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Ok, so i have this guy friend and we're not close or anything, we're just friends but he always touches me and tries to hook up with me and stuff and it's really obvious that he wants to get with me. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. to be really honest, i have big boobs and I'm pretty sure thats why he wants me so bad. But I'm not sure.... He always puts his hands on my legs (really high) and around my waist and rubs my arms and like puts his arms on my stomachh and pretends like he's about to feel me up, (he thinks i think he's kidding but i know hes serious....) does he like me or not, and what should i do/don't do???
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He might like you.. or maybe he's just trying to get in your pants. Maybe if you just flat out ask him if he likes you.... that could work.
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Well...if you want to know if he really likes you or not you should tell him to stop touching you all the time and then see if he still acts like he likes you without touching you.
and do you like him??
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A girl can usually tell if a guy's actions are sincere or not. but some are hard to understand. i know how this goes with the whole big boob thing (i feel ya it happens to me all the time) This one is a hard one to crack considering it could either be a booty call or he really wants to be with you. Your best bet is just to ask him straight out but if your not comfortable with that have one of your close friends ask and just be like "hey do you like *ur name* you seem to mess with her alot" or something along those lines. Im thinking he may like you but im not 100% sure because like you said you have big boobs and guys usually go for that ive had this happen to me and its usually just him wanting to mess around no relationship. If you like him then flirt with him back but if you dont and your uncomfortable with it then tell him to stop and be serious about it. All i can really say is to just ask him or have someone ask thats the only way you will really know. Good luck hope i helped! if you need something leave me somethin in my inbox!
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He sounds like he is in it for the benefits. Because if he had serious feelings for you he wouldn't be so quick to touch you. I think you should let him know the way you feel about it. Let him know you don't like it when he does that and make sure he stops.
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well if you dont feel comfortable with him taking on these actions and making passes on you then you need him to tell him to stop immidiately because this is sexual harrassment which is not okay at all . also, you need to let your friend know that you just want to be friends with him, and that you just want to make sure that he knows that . if he keeps on doing this stuff then you need to tell someone - a trusted adult, older sibling, or even a guidance counselor . dont be afraid, you're not the only one who goes through this kind of stuff . just take a deep breath, figure out what you're going to say to him, and smile =)
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
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