i know most of the advice givers get over 10 boy stories a day & im sorry this is another one of those typical "he doesn't realize im alive" stories. well there is this boy at my church, he is nice to everyone in my youth group, girls and boys. most of the time he doesnt want to talk to me. im falling hard for him and i just want to know--if he is nice to everyboddy in church and a generally nice guy out of church why doesnt he talk to me? here's some side stuff 1)everytime i look up at him singing on stage he is always looking at me 2) i took his phone and put my number in it and he didnt delete it:) 3)he always talks to my friends. i hope you can help!
I think he likes you. He is probably nervous to talk to you, which only means that its up to YOU to make the first move. Talk to him, be causal and cool. Don't worry about it, just be yourself and I promise that things will be great! Trust yourself and be confident.
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hey im the one with the question about should i call that guy.
okay but how do i make it final because like were both shy and i dont wanna be like firm
i guess ha
-Lauren
hey! alright, well you should sound really confident! be like, hey, so what are you up to this weekend? he'll probably say nothing. and you can say, ok good, lets go to the movies on saturday! i heard there is (a movie) playing at (a theater) at (a time) you wanna come with me? i heard its supposed to be really good!"
ya knw what i mean? sound confident and sure of yourself. i know how hard that is because your shy, but be strong, you can totally do this! make him want you! guys LOVE confidence.
and if he says yes, say the time you'll meet and confirm it. dont just be like hey lets hang out, because things like this always need confirmation..
keep me updated!
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this may be long but im desperate!
14/f
ok on october 25th me and my friend went to this hangout place and played games and stuff. now my friend is the type to go up to a guy and say hes hot then walk away. okay so shes had boyfriends but shes not a slut now im fat (but im working on it) and ive never had a boyrfriend. there were these to guys that we walked by and she went up to them and she was like do yall go to our school and i told her no they go to ***** (15 minutes from where i live) how do you
know and i said because i went to fifth grade with one of them (not the hot one) then we left. and i kept telling her how cute the other one was and so they both go to the school i was gonna go to if i hadnt moved and all my old bestfriends go to their school. so we were walking around and i was txting my cousin so i was like ya ok and she came back he the hot one was with her and im really shy so i was shocked and he asked me for my number and i got his then my friend and i were walking around some more and there was this one ride i REALLY wanted to go on but she was too scared so she went up to him and asked him if he would go on the ride (an enclosed, 2 person, upside down ride) and he said he didnt have any money left so she INSISTED on giving him the money so he said ya but in like 10 minutes his friend and him said they were gonna go outside to talk to somebody (and we were like ya right there not coming back) so twenty minutes later we went outside to see if they were there and they wernt so we came back and like five muntes later i saw them and he waved by to me and thats it so i fianlly convinced my friend to go on the ride with me and we were waiting in line and i was picking a ride and then i saw my friend turn around and i turned around and he was standing there (my heart dropped, i was so shocked) and so my friend was like you saved me and me and him got on the ride and then he left without saying bye but i started txting him that night and i was asking him questions like so whats your favorite band etc. and he was really short with his answers and he never asked me anything and i was like do u want me to stop asking you questions and he was like idc. then my friend took my phone while i was in the shower ( i told her to) and she called him! and she was like hey do you like her a little tiny bit? and he was like uhmmmmmmmm uhmmmmmmmm uhmmmmmmmmm ya i like her eyes, but i just need to get to know her before we date(:. then they hung up so i said good night then the next night (sunday) he called me from a different number and he was letting me know that hecan recieve and calls a texts but he cant call or txt people and i was like oh then he was like ya but you can call me tonight or tomorrow or both if you want. then that night i called him and we had a really good 30minute conversation, we have a lot in common. and he was like i have a question and i said what and he was like do you wear contacts? and i said no and he said you well you have really pretty eyes (there green.) and i was like aw thanks. (the nicest thing he has ever said to me. so i called him everyother day and he was really just to tired to talk and we have really awkward silences soin total we have only had like 3 good convos since then but one night we were talking and we talk for like 30 40 minutes and he was like hey what time are you going to sleep and i said midnight probably and he was like ok then ill call you at 11 so we can talk for an hour, and i was like ok but ur probably gonna forget and he was like know i wont i swear i double swear i promise. then he called me 12 cause he thought it was 11 and we didnt even talk a lot cause we were both really tired. so i ALWAYS CALL HIM like hes only called me TWICE and we never have anything to talk about except for on the weekends. and last weekend i was at his school cause my bestfriend was in a play and i went to go see it and the next day i called him and was like i was at your school last night and he was like why and i told himwhy and he was like ohh you should have called me i couldve seen it with you(: but yaa i mean i would LOVE to go to the movies with him or something im just so shy and fat... :/
what do you think??
should i stop calling him?
do you think he likes me?
