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I'm Cameron, I'm 15/M, & I live in the Dallas Texas area.
Gender: Male
Location: Texas
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
MSN: MidnightFireflys@hotmail.com
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RAWR. my brother was on the phone with the kid i like.. & my brother goes "My sister likes you!"

I was like mortified..

I see him friday...& hes comin to my party..
What do i do!? Do I say something to him? (link)
awh, well, maybe he thought your brother was jokeing or something?

But, just act normall & if he talks to you about it then tell him if you want him to know, or if you don't want him to know, a little white lie never hurt anyone

hope I helped & good luck!


Dude, alright i live in missouri and I went to a walgreens to purchase some condoms and i am 15. so i was at the check out and the lady said "i'm not going to sell these to you" and i said "uhm lady why not?" and she said "you are too young to be having sex and im not gunna sell these to you" then she put it in the bag to be put back on the shelf...so yah is that legal? (she lectured me for about a 1/2 hr on the subject so please dont lecture me as well

p.s. i rate for good answers (link)
you could have gotten her fired, because basically what she's saying is "go get your girlfriend pregent"
but, it is leagal, try someplace else next time, or, if you can't do that, then go back & if she does it again get the manager
or you can try checking out at the Pharmacy, they're more likely to understand


My boyfriend is 18, he is out of school, has a GED and a job. I'm 14, in the 9th grade. All of my friends say that he is too old and that I'm "turning into a whore". He says he loves me and that he only wants me to be happy. Hes really sweet and I dont see what the problem is. My mom knows about the age difference, and she really hasnt said if she was ok with it or not. Do you think its ok? Also, I really love him and he says he loves me, is it possible to find your "true love" at 14? (link)
Well, it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks, just what the 2 of you think about this.
If your friends don't like it & start calling you bad things & spreading rumors about you, then are they really your friends?
Your mom will love you no matter what, & she does probolly know whats best for you (& yes, it's true, I had to learn that probolly the hardest way possible)

But, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, if you love him, & he loves you, then, thats all that matters.
If there is love, no matter the age diffrence, then you really can't stop the love just cos of the age? you'll still feel the same about someone

& 14 isn't too young to fall in-love, I fell in-love for the 1st time when I was 14. & I still love her.

So, I hope things work out, & I hope I helped.


This is kind of random but do you think that when someone losses thier virginity they should tell thier parents? (link)
I don't think so, somethings are better left unsaid, & I deffinetly think that this is 1 of them


What if my best friends are having a fight over love? It's not even that big of a deal, it's just problems in their life that restrict them. How can I get them to resolve their problems and get back together? (link)
theres not much that you can actuly do other then talk them through it & help them out
& as for their realationship, time will help them if the problems get resolved
think of it this way...
do 1 thing at a time, solve 1 problem at a time
& over time the problems will decrese
& at the sametime their realationship will get better
so, it may not seem like your doing 2 things at once, but you really are
& its for their good

hope I helped
& good luck!


ok so, my school is having a dinner dance. my best friend and i were going to ask the ppl we like to it today after school. BUT these to guys, who we are kinda friends with and like us, asked us to the dance. but when she went on the bus today, she asked the 2 guys that we like, what they would say if we asked them. they said they would have said yes!!!!! what the hell should we do? we are in need of some serious advice!!!! thanks


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well, tell the guys that you want to cancle & go with these other guys, it seems mean... but, you want to go with other people. So, your going to just have to tell the other guys.

Hope things work out & good luck!

-Cameron


Okay so I really really REALLY like this guy and I've liked him for about 3 months or more which is actually a very long time for me because i tend to be somewhat flighty when it comes to boys. And this guy happens to like me, but he also happens to my best friends ex boyfriend! I'm afraid that she'll get mad if I go out with him. Some people think that I should just go out with him and not worry about my friend because she might get mad, but she'll get over it eventually. What do you think?
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well, I think you should ask your best friend. I'm sure she wouldn't mind. But if she does, your best friend is more important than this guy, & you'll find someone else.

hope I helped

-Cameron


Anyone know any sad love songs to cry ur eyes out to? thank you. ♥ (link)
Sarah McLachlan - Angel
Sarah McLachlan - Full Of Grace
Sarah McLachlan - Do What You Have To Do
Sarah McLachlan - Last Dance
Sarah McLachlan - Ben's Song
Sarah McLachlan - Dirty Little Secret

