I just recently fingered a girl and i wanted to know why she didnt orgasm, this was my 4th time fingering her and she has never orgasmed, she just sits there and its a little wierd. Is there something im doing wrong. I don't insert my whole finger but i am rubbing pretty hard, Any advice?? thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? sexy_rexy answered Saturday November 18 2006, 12:32 am: Try different spots and techniques and see what seems to work best. Just doing the one thing the whole time can get a bit boring after a while so even change positions after a while. Don't keep to the one spot unless she finds it really good and it's working for you. Make her really comfortable if she seems 'weird'. Give her a massage first, just try to get her to relax. If she's just sitting there move her hands around you and try to get her moving a bit. Not every girl will orgasm after the fourth time, some take longer, some will the first time. It doesn't mean that your bad at it, just we are all different. Don't worry, it'll all work out.
karenR answered Sunday November 12 2006, 7:02 pm: Number 1...you want to rub her clitoris. From her belly it is the first thing you will run into down there. Has nothing at all to do with inserting your finger. Rub gently. You rub hard and it will make her sore. Then she for sure will not have an orgasm.
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bscotch answered Sunday November 12 2006, 5:31 pm: it can take a girl a while to organsm..also since your not inserting your "whole" finger that can have something to do with it too..and dont just put one it..you can put 2 and it might be better.but yeah alot of the times girls orgasm during sex but if she does when u finger her it can take more than 4 times [ bscotch's advice column | Ask bscotch A Question ]
missadvicebitch1 answered Sunday November 12 2006, 4:33 pm: hey, well my boyfriend fingered me once. i didnt orgasm either. sometimes it just doesnt feel good. you wouldnt want her to fake one would you? ask her what your doing wrong.
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