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I've had sex, quite a bit, And I can't cum! Like it just doesn't happen!! I don't understand, it still feels good..just nothing like breath taking I guess. any ideas!? =( (link)
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dont feel wierd at all..it happens to many people. your obviously getting 'wet'/enjoying it or it would really hurt and not feel right. you just might be the type of person who doesnt discharge excessively. about the breath taking part, that has nothing to do with a lack of discharge! hes just not hitting your gspot and your not having an orgasm, pr getting that feeling..eventually it will happen and youll somewhat get a 'breath taking' feel(:
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Do you lose weight from masterbating? (link)
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well not necessarily..
usually if you masterbate with another person,
you lose calories..but im not sure about yourself..
hope i helped (:
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ok. im a 15/f and i have a lot of guy friends. and they have been telling me that they want to makeout and finger me. okk. this might sound weird but i really need to kno. soo lik when a guy fingers you lik is there suppose to be lik that clear gel on the guys finger. (you kno the clear gel that a girl has sometimes before or after having her period?!). cause im not sure exactly how its going to feel or be like when the guy(s) finger me, cause i have never been fingered before. thxx. and please i need to know soon. cause im getting together with one of my guy friends this weekend. and we are going to the movies and he wants to make out, finger me, and touch me. also, i was wondering if it was really weird if he does that to me in the movies.. or do you think we should do it somewhere else?? i appreciate your answers!!!!
-rj (link)
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rj,
that clear stuff, is totally normal..
and trust me..the whole fingering process might seem weird but its really good on your part ;]
and making out in a movie theatre and touching is totally fine..but i personally thing that him fingering you would be a little weird..expecially if its your first time..because usually your pants need to be down a little bit..and if other people are there...or walking past you..they might get a little grossed out or something..but i hoped i helped and if you need anything else..just leave it in my inbox
goodluck and have fun :)
-Bri
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i had sex for my first time on friday night.
it went good, although we didnt use a condom, he asked me where he should jizz and i gave him a towel then he stuck it back in..
could i be pregnant? (link)
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well im not saying yes you are and im not saying no..but pre cum or ANYTHING like that can get you pregnant..but i guess it might depend..if you start getting nervous..take a pregnancy test in a few weeks...but more than likely im going to say you arent..
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I'm really popular at my school, probally the most popular girl in my school; but I don't like any of the jocks or popular guys at my school who like me. I like this one guy who is in a totally different group than the one I hang out with. He's not someone a bunch of girls like, and he's not really popular. He hangs out with the punks and rockers and people lke that, and I do dress punk, but I don't no how to talk to him. I don't have him in any of my classes and he doesn't know who I am. A couple of my friends know him, but my other friends would kill me if I became friends with him or went out with him. Which I can't because he has a girlfriend at the moment , but for now I just wanna get to know him. What shoild I do? (link)
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you should definently just randomly talk to him..and since some of your friends are friends with him that makes it all the more easier..and who cares about what the jocks think..they have NO control over who you are friends with..so i think you should go for it and be his friend..you never know what good things might come out of ot :)
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I hear it allot, in songs, tv, conversations what exacally does "grind" mean.. like in that one song. Grind with me? just wondering what it means thank you (link)
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grinding is like dancing on eachother with a girls butt in the guys pelvis..its what old people call "dirty dancing" (besides the movie) hah
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I like this girl who I am good friends with. We've been hanging out recently a lot and we've had a good time. I don't know if she likes me or not and I'm not sure if I should tell her I like her or not because that might ackward our friendship. But in contrast to that she could like me and I wouldn't know. So if u were in my situation what would u do? (link)
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if i were you i would say something..but me myself am i very random person and say what i think...id by you saying something like that is out of your element maybe you should take a shy way around it and hint to her..like hug her alot or kiss her on the cheek..and one of those times when u hug her..hld her tight and be like..i like you (:
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14/f
Well, i started at a new private highschool this year and i've met alot of new people. In this pool of new people, there's one i think about all the time: We'll call him John.
So, i just met him this year and he's kinda quiet and shy around people he doesn't know well. But he does have a lot of friends and he's well known throughout the grade because he is just so cute. Some girls go right up to him and tell him he looks like a cute lil teddybear and how adorable he is. He just kinda shrugs it off and smiles a little. Of course, I've never dared to do this.
