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Kissing.
Here it is. The famous kissing question. I know you are all probably sick of answering this question, but please I'm desperate.
A few weeks ago this boy and I started liking each other. I went over his house,but nothing happened because of a certain reason that has nothing to do wtih this story. anyway, and then the other day he kissed me on the lips, and so soon I'm pretty sure that soon we're probably going to make out. A lot of my friends just said go with the flow, do whatever feels right but is that really it? Can anyone relate me back to there first make out and what happened and how they felt? My guy friends always talk about how when someone is a good kisser, they just want to kiss them over and over again. How do you be a good kisser, liek what qualities does a good kisser have? Please, no one send me links to teen magazines telling you how to kiss. I want the real deal from actual people.
Thank you so much :)
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Honestly your first real kiss will most likly be a little akward seeing as its your first time. But don't hold back becaus of that. No one knows exacly what there doing, but with practice you'll learn and become a pro.(Now this dosn't mean go kiss every one and evry thing.lol) Just fallow him as he guids youz(as your freinds said "Go with the flow". Soon you wont even have to think twice on what your doing.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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My first kiss was in 6th grade playing spin the bottle with my boyfriend at his birthday. We all we're outside sitting on the sidewalk and all of a sudden he shoves his tounge down my throat. I knew he was going to though and i was so unbeliavably nervous. It was HORRIBLE; i mean i had no clue what i was doing. Well; after that we didn't do it for a while. One week later we made out all night and as we continued to do it got better. Here are some tips to try and make it so you get a better idea how;
1. dont open your mouth up super wide.
2. let him make the first move
3. dont shove your tounge down his throat
4. if your really into it play with his hair; let him know he makes you feel comfortable.
5. Start out slow; massage his tounge slowly and then when things heat up start to go faster.
6. Don't think to much about it, if it happens it happens.
7. laugh and giggle; flirt and play hard to get. Guys like when you play hard to get.
8. whisper in his ear; dont be selfish. Do stuff that you think he will like when you kiss.
9. Just have fun; live life. He wont be your last kiss.
anything else; message me. i'll try my best.
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Hi, alright, so I totally know how you feel.
I remember my first kiss, and how before it I was so nervous because I did not know what to do at all. The honest truth is that you just have to listen to your friends when they tell you to go with the flow. After you guys kiss, you will realize how easy that was and that it was not worth getting worked up about. I know this advice may not be what you want, but its the truth. JUst do whatever feels best.
Good luck!
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The first time my boyfriend and I kissed, we kept missing each other's lips and just laughed about it (that was my first kiss). Mimic his kiss. Suck and nibble his bottom lip gently. Lightly rub your tounge on the roof of his mouth, gums, and lips.
My boyfriend says the kiss tastes really good when we chew gum. My boyfriend and I pass gum back and forth to each other when we kiss.
I hope this helps:)
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My first make out was at a bonfire party, and I was so nervous all night because I knew the guy was going to try something. Well, I got worked up over nothing, he leaned in to kiss me, and I just knew what to do. I 'went with the flow'. Everything turned out great =) Seriously, don't worry about it. It will all come natural to you, and if you think too much about it, that might get in the way of your instinct, so just do what feels right. The only way you can become a good kisser is with practice practice practice! But a little tip is a guy will usually kiss you how he wants to be kissed, so follow his lead, and you'll be just fine. Good luck, I hope everything goes well!
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Alright hunnie i know how you feel. I was soo nervous with my first kiss i thought i was going to puke! But your friends are right, go with the flow. Really there arent any "certain" qualities in being a good kisser. Everyone is different and if this boy doesnt think your a good kisser, trust me someone else will think so. Whithin the first i dont know...4 seconds of making out, youll figure it out :) follow him lol..and do what feels right..dont do anything you dont want! (: i hope i helped.
-Bri
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