ive gone 4 days without calling himn to see if he would call me and he didnt.
i need help dudes.
please??
yes, i think what you sent me is a great idea (about calling him on wed)
good luck girl! and let me know how it goes xo
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14/f
ok im the one that posted this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=553503
basics:
never had a boyfriend.
pretty chubby(working on it).
my friends say im pretty.
not popular.
shy/quiet unless you get to know me.
please read the question i provided in the link above, if you dont know what im talking about.
please, please, please read it.
im desperate.
recent update:
a few weeks ago we were talking on the phone and i was like i really wanna go to the movies and he was like we should go like not this weekend but the next.
we never did.
i like him so much.
but i dont want to give up.
but im always the one who calls him.
and like whenever i hear his name my stomach drops, i blush, my heart beats fater, and i can i hardly breathe. i think about hime everyday.
and the from the last time i saw him, i look way different in a good way and he doesnt know that.
what do i do and why do i feel that way?
He doesnt sound too interested in you...YET! you should wait a week, call him, and MAKE FOR REAL PLANS. actually stick to them. if you wanna see a movie with him, call him up and tell him the date and movie and time, so it sounds for sure like you will actualy go. and be like, "hey, lets hang out already! and actually do it this time" be really casual about it, but BE CAREFUL not to call/text him all the time cause guys dont like that.
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15/f
okay, so today my friend jon (who is my ex-boyfriend also; we broke up about a month ago) told me that he is basically addicted to internet porn and that he masturbates all the time. and that he actually did it so hard that he hurt himself to the point where he couldnt walk, and that's why he missed school yesterday. when we were going out he seemed to rush things alot and now im so relieved that i didnt really do anything with him (we only kissed).
now im really, really grossed out and i dont really know how to act around him. part of me is extremely grossed out that i even went out with him, and the other part of me wants to try to be friends, even though i sort of know it will always be weird. what do i do?
When I was 15 I went through the EXACT same situation. It was kind of funny reading this because of how similar it was for me. I had this best friend (and we used to go out) and the most we did was kiss also. After we broke up, we still remained friends, however it was a little weird. He told me all about how he masterbates to internet porn, which he seemed to do A LOT of the time. It was strange to me and I did get grossed out, but then I realized that it was completely normal for teenage boys to do that. The fact that he was comfortable enough to share that information with you just shows how much he longs for friendship and how he trusts you. Try to look at it as normal, and if he still bothers you, tell him not to tell you these things anymore.
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im 18 and my boyfriend is 16 is it illegal for us to date?
nope, not illegal :)
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Well okay i have always wnated to know this like do guys like it more when you shave down there or not i am really confused please help D:
i was told they like "a little stubble" whatever that means.
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18/f
so i'm not really clear on the definition of
"getting felt up" im sure there is no exact definition but what is the concept? because guys have like grabbed my butt, and like rubbed it? rubbed my stomach and my boobs and stuff like that. is that considered being felt up?
being felt up is when a guy puts his hands directly on your boobs
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what are some things i should know before you have sex for your first time? I'm like DEATHLY afaid of getting pregnant, and i know use protection, but still i dont wanna get pregnant. And im not on the pill and i doubt my parents will buy it for me. idk even know if im ready for sex, like ive always wanted to do it, but idk if am, if i dont know if i am ready for it, maybe i shouldnt do it?
15/f
DO NOT DO IT! If you EVER have doubt at all, then you are NOT NOT NOT ready. do not do it, you will regret it.
wait until you have absolutely no doubts are are positive it is what you want.
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should you use a condom when giving a handjob?
only if you want more lubricant
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17/F
I was with my boyfriend, Jake, for about 9 months. We've had MANY lows and few highs, but our relationship level was somewhat in the middle. A lot had to do with the fact that I live an hour away from him, so we only saw each other about twice a week.
Well, these past two weeks we hadn't seen each other much at all. We were also hitting a rough patch because I didn't drive down to see him as often as I usually did. I went and saw him the other day, and it was him who brought up that we should break up. The break up was not bad at all -- in fact, it was probably the best break up ever -- and that's what makes it so much harder.
He wants to be good friends with me. He even said, "If I could choose between being really unhappy but dating you, or not talking to you at all, I'd stay with you because I can't stand not having you in my life." Another things he said was "I honestly might regret this in a few days, so if I call you, you can do one of two things: disregard me, or really, really, reconsider it." He said that we would hang out often, call each other, etc. He said he would start calling me in a week.
I know I was mentally prepared for it, but the impact of the breakup really tore me apart. I teared up a lot when we were talking, but I really broke down when I left his house and got away from his view. Now, I can't stop thinking about him. I think it's one of those "want what you don't have" type of things.
I'm terrified to be his friend because I don't know how to be -- we were NEVER "just friends". We also respect each other enough to give each other room to adjust before dating other people. However, I'm scared of this whole friend thing, as I just said. I'm afraid that, if we're friends, I won't get over him when I really should.