Alanis Morissette - Mary Jane
Alanis Morissette - Your House
Alanis Morissette - That I Would Be Good

Josh Radin - Closer
Evanesence - My Immortal
Dido - Closer
James Blunt - Goodbye My Lover
Michelle Branch - Goodbye To You

& theres a ton of others
just look at that type of music


hi people

I really like this boy!!! and i think he likes me back cause he is always looking at me and stuff well so i was going to the mall one day and he was there to and i was sitting on a bench and than he comes and sits right next to me! well i allready had a big fight with my friends and i was in a bad mood so he (max) was like:
max: hi
me: hi
max: how are ya?
me: i dont know
max: you dont know how you are?
me: thats what im saying..................

well and than he asked me a lot of questions like: so are you in love with robert i hear that you'r going out with him (which is not true) and are you good in school......blablabla
well then he asked: soo wanna be my friend?
and i was like: dont know...
and i was very mean to him after that and i dont know why and i really hate me and today some other boy came to me in school and said: lisa i have to tell you from robert that he loves you and max heard that and said yeah i love you 2 i wanted to be your friend but you were so mean to me!
well thats the story AND PLEEAAASE GIVE ME ADVICE i really like him and how can i appologise and not seem silly??? so please give me advice

THANKS

P.S. you can also write me at corinne_neger@yahoo.de i would be pleased (link)
well... you can just talk to him & say your really sorry about what happened at the mall & why you were in a bad mood, & he should understand

hope I helped, & good luck

-Cameron


meaning of aborshin (link)
ok... an abortion is when a woman (or a girl, which ever) goes to s clinic or a hostpittle & has the baby that she is pregnent with taken out of her (in which, yes, the baby would die)

hope I helped

-Cameron


What causes guys to get boners? What are they thinking about also? (obviously sex but like what else?) (link)
ha ha, umm... well...

sometimes they are totally random, & thats the worst, you never know when its going to happen & its very embarissing, you could be anywhere thinking about anything, & then it just sort of happens...

sometimes when we're thinking about sex or see something we like, then that will do it too

or sometimes, something will hit us somewhere or what ever & it feels nice, & that will also do it

hope I helped

-Cameron


My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F. (link)
aww, no, most girls do that, they just don't admit it, its a thing girls go through at your age... & guys go through it too, only not with other guys, they immagine stuff about girls

theres nothing wrong with you, its perfectly normal

-Cameron


Ok some of you may think this is extremely dumb and think I am nuts; but when you have no desire, you don't want to do much. In Sept, I got my heart broken by a guy I was in love with, my first of everything, so it was a killer. But when the left, he took my everything including my desire to continue with my education. I started missing days for no reason, just staying home for no reason; now I am up to 15.5 days of absence. Meaning I can't be absent without a doctor excuse, which blows because no one goes to the doctor for a tummy ache or just a migrane(which I suffer with a lot). But not only so, I just don't like the atmosphere at school, it's a drag. This whole area is depressed, there isn't much us teens can do without getting into trouble. So legally, I can pull myself out of school and I've talked it over with my mom, she doesn't agree but can't make me stay since I am legally able to drop out. Everyone gives me the, "you're too bright, you have a lot going for you, you could be anything you wanted, you could go anywhere you wanted... why settle for a GED or even shut the doors to all those opportunities?" But I can't just tell them I have no desire anymore, they wouldn't understand. So my question is.... should I just stick this year out (I have till the end of May.. which is like 80 something days) or do what I think will give me peace of mind and drop out? Please help me because no one around me seems to be... I'll rate good, promise!!!! (link)
well... I am going through something simmaler, I have lost my whole desire for education after falling in love with this girl... & its all messed up, so, I'm not going to get into that... but, I do feel I have lost my desier

but, I think I'm going to drop out & just do homeschooling & graduate a year early & just get over all this... I can't support my personal life & my school work at the sametime... & you can blame my math teacher for that

it is all your decision, if you no longer have the desire, then drop out... but if you do have somewhat of a desire, then keep going... but the next year, you probolly still will not have any desire...