But anyways, back to the point. I really really like him. He's in 4 of my classes, and at my new school we have three classes a day and on one day i have all three classes with him. So we've become friends and can talk to eachother comfortably in school and sometimes out of school. Now, it used to be me starting all the conversations- but i've noticed lately he's been starting them too. On a certain day when i have spanish then modern history, we always walk with eachother from the 3rd floor down to the first. I try to hint that i like him, i smile alot and make eyecontact. The only signs i've been getting back are a few times i've caught him looking at me, and he walks with me to some of our classes, and we usually end up next to eachother when we're leaving one of our classes to go to the next. I dont know if its just coincidence, or if he's doing it, because i of course am also kind of shy and wont take the initiative to stay back a bit for fear that it will seem too obvious. ( although i do do this sometimes)
(( Sorry this is so long ))
But we talk at least once a day and we joke around with eachother and he makes me laugh alot. I know i like him alot...but do you think he likes me back? Thanks for your help! (link)
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actually i do think he likes you...ust remember that boys show their emotions VERY differently than girls do..guys get nervous around us..i mean we do to but they get EXTREMELY nervous..when you walk with him try and figure out how he moves along side you..if he walks a little stiff or if your looking at him he usually isnt looking in your eyes..those are KEY signs that he does..along with many more...its really good that hes taking the nitiative to start convorsations with you though..see if u can start hanging out with him after school..like just say simething simple and easy such as "we shopuld hang out sometime""it would be fun(:" i hope i helped you..GoodLuck and have fun :D
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The other day I went over to this guys house because I have been in love with him for almost a year. I have dated him two times before but my mom band me from him because he is eighteen. He wanted me to come over to finish a video that we had watched once before. But he had promised me that was all we were going to do. So I told my mom I was going to a friend's house and would be home by six. Well I went there and all I meant to do intentionally was watch the movie. Well I laid back on his bed then he laid back by me and put his arm around me. Then he pretended like he was asleep but I knew better so punched him in the side. Then he rolled over and held my arms down and licked my nose because he knows how much I hate that. Everytime he did it he laughed and kept moving closer to my face to the point my nose was touching his and our lips were practically touching everytime we talked or laughed. Then he just kissed me and we like made out for half an hour. Then he started fingering me for like ten minutes. Then I gave him head until he cummed. After that we had sex. When we were done he went to take a shower and I went down there to fix my hair. He said don't try to get in the shower with me, prostitution is bad. I told him I wouldn't have to try and asked him if he just called me a whore. He said no, if he called me a whore he would have said it to my face. So when I was in the bathroom he took off his clothes and kissed me. He then told me if I wanted to join then I could, then he got in the shower. I stood there not sure what I should do. I sat there and thought about what I should he stuck his head out and told me to come here. So I did actually thinking he was going to pull me in but he kissed me. After about 5 minutes I finally broke and just got into the shower with him. After that I started thinking I was a slut. I mean I had slept with three guys. Him, one of his friends, and this one guy I had dated at my school. I had slept with him about 8 times, his friend once, and that one guy 3 times. So now I don't know if I am or not. So I'm actually kinda confused. SO PLEASE respond to this. I'm really confused!!! (link)
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no i dont think your a slut at all..im the same way..i slept with 3 people and my ex boyfriend was eighteen and my mom didnt like that but even when we broke up we still had sex..but your not a slut at all..i think a slut would be considerd somebody who sex sex with TONS of different guys one after another yah know?:..like without feeling any emotion for any them...(:
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I just recently fingered a girl and i wanted to know why she didnt orgasm, this was my 4th time fingering her and she has never orgasmed, she just sits there and its a little wierd. Is there something im doing wrong. I don't insert my whole finger but i am rubbing pretty hard, Any advice?? thanks (link)
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it can take a girl a while to organsm..also since your not inserting your "whole" finger that can have something to do with it too..and dont just put one it..you can put 2 and it might be better.but yeah alot of the times girls orgasm during sex but if she does when u finger her it can take more than 4 times
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im not going to be too graphic or harsh, because i dont want this to be too inapropriate for the site. this is a serious question, and im not trying to be wise or anything. when you give someone head, do you have to stick his whole penis in your mouth? (link)
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well its all on what you can do and handle..usually guys like when u "deepthroat"
and like put as much of it in as you can..but do whatever your really comfortable with..
