes...then that's their issue. God is forgiving, and that's why he sent Jesus in the first place to die for your sins. I know what's it like to be scared to go to a new church with people that will most definitely judge you, but it needs to be done at some point. Bring someone with you to church, like a close family member or friend. You'll find that a lot of people that go to that church are nice, and the people that aren't, you don't need to worry about them. Just focus on your own walk with God and you'll be fine. God still loves you with all his heart and is waiting for you with open arms. Also, there is no such thing as a "good christian." Everyone makes mistakes and all sins are equal to God. You're no worse than anyone else and no one else is "better" than you. Don't worry!

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13/F

how do i turn a guy on in school, like what do i do....talk.....say.....do.....walk.....act?

Guys generally like a silly and flirty attitude. You don't need to act like a complete airhead, but it's like, just being funny and personal with them is good. Keep it light and fun. Talk to them about every day things... just be yourself. I usually tend to make guys laugh and go for the "friends first" approach.. but always leave them hanging a little. Don't be the one to text or IM them first, and don't wait around for them. Plus, the guy needs to have an attraction to you. That's just how it works. My boyfriend had an attraction to me, then our personalities just clicked. I left a little bit of mystery at first though, which made him chase after me. Good luck!

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How do you put photos in the about me section on myspace?

You can upload them to tinypic.com or photobucket, then copy and paste the HTML code in your "About Me" section.

-mystical_breeze

:] hope this helped you.

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so on myspace nobody can see what e-mail youre using right??? x

Well, if they search to find your myspace by using your email and your myspace pops up, then yeah, they obviously know what email you're using. Other than that, I don't think they can see it.

-mystical_breeze

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14/M

Is it wrong to make out 1 week after the first date?

I wouldn't be too comfortable unless I've known the guy for a reallyy long time... if you two just met awhile ago and then started going out, I'd wait until things get more serious. See what she thinks of it though. Maybe her feelings are totally different than mine.
it's not 'wrong' if you both have no problem with it.

hope this helped!
xx

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okay i made a slide show of all my pictures of windows movie maker. and i tried to upload it. it wont upload on youtube, tinypic, or photobucket. what do i do to make it upload ?


PLEASE & THANK YOU!

You have to save it in a ".vml" file. When you're done making your video on Windows Movie Maker and you like the way it looks, go to the options on the left side that say "Publish to" and there will be a option underneath that says "This computer" Make the file name whatever you want, but it has to be .vml to work on youtube. Then click "Next" and "Publish". I learned how to do this a few days ago and it's pretty easy :]

hope this helped!

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So I'm supposed to be making a warm up cd for my soccer team. Well does anyone know any good songs to put on it? I have a few in mind such as Becoming the Bull by Atreyu, but it really doesn't matter what type it is..rap, rock, anything(obviously not country, but..). Thanks :]

Get the "Step Up" CD :] All the songs on there are great.. all dance stuff. I listen to it while I work out :D

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I'm in grade 7 and my girlfriend and i have been going out for a few weeks but i don't know if she knows i really love her (which i do) so my friend and i was talking about it and he said one day at lunchtime i should kiss her(without her suspecting it) so that will show her love her...........but i don't know if she will be happy or just think i am a creep

P.S. on the day we started going out one of her/my friends said she wanted to know if i will kiss her.....her name is Brooke

Well if you're in love then kiss her not in a public place where everyone can see you guys... most girls don't find that stuff romantic, haha. I don't know her personally, but in my opinion I think it would be better to wait until you both are alone and then do it unexpectedly :] Usually you can tell if she wants to kiss you too, and since you both have been together, she won't think you're a creep for kissing her. You're her boyfriend, after all.

Hope this helped :]

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Would you hook up with your ex for fun? (just making out) and why? does the girl make her slutty/easy? they both doing it for fun, and they both got prettier and cuter

As long as you both of your feelings are mutual. You both need to be either wanting to get back together or there aren't any emotions attatched at all. If one of you want to be together (in a relationship) and the other just wants to have fun, then it wouldn't be a good idea. I personally would only want to do that stuff with someone I was in love with, but we all have our own opinions. Just make sure you both are doing what you both want.

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this is a weird question haha. i'm 14/f and i'm taller and a little bigger (not fat) than most of my friends. Whenever i hang out with people, i feel so awkward and i feel like i don't look girly. I feel very manly and beastly compared to other girls. I'm also not really good at talking to people haha i know i'm a mess :]

what can i do to feel less awkward all the time?