but it is all your decision, both my sisters dropped out & I might too... & I belive there is nothing wrong with it

I wish you the best of luck

-Cameron


if there any site with good music that liek when i click to it ..it goes to windows midea player ill rate you a 5 please help and i know cd zic but i hate it (link)
singingfish.com

hope I helped

-Cameron


My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a month, on Decemeber 15. We are always together, and I think that I love him. I know it's like, oh your a child you don't know what love is, but I really do believe that I am in love. We were laying on my bed on each other and I was thinking about how I love him, and I was about to tell him.. I asked him what he was thinking about, and he said, "I love you." It was like so strange though because I was just about to say the exact same thing, but anyways.. Wow, totally off topic. I'm 13, and whenever we are making out.. We get a little too into it, I suppose. Where it gets to the point when it's "dry sex", or having sex with your clothes on.. Yes, I know it's weird.. But, I feel the erge to want to have sex with him, and go farther, sexually. I am only in 7th grade, so of course I don't want to go that far.. All I have done with any guy is "feel up", because I refuse to go farther.. He was trying to finger me and I wouldn't let him. Basically, I am trying to ask..

Would it be wrong if I had sex with him?
I don't think I am ready, at all.
I could be wrong? Maybe, I am.
But - I am scared that next time we hook up that it will go a little too far.
And it's not like a 10 second hook up, it's more like 10 minutes.
Really, how far is "too far"?
I believe feel up is far enough for 7th grade.
But I'd love your views. (link)
well, everyone is diffrent, I mean, you could be ready now, it does not matter what age you are, just as long as you are ready, now if you where under 10 (like my cosin) & where wanting to do all of this, it would be totally diffrent, but you are 13, you can decide on that yourself, no one here can tell you when you are ready or if you are ready, you have to know yourself, & at anytime it is ok, it doesn't matter that your in 7th grade, as long as you & him both are ready & willing to do it

hope I helped & good luck

-Cameron


My parents have been telling me Santa Claus is real..I mean I am trying to believe but my parents have given off to MANY clues. I asked my mom the other day and she gave me the whole pep talk. Is Santa Claus real or is it his "helpers" who live w/ me? (link)
Santa is real... he was a bishop in Turkey over 1,700 years ago, but thats St. Nickolas... the Santa Clause your thinking of doesn't exist... I'm sorry you had to find out this way, but hey, at least you know, right?

hope I helped, & don't feel bad

-Cameron


ok i'm 13 yrs old and a little bit emberessed to sayt this but here i go...my boy feind wants to finger me and i'm kinda scared and i just don't kno what to do..i mena i want to but i'm just askin muh self questions leik will it hurt wll i cry ..what should i do please help ..thnxx (link)
well, it shouldn't hurt to much, the real thing i what hurts, & by doing this, it won't hurt as much, so its a good thing

don't worry about it cos it goes by slowly, it shouldn't hurt to much, just be sure that both of you are clean (wash your hands & everything else) so nither of you get any STDs

good luck & I hope I helped

-Cameron


Ok.....so guys...people at school call me a slut like all the girls and stuff...but i really don't think I am...and like they all say that guys love sluts..but i dont know....i meen I really dont think I am a slut..but guys do you like sluts or no...and what turns you on about a girl the most???

thanks (link)
ummm... wow... many things... but talking about sluttyness? I'd say a little is nice, but not like a TON, I think thats what your asking?

but, other things... nice, sweet, a little clingy (not a ton), funny, can be serious, brown hair, dirty-blond, green eyes, stuff like that

hope I helped & wishing you the best of luck!

-Cameron


ok well i've recently started playing the guitar and i'm totally into michelle branch's music so i was wondering if anyone knew a site or place where i could buy a michelle branch guitar music book? thanks a bunch ! i rate ! (link)
I know Sam Goodie ALWAYS has 1 in the mall near me, but if you don't have a Sam Goodie, maybe Virgin Records or Tower Records would be good

hope I helped & good luck!

-Cameron


I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this? (link)
well, just tell her that shes not supposed to do that, & tell her to wait untill shes at least 14 or 13, she should listen to you, she probolly looks up to you

& you tell them a closer year... 1, cos it doesn't seem to far off, 2, cos most people loose it around 13-16

-Cameron




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