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I'm a good singer and its my passion. How can i get even better at it besides practice?
Listening to different kinds of music and stuff can help, like jazz, hip hop, pop, classical, opera... whatever. But practice is the best thing for you.
Ok, well our school is doing this trip to Europe for next summer, and I REALLY want to go, but my mom says I can't unless I raise the money myself. I don't know how I'm going to get the money, cause it's a really expensive trip, but I really want to go. Anyone got any ideas on how I can raise the money? And I'm too young to get a job anywhere... Please help! Thanks!
hmm. You could do a Carwash, bakesale, yard sale, babysit, mow lawns, rake leaves, clean people's houses there are lots of things you can do...
ok. i know this is like the third ocd post, but i have been mening to post this. what is ocd exactly? because i think i might have it.
-sometimes i make myself breathe a certain way, to like make a pettern
-i have to tap sonthing or touch it to make a noise pattern.
its mostly things like with patterns and stuff. and i cant stop it. Once, It all stopped for like 6 months, and i dont know if it was a oincedence, but in that period of time, i had stopped reading. then when i started to read books again it started up again. thanks for your time.
~Ank
OCD- Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is an anxiety disorder characterized by intense, recurrent, unwanted thoughts and rituals that are beyond the person's control.
On time I took care of a little boy with OCD. He kept taking books off a bookshelf and putting them back on, off then back on.
If you do things like this without really meaning to, then maybe you do have it. I think you should go to a doctor or talk to someone about it, if its bothering you.
i've had a gazelle for about 2 years now. Do you have one or no anybody who has one? does it work? will 20 minutes a day make you lose weight?
i really would appreciate any advice!
thanks babes
Of course it works! That is, if you do 20 minutes a day every day of the week. Also, if you want to watch your weight, you need to eat healthy too. It doesn't help if your eating more calories than your burning. So eat your veggies and fruits, and cut back on junk food!
ok so this is like the first time ive ever used this site but i need some advice & sorry if this is long but i will rate all 5s. =]
so recently my best friend and i got in a fight -we'll call her Jamie. well she saw these emails i was sending with this girl "Amy" that were talking about her and this boy BUT i really was trying to help her out, i prob shouldnt have been talkin about it but i was like joking around and tryin to find out who the guy likes. but she saw them and thought i was betraying her which i was not trying to do at all. she was mad at me for like 4 days and wouldn't talk to me, and she doesn't know this i dont think but i cried so much because i really thought i was loosing my best friend and i really missed her. i apologized but she didn't talk to me until these goths were mean to me and then we talked for a while last night and im pretty sure we're ok now .. the only thing is that before she told me she won't trust me for a long time. this really hurts me because we had a very trusting relationship and we told each other alot and i dont want to loose that. i would never tell any of her secrets ever and i would never do anything like what i did again but idk if she knows that. how long do you think it will take for her to trust me again? do you think we're really back to how we used to be? she is my best friend and im so lucky to have her but i want her to trust me and i want to know that we really are OK and back to how we used to be, i wasn ttrying to do anything at all. but another thing is i found out that she called me fat behind my back before and talks about me behind myback sometimes, too. but i would never backstab her.. can someone help me w/ all this??
also she thinks i invited these girls "patricia" and "denise" to this thing yesterday because i just wanted to start drama which is not true i didnt invite them i asked if they were going because they usually go. i didnt even think about that she wouldn't liek it.
so basically that whole week sucked for me i was really sad, i mean i have other good friends that were there for me but she is like my best friend and i thought she would never talk to me again thats how it seemed.
how do i make sure we're ok? and if she still trusts me? thank you so much for answering!@
I think you really need to have a long conversation with your friend. You need to talk about what you did that bothered her and reassure her that you will never do anything like that ever again. You need to make sure she understands that when she was mad at you in made you ver upset and you don't want the relationship to change beteween the two of you.
Then I think you need to talk to her about what you heard she said about you. She may have just been upset about the whole thing and didn't really mean it.
If she really is your best friend, then you shouldn't keep thinks that are bothering you from her. You should be honest and always tell her the truth. Best friends are for soemone to tell everything to, right?
Love is blind; friendship closes its eyes.
- unknown
First off, im sorry this is so long i really need advice thou, and i rate high
My boyfriend and I have been together a LONG time and i love him so much. but sometimes he can be a pain. His best friend (whos a girl) and him are really close. He talks about her all the time, and whenever i ask him questions about if he had to be with someone else who he would be with he says her. They've liked eachother before and they flirt like crazy! They say they dont love eachother but i cant help but worry. also their planning on going to the same college, and my boyfriend and i are really serious and plan to stay together throw college even though we will be attending diffrent schools. and we know we will have breaks but he says he knows he will probably have feelings for her at one time. I broke up with him at one point but i realized how much i love him and shouldnt worry. When i try to talk to him he gets really angry and i dont know what to do. thank you soo much!
hmm... it doesn't sound to me like he likes you all that much. If he doesn't listen to you when you talk to him about things that are bothering you, then I don't know how strong your relationship really is.
As for his best friend, it sounds to me like he likes her.... more than a friend.
If a guy wants to be with you, you shouldn't have to take breaks.
Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command.
- Alan Watts
ok, my abs are pretyy flabby and so are my theighs, what should i eat and not eat and what can i do (exercise wise) to get rid of them...i rate high thx...