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If a guy doesn't come in you, is it considered sex? (link)
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yes it is...once his penis goes into you, you have had sex
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i have a friends with benefits
weve only been doing it since last week
my hormones are raging rightnow, like i am having a ton of sex dreams about him.
hes coming over next weekend
what are some detailed things we can do without going all the way..
guys answer too please, from experience what pleases both of us, and is kind of different
thanks (link)
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well this might sound weird..but if you get like a long necklace of fake pearls...wear them all day and get them hott from body heat, and that night snuggily but still loose wrap it around his penis it will get him going..but i dont know about you..maybe he will think of something
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kay well people call me a lezbo for NO reason. i absualutly love guys but...people call me a lezbo and i have NO idea why. like im not the one thats like constantly dancing with girls at parties and like "experementing" with girls. and its not like i check girls out or anything. they just call me it and it really gets me upset ...and pisses me the HELL off. so like why the heck do you think they sayy im a lez, what can i do to be "unlezboish" and what can i do to make them stop (its just people in general) PLEASeeeE help.
- and dont say you should care what people think of and stuff because if it were you, you would (link)
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honestly i think people keep calling you a lesbian because they know it bothers you..and as long as you know u like guys who cares..and if you were a lesbian so what its natural..and teenage/highschool kids are always starting rumors and saying things like that just to start a fight..
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im wearing a black halter dress to homecoming and i was wondering what i should do with my hair or what looks good with a halter thankss (link)
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definently wear it up:)
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ive never kissed a guy b4 but i want to..how without making a fool of myself? (link)
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well all i can tell you is if your "making out",follow him, you wont make a fool out of yourself its a pretty natural thing actually
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There is this teacher, and she teacher earth science at my school, and i cant stand her. SHe hates coming to work, and she can never smile. SHe said she doesnt care about us, she just wants to teach., When we ask a question, she makes you feel like an idiot. She thinks she is so smart, but she is just aroogant. ANd...she yelled at me, because i proved her wrong. Can someone giv me some advice on how to deal with her. Thanks , trust me if you have good advice, i will be so grateful. (link)
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well when my teachers are like that i just prove them wrong as much as i could and give it right back to them..the only thing is try to do it on a more "respectful" way so you dont get into so much troublee...like one day you can be like i " i was wondering why you are so arrogent and hate being here.""wouldnt you think that to be a teacher you would have to like your job and be happy?" or pretend your talking to one of your friends and alk lous enough so she can hear you hah something to that matter.
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My parents and I just don't get along anymore. My parents think that I'm a completely shallow, bitchy whore, and have no problem telling me this. I try to be nice to them, I do, but they'll start me off by giving me evil looks or using a tone with me before I can even say hello! They put all the blame on me, however, we're both equally guilty. But I just want to get along with them like I used to. How do you suggest I do this? Thanks in advanced. (link)
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i think you should talk to them about it..especially your mom..i know me and my mom NEVER got along but one day we just talked about everything and we were fine..it might be that you dont tell them anything or are hinding things from them..because if and when you do that, they tend to become hesitent on how you behave ro act..
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kay a lot of my friends have been to second (aka, jerking off, fingering, whatever). im not ready for that, but i will probably be soon. it just seems kind of awkward for me- like where are you supposed to look or say or anything while you jerk a guy off or get fingered?! what is the etiquette for those kind of things? lol. i know it sounds funny but it's true! (link)
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well when you do "second base" you dont have to look or say anything if you dont want to..like you can iss while your doing it or whatever..in the beginning it will seem a little awkward but you will get used to it..there is no "etiquet" for it though..just do what you feel is right
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Well... (im a girl)ever since about a year ago, ive reckoned i was gay.In year 5(im now in year 8 and im 13)i yoused to sort of make out with this girl when we slept over each others houses but i just put it down to experimentation. Now i really like girls and dont really like guys and i keep having dreams and watch movies with lots of gay/lesbian people in them. Im not to bothered by the fact of being gay but i was wondering that seeing as i dont have a girlfriend and im not about to tell my parents anytime soon, what should i do? (link)
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i would say just keep going on as you do..
you can be gay and not tell your parents, its totally up to you..i have this friends and when he was younger he was afraid to tell him parents he was gay because they were against that..when he turned 16 he told them and even though they were upset they accepted itbecause he was old enough to decide what sex he prefered..so yeah i think you should live your likfe as you are...i hope i was of help(:
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