my friend and i went out last year
we are really good friends but our friends didnt support our relaionship so we broke up cus it was too hard. we still hangout, and whenever he touches me i get a chill, like a good one, and last weekend he was watching a movie at my house with a couple other guys, and he sat wicked close to me and ran his hand up my leg, and just left it close to my 'area' .. his friends were there so i laughed at him and he just smiled, and i put my feet up on his stomach, and he moved them down a little bit, onto his penis area, so i guess he wanted me to play around a little so i kinda rubbed my feat back in fourth around there under a blanket so people didnt see.. then he took me in the next room (my laundrey room) and picked me up, and started like rubbing his hands undermy shirt and kissing me and stuff, and was like' we should do this more often, just fun you know?' and it is,,, i'm not the type of person to do a 'fwb' and i know a ton of you think its 'bad' or it wont workout,, but we're good friends, and it wouldnt be awkward, and i trust him, so what do you think i should do. like we cant have sex, because we both couldnt do that, but what other things ca help get us going and explain how to do them,, he wants this to be like a fun 2 hours for every weekend, and i do too, we promised to stop when either of us got into a relationship
croat answered Sunday November 12 2006, 5:05 pm: well if off the beginning of the "letter" isd like the two of you like each other but aren't together because of your friends. your friends should be happy for you that you found someone that likes you and wants to be with you but if they aren't and are telling/hopeing for you two to brake up then i have to question their friendship and if they what you to be happy or they want themselves to be happy and you to just follow behind them and date someone who they like but you don't. now on to this boy of yours. from the looks of it he hasn't gotten over you or never has and neather have you, which i'm not saying that's bad but it's good and the fact that he wants to do it again (dating you, i'll get to that part later) cause of the way that he started things up. now on to the second part which ties into the dating him again. you need to deside if you want to date hime again no matter what your friends think, or just keep it like a 2 hours sex things every weekend. what i think you should do, and this is from my own personal experiance date him no matter what your friends think as long as he ain't cheatin' on you then your friends are just talkin shit so frak them. the two of you sound like you get along really well and the only reason you broke up the first time is because of what your friends thought.
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