|
how do i tell her?
how do I tell a girl I like her even though she has a boyfriend?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Not to be harsh, but you don't. The fact that she has a boyfriend cancels out any possibility of you saying anything. As much as you may like her, she will not appreciate you telling her at that moment. What if she DID like you, do you know how complicated that would be!? She would probably stay with her boyfriend. Maybe even out of guilt, even if she really likes (possibly loves) him. She will never get over the mixed feelings she is dealing with. It is best you wait until the relaship ends (a couple weeks after as to not overwhelm her or get her on the rebound) to say anything because that would be the best time; for you AND her.
<P>
<P>
~unluckychick~
]
Well, let's imagine that you and this girl are going out, and you're so happy. And then another guy starts talking to her, or flirting with her, and tells her that he likes her. How would you feel about that? Probably not very good. You'd think he was a big jerk - and you might even feel like pounding his face in. Because what he did just isn't right.
If it's wrong for someone else to do, then you shouldn't do it, either. As long as she has a boyfriend, you shouldn't say anything.
That doesn't mean you can't talk to her. Go ahead and develop your friendship. Let her get to know you and see what a great guy you are. At some point, they're going to break up - and then she's fair game. But until then, you should keep your feelings to yourself. It's the classy thing to do.
]
Talk to her in private, where no one else would be around. And just tell her. But be careful, you could ruin a relationship by doing this. She may like this guy alot and then she will get these mixed feelings. You don't want to do that. I'm just telling you that to have you be aware. But just talk to her and let her know. Good luck!
]
well sarline here
if you really like her just find a quite place and talk to her.
tell her this "i know it doesn't matter but i like you alot. i know you have a boyfriend that you like but i wanted to get it off my chest. again i like you alot".
maybe she will feel the same way.
if she doesn't don't worry there is always someone better out there looking for you.
thanks and write back comments.
]
More Questions: |