Just eat healthy. Watch calories and eat lots of fruits and veggies. Also, a lot of studies are showing that skim or fat free milk can help a lot with loosing weight.
As for you abs, you can to crunches and things like that. You can also take runs. Even just playing sports can be fun!
hey anybody here go tanning? i mean i do.. i just want to kno how long it takes before you actually start looking tan. And can it fade? thanks LOTS
I don't go tanning myself, I think it looks to fake. But a lot of my friends go tanning. It depends on how long each time you go tanning. It might take a couple of days. And yes, it can fade. It can always fade.
what happens when you run outta answers, and you dont know what to do anymore? what happens when your not happy with yourself and your lost and confused? what happens when you think your fat and everyone else tells you your wrong? what happens when you lose your bestfriend because shes just not the same anymore? what happens when you life falls apart?
Oh hunny, I think some therapy would be good. It sounds to me like your sorta depressed. You should find someone you can talk to about it. That always makes me feel better when I'm upset about something.
Ok, so i have this guy friend and we're not close or anything, we're just friends but he always touches me and tries to hook up with me and stuff and it's really obvious that he wants to get with me. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. to be really honest, i have big boobs and I'm pretty sure thats why he wants me so bad. But I'm not sure.... He always puts his hands on my legs (really high) and around my waist and rubs my arms and like puts his arms on my stomachh and pretends like he's about to feel me up, (he thinks i think he's kidding but i know hes serious....) does he like me or not, and what should i do/don't do???
He might like you.. or maybe he's just trying to get in your pants. Maybe if you just flat out ask him if he likes you.... that could work.
Hey! Ok does anyone know how to find out how to see the people that viewed your myspace? I know that the Number of veiws shows but cant you see who is looking at it? And one other question is there anyway you can find out who has your screename? Like people that wont talk to you or just have your screename to look at your myspace or watever! I just wanted to know because i dont want like weird men looking at my myspace! Thanks guys.
I don't think there is any way to find out at all. If you don't want weird people looking at your myspace, you can make it private.
I really want to find the right guy
The right guy will come along at the right time. And when you find him, you will know it.
The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
- Carl Jung
Okay, so I've been hanging out with new people lately, and I like this guy but I don't know how to get him to notice me. He knows I like him, and yeah I guess that's brought us closer. But he's always by this other girl. I've asked many people what to do and they say that he thinks I'm hott, but he's always by her. Please help me get ways for him to come by me and hang out with me instead of her!
13/f
Ask him to hang out with you. Get to know him better. Talk to him more.
I had those little rhinestones that you can get from Claire's on my cell phone. Well they started to get old so I tried to peel them all off.
Now the sticky glue stuff that held them on is all over the back of my phone and I can't get it off. I've tried several different things but nothing can get the glue off. Do any of you know how to get it off? Please help, my cell phone looks disgusting noww!
Try using alchohol preps. My brother got that stickey stuff all over his guitar one time from putting stickers on it. We used Alchohol preps and it came right off.
at least once a month, I get migraine(sp?) headaches. I dont know what causes them, but I cant take any medication for them because I dont like swallowing pills. I have never done it in my life and whenever I try i feel as if I am choking and almost throw up. Are there any migraine medications I can take where I dont have to swallow a pill? If not, is there any way I can get myself to swallow a pill without vomiting? thanks ♥
Do you try drinking water or something with it? Also, my little brother has to crush the pill up and put it on a spoon with applesauce because he can't swallow it either. Maybe that will work.
I'm curious about something. If a person has been a smoker since they've been 12 years old, what long term effects would it have on the person? I'm asking because my friends wife is 54 and has been smoking since she was 12. She smokes about 2 packs a day. I think he is worried about her health. I already know that it has prematurely aged her from the outside. She has a very wrinkled face and horrible black and yellow stained teeth. Also does anyone have any solutions as to how she could quit? I hear it's very hard but possible.
My dad has tired quitting millions of times. For him, it just hasn't worked. I guess it just depends on who you are and how strong you are. My dad doesn't really want to quit that bad, so he doesn't try very hard.
She can try patches or noccotine gum or something like that. Other times you don't even need stuff like that. My aunt quit smoking by chewing regular gum and sucking on peppermint things. I guess it just depends on what your personal situation is.
Cancer is pretty much the biggest long term thing.
I'm an almost 15 year old girl. There's a guy I like in two of my classes, and I'm not sure if he likes me or not. We were randomly partnered up for an in-class assignment. After we'd finished, he started to ask me something, but then stopped. We barely know eachother, but he's always nice to me and sometimes I see him looking at me. I really like him, but does he like me?
P.S. I've never gone out with a guy before.
Who really knows if he likes you... You should flirt around with him and get to know him. Then it might be easier to tell
My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.
No, that's hormones.
Are their any clothing styles that make your breasts look bigger? Like bras and t-shirts and stuff. I heard V necks make an illusion of bigger boobs but i don't know. Please help me.
V necks do work. Also you can wear those half shirt things that tie in the middle of your bust... do you know what I'm talking about? I can't remember what there called, but I saw on a show that those work too.
i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared.
No, if you haven't been sexually active then there's no way you are pregnant. There are a million and two reasons as to why you haven't had it. Its probably just some health reasons. If you go to your doctor, I'm sure they can figure it out and get you back on track.