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Wandering mind


Question Posted Friday January 27 2006, 6:08 am

My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.

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kevin1986 answered Saturday March 4 2006, 11:02 am:
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Shoval answered Tuesday February 7 2006, 7:21 pm:
its called being peverted.

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AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu answered Wednesday February 1 2006, 7:41 pm:
♥ No, it's not a sickness. A lot of girls' go through this stage. Don't worry about it. You'll grow out of it eventually, if it bothers you, try really hard to think about other things, instead of that. But You'll grow out of it don't worry.

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Ashtobomo answered Sunday January 29 2006, 3:06 pm:
No, that's hormones.

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BaLLaHoLLiC11 answered Saturday January 28 2006, 5:43 pm:
No, half the girls fantasize about this they just dont admit it. Atleast you know your striaght.
<33

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QueenCece answered Saturday January 28 2006, 1:47 pm:
No, it really isn't sick you just wanna just busy. But don't until your in college..trust me. It's not sick cause i fantasize about doing it with guys all the time and it's so funn!!! Don't look at yourself wrong if you wanna watch a porno to see it. That's perfectly normal. Ask your friends if they fantasize about the penis or sex, you'll be surprised at what they tell you. If they don't fantasize i know milllions of girls out there do. Don't worry it's perfectly natural. hope i helped! Any more questions you can just ask me!

~queencece~

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crazyassmuthafuka7 answered Saturday January 28 2006, 11:49 am:
im sure its not a problem, ur probably just a horny kid like the rest of us

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jealousyxo answered Friday January 27 2006, 11:04 pm:
Hun your normal,its hormones.Everyone goes through what your going through with thinking about "dirty" things.Were just some horny teenagers ; ] lol

&hearts;danielle

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday January 27 2006, 8:13 pm:
Its normal sweetie.. Everybody thinks about this kind of stuff and i`m sure everybody wonders the same thing you do.. &hearts;Dez

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday January 27 2006, 8:11 pm:
actually it is kinda normal.. i mean nobody can help it when they are horny. you are just more horny then most people. it is natural to be like that. dont worry about it. everyone goes through a time like that. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Friday January 27 2006, 6:46 pm:
It`s hormones. You just start thinking about sexual stuff. No way is this a sickness. If it were, everyone-and i mean everyone- will be sick. You`re normal. So don`t worry about it.

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Krupple answered Friday January 27 2006, 5:48 pm:
Well, dudes tend to stare at females' boobs all the time. You might have an strong sex drive for a girl, but no, I don't think it's anything to worry about.

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CameronASTB answered Friday January 27 2006, 4:57 pm:
aww, no, most girls do that, they just don't admit it, its a thing girls go through at your age... & guys go through it too, only not with other guys, they immagine stuff about girls

theres nothing wrong with you, its perfectly normal

-Cameron

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iiloveyou answered Friday January 27 2006, 3:37 pm:
its completely normal .. as teens we all do it . dont feel bad about it : )

xoo hope this helps !! &hearts;

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orphans answered Friday January 27 2006, 3:11 pm:
Im like that too.
Its normal, it will fade out, soon.

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MikeCFT answered Friday January 27 2006, 3:09 pm:
Yea we all do the same thing with girls even more :-) Careful of the guys who have the little Quarter Inch Killers or the Millimeter Monsters.

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MainMan2230 answered Friday January 27 2006, 2:05 pm:
No not a sickness it's called hormones. Your at the age right now where your starting to want to experiment with your sexuality somewhat. You'll prob. continue to think like this until, no offense, but you mature a little bit more. You'll be fine just remember thoughts don't have to turn into actions.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Friday January 27 2006, 12:48 pm:
I think that's very normal actually. You're at a stage in your life when your body is still adjusting to the increased hormone levels from going through puberty. Feeling like that can get really irritating sometimes, but don't worry. It will go away relatively soon. Good luck :)

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Tan answered Friday January 27 2006, 12:02 pm:
Perfectly normal. We all do it... its just a part of growing up. It might not pass exactly... but it will definatly fade out. Happens to everyone. xxxx

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alisonmarie answered Friday January 27 2006, 11:13 am:
It's the opposite of sickness, it's normal and healthy. Your body is full of hormones, emotions, and curiousity - and there's nothing wrong with that!

You'll find that most people, whatever age, have fantasies or thoughts they would be embarassed to share with other people. You're perfectly healthy!

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ankeagle14 answered Friday January 27 2006, 10:40 am:
at this age thats what our minds kind of wander to. its bad, i know. and i hate it. but ask yourself this. what do you think guys think about?
~Ank

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Courtney answered Friday January 27 2006, 9:38 am:
That doesn't mean that you're sick and it doesn't mean that you're disgusting. Unfortunately at this age, we dream and we imagine. That's just the way it is. It's natural so don't feel embarrassed or ashamed.

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careless-fun answered Friday January 27 2006, 9:11 am:
Nope. What do you think most guys think about???

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TheOldOne answered Friday January 27 2006, 8:59 am:
Unless your thoughts get to the point of full-blown sexual obsession, it's not a sickness. It's basically normal.

If you find that you're staring uncontrollably at the crotch of every guy you meet, or if you can't sleep at all most nights because of what you're thinking, then it would probably be a good idea to talk to a therapist or counselor. They should be able to help.

But the odds are very good that you're just a normal teenager, with typical teen hormones. In which case, your thoughts will probably get less intense eventually.

Good luck!

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whabit answered Friday January 27 2006, 7:33 am:
Hi there :o) Well your fantasies doesn't harm anyone, your a teenager and your hormones are raging! Try to control your thoughs a little bit more, rather be intersted in the person self than what he has in his pants :o) Your not sick so don't worry!

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Kathleen answered Friday January 27 2006, 7:26 am:
well dont feel at all like your the only one who does this, everyone going through life has sexuall fantacy's about the opposite sex or even the same sex and its only the hormones in your body i am 17 and i still fantacise about guys i see but once you learn and experiment more you dont seem as curious so you wont have as many but your not the odd one out you are just one of many

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