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does my gf fallen out of love with me?
MY gf and i are together for almost 2 years, and now everyhings changed. i love her so much and i dont wan to lose her. i sometimes think that if she was not meant for me then i'll just end up my life because she's my life. it seems that our relationship is like a bomb waiting for its time to blow...everyday the clock ticks and the end is near for us. she always told me she love me but i could not feel it like before...was i too demanding for her to show it or she doesnt love me anymore? i am really confused and dnt know what to do..i wanted ending killing up myself so that i will not suffer the pain when the time comes..
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This doesn't sound like it's about her. You need to work on you.
You need a hobby. You need an interest that isn't just her. You are depressed, insecure and a bit obsessed. It's not fair to expect her to 'prove' her love, over and over again. Worse, it’s going to drain her affection for you. It would drain anyone’s.
To be a good partner, you need to have more in your life then JUST her. Being the only thing in another persons life is a huge responsibility and really tiring. That is a huge burden you are placing on her. Eventually, that burden will become annoying.
When we are young, and well, some of us even as we get older, mistake that kind of longing for love, but it’s really healthy love. It’s the kind of affection a child has for their blankie, and it’s not the foundation of a satisfying relationship between to equal partners.
Find something else in your life to be happy about and proud off. Take up a hobby or an artistic pursuit or a sport. Get some counseling for your suicidal tendencies before the burden of your mental health is too for her to bear. She can’t be your therapist or your feel-good blankie; she is real person with her own needs and sorrows, she can’ solve all yours and if you look to her too, she will leave you.
She probably isn’t ‘falling out of love’, but any half-way sensible young lady would be turned off if her boyfriend spoke like you did here.
You need help. And it’s not help that she can give you. You need to see a doctor or a counselor ASAP.
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You need to sit down and talk to her.
Don't kill yourself, it'll only make the pain worse. Especially for her. If you are meant to be, then so be it. If not, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
Hope I helped!
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You need to sit down with her and just tell her how much she means to you.. maybe buy her flowers and rent a movie or take her out on a date like a movie and dinner. or cook her dinner. show her you love her be romantic.
as for the killing you self. i have been throw that. depression. ive had to see counslers my ex keep coming back me being dumb id take him back hed cheat on me, call me names till i finally just got rid of him havent talked to him and i havent been happier now im engaged. what im really trying to say is life is full of suprises and everything happens for a reason weather its a good a reason but everything bad ther happens sooner or later a good thing with happen.
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sarline here.
you know your writting is almost as a poem.
But the real problem here is you. if she says sh loves you like a million times then believe her. she might not know how to show you that she does but when a girl says she loves she probaly does and you have to step up and show her that you love her too.
I mean think about it. If you kill yourself (you shouldn't by the way), who would she be left with. just imagine that tragedy that would be eating inside her. you don't want her to suffer do you? listen just trust her and don't do anything stupid and i think you are smater than that.
let me ask you. do you love or do you want her to suffer?
thanks for writting and don't forget to leave comments thanks and i like all my clients iam always there to help
sarline here
and see you guys later
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please be careful. she sounds extremely important to you, and if you do lose her, please do not do anything to harm yourself.
i think you should talk to her about it. you've both said those important 3 words to each other, you've been together about 2 years! you have to be comfortable enough with her to tell her your feelings. i know its way easier said than done. but please try!
good luck with everything.
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