What are the best ways to get over a breakup?
Has he called you at all since the breakup?
I think you should try and hang out with him as a friend, see how it goes. If things are going horribly, tell me how you feel. I know it is so much easier said than done, but it will help a lot!
good luck xo
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what does healthy vaginal discharge look like?
because mine is a little thick sometimes?! like it has no smell and is transparent but it's a bit clumpy or sticks together and it looks a bit like mucus?
i heard that when you have cervical cancer that your discharge might contain that but it's quite impossible for me to have that because i never go to public toilets and ive never had sex before (I'm 15/f) and i have no other symtoms. I'm totally fine.
so is this weird?
i think that's what discharge is supposed to look like. i wouldnt be worried since there is no odor. but if you are worried, you can always see a doctor, they are very used to questions like this.
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MY gf and i are together for almost 2 years, and now everyhings changed. i love her so much and i dont wan to lose her. i sometimes think that if she was not meant for me then i'll just end up my life because she's my life. it seems that our relationship is like a bomb waiting for its time to blow...everyday the clock ticks and the end is near for us. she always told me she love me but i could not feel it like before...was i too demanding for her to show it or she doesnt love me anymore? i am really confused and dnt know what to do..i wanted ending killing up myself so that i will not suffer the pain when the time comes..
please be careful. she sounds extremely important to you, and if you do lose her, please do not do anything to harm yourself.
i think you should talk to her about it. you've both said those important 3 words to each other, you've been together about 2 years! you have to be comfortable enough with her to tell her your feelings. i know its way easier said than done. but please try!
good luck with everything.
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ok. before he put the condom on, there was a bit of pre cum on his penis. He wiped it off, and then like 5-10 minutes later we had sex with a condom on. but once he inserted his penis in my vagina the condom broke. he pulled out and put on another condom. The second time it did not break. What are my chances of getting pregnant? My ovulation calendar says that i will be fertile on 11/24-11/28. Can i become pregnant?
There is a possibility that you could get pregnant. I would suggest taking buying a couple of pregnancy tests, just to make sure.
Good luck!
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im worried about the size of my penis, i think its too small, ive never really seen another penis so i dont know whats big and wats small, and like wats the average guys penis size, if it helps mine is 7 inches, is that good or bad? please help
Your penis is not small at all. I think the average is around 5 1/2 or 6.
Your fine =)
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-- I'm currently 32 years of age.
-- Obviously, a female.
-- I have a cup size of AA.
-- I am very embarrassed.
-- And this is where you fall into place.
-- I need an IN-HOME REMEDY or MAKE YOURSELF
CREAM or something to increase my cup size.
-- Buying something is not an option.
-- Thanks in advance.
Im sorry, but I do not think there is anything that you can do to make your breast size bigger without surgery.
Good luck though
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Ok well I think I should start shaving my vagina, but I don't know how without it hurting. What exactly do you do? I imagine that it will hurt very badly and that it will itch a lot. Is there any way to do without it itching or hurting. Please someone tell me the full details.
THANK YOU!
Alright, personally I do not really like shaving, but nairing is the best for me.
First you have to trim and then nair.
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Here it is. The famous kissing question. I know you are all probably sick of answering this question, but please I'm desperate.
A few weeks ago this boy and I started liking each other. I went over his house,but nothing happened because of a certain reason that has nothing to do wtih this story. anyway, and then the other day he kissed me on the lips, and so soon I'm pretty sure that soon we're probably going to make out. A lot of my friends just said go with the flow, do whatever feels right but is that really it? Can anyone relate me back to there first make out and what happened and how they felt? My guy friends always talk about how when someone is a good kisser, they just want to kiss them over and over again. How do you be a good kisser, liek what qualities does a good kisser have? Please, no one send me links to teen magazines telling you how to kiss. I want the real deal from actual people.
Thank you so much :)
Hi, alright, so I totally know how you feel.
I remember my first kiss, and how before it I was so nervous because I did not know what to do at all. The honest truth is that you just have to listen to your friends when they tell you to go with the flow. After you guys kiss, you will realize how easy that was and that it was not worth getting worked up about. I know this advice may not be what you want, but its the truth. JUst do whatever feels best.
Good luck!
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So i gave my boyfriend a handjob and i got cum on my fingers but i washed it off and about 40 mins. later i masterbated and i got my period 4 days later and i read that even if you get your period you could still b pregant? do you think i am?
I think the chances of you getting pregnant are slim to none. I mean, if you really washed your hands well, then u cannot be pregnant.
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okay.
im 13.
i just got my frist period this morning.
i dont wanna tell my mom! should i keep it low for a while? or no..?
i took some of my sis's pads.
why wouldnt u tell ur mom??
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