Aw, don't feel like you're a 'mess.' I know everyone goes through that stage.. but not everyone has to just deal with it. Make yourself feel good.. do things for yourself like getting your eyebrows waxed, getting your hair done, and wearing cute AND comfortable outfits. Stick to cute flats instead of heels so you don't feel so tall, and wear clothes that work with your figure
http://www.be.young.dsl.pipex.com/fashion/fashin-shape.htm

Doing little things to make yourself feel good will definitely help.. you'll feel better about yourself :) As for not being too good at talking to people, I feel the same way most of the time. I suffer from anxiety but I feel I'm getting better at socializing. I realized that even though I feel people are secretly judging me, I had to realize that it's just my mind. Being yourself and just acting friendly will let other people be nice back. The only way to get better at talking to people... is by talking to people! :] It seems scary at times to step out of your comfort zone but it's definitely worth it.

Hope I helped you :] If you have anymore questions just ask away in my inbox.

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Okay, so me and me new bf just started going out, and i was wondering, when is it to soon to kiss him?

I would wait a few weeks before kissing him so you can make sure your relationship is official. My friends have gone out with someone and the first day or two they were together, they made out. A few days later, they broke up. It's a bad idea to rush anything, because you could break up at anytime if it's not serious, and you have to make sure you're both ready.

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everytime i use my video camera to make a video, and then i upload it to movie maker, it always shows up black, with no picure. im saving it as a AVI file. and it does that automatically. can i have step by step tips on how i can save it, upload it to movie maker, add transition or whatever i want, and then upload it to youtube and the actual video show up and not just a black screen?

thanks for all your help!

You have to save it in a ".vml" file. When you're done making your video on Windows Movie Maker and you like the way it looks, go to the options on the left side that say "Publish to" and there will be a option underneath that says "This computer" Make the file name whatever you want, but it has to be .vml to work on youtube. Then click "Next" and "Publish". I learned how to do this a few days ago and it's pretty easy :]

hope this helped!

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okay, so i'm debating on dying my hair again.
but idk what color to do it.
right now it looks like this:

http://a991.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/55/l_0d0def119573498ff3fbb87b135c8106.jpg

but it faded since then and i need a new color.
so i was thinking of going back to this color blonde:

http://a840.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/124/l_e0985d5e857b894db0f30e147560a157.jpg


so i guess the question is,
should i keep my hair brown?
or go back to the blondish color?

I love the hair color in the second picture.. It's gorgeous on you :] I'm a dirty blonde and I love it.. it definitely lifts my mood.

♥Alexa

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what should i wear?!
i'm so nervous, and just don't know
any advice would we mucho appreciated!

thanks :D

Just look cute and comfortable. Jeans and a comfortable, but sophisticated top. For example, if I were going, I'd wear my black skinny jeans, polka dotted tunic & flats or converses. Don't be nervous :]

-mystical_breeze
ox

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Im trying to get over this guy I liked, and my friends are trying to convince me it wouldn't have worked out anyways. hes a jock, he probalby only talkes about football and boobs. I talk about the wonderfull music were playing in band, (were in the same band class, same instrument) and how beautiful nature is, and how i love to express myself though dance yadda yadda...
are my friends right? would it have worked?

Okay, you said he 'probably' only talks about football and boobs. You need to get to know him yourself. That's the only way you can know for sure.

-mystical_breeze
ox

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ok im a girl, i am a size C bra... is theree a way to make your boobs bigger??? i know i should be happy with the way i am, but i just wanted to know.
thanks

Well, there's always push up bras. My friend wears the rubber fake boobs you put in your bra.. and it works well for her, so you can try those. I would never stuff my bra with tissue though or something.. please don't. It just won't work, ha. :]

-mystical_breeze
ox

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I'm going to the movies with some of my friends who I haven't seen since September on Friday. One of my friends is this guy who I liked all last summer, but he's kind of shy. I really want something to happen, but I don't think that I could just dive right in to kiss him, you know? What are some ways that I could hint at him to kiss me, not just flirting? And how can I get his attention during the movie (superbad) so that I even have a chance of anything happening?

oh and, last time I saw him (last september), we really hit it off. so i know that he probably would be attracted to me again, i just don't know how to make it happen.

thanks!!

15/f

You just need to be friendly and flirty. It's been awhile since you've seen him, so take the time to get to know him again. Ask him what's he been up to, and some good conversation will come up. Try to be outgoing, always make contact, and try to avoid awkward silences. You're going to see a movie which is awesome, because you'll have stuff to talk about afterwards. Sit next to him in the movie theater and just have fun. =]

-mystical_breeze

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hi 14/f :D
any of you out there, did you ever have long distance relationships that worked out in the end?
if so could you tell me your story? opinons or anything would be awsome :]

A long distance relationship can work, but for the most part I've seen a lot of people who have broken up because of not being able to see eachother. It's hard not to be able to hug your boyfriend when he's away, and when he's away, you never know who he's hanging out with and if he's seeing someone else. You need to both trust eachother, and keep in contact. Good luck =]

-mystical_breeze

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are guys turned off by braces?

15/f

It really depends on the guy. Some guys love girls with braces, and others don't care for them. It's just like us girls, really. We all look for different things on guys. =]

-mystical_breeze
Ox

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