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Am I a Slut
The other day I went over to this guys house because I have been in love with him for almost a year. I have dated him two times before but my mom band me from him because he is eighteen. He wanted me to come over to finish a video that we had watched once before. But he had promised me that was all we were going to do. So I told my mom I was going to a friend's house and would be home by six. Well I went there and all I meant to do intentionally was watch the movie. Well I laid back on his bed then he laid back by me and put his arm around me. Then he pretended like he was asleep but I knew better so punched him in the side. Then he rolled over and held my arms down and licked my nose because he knows how much I hate that. Everytime he did it he laughed and kept moving closer to my face to the point my nose was touching his and our lips were practically touching everytime we talked or laughed. Then he just kissed me and we like made out for half an hour. Then he started fingering me for like ten minutes. Then I gave him head until he cummed. After that we had sex. When we were done he went to take a shower and I went down there to fix my hair. He said don't try to get in the shower with me, prostitution is bad. I told him I wouldn't have to try and asked him if he just called me a whore. He said no, if he called me a whore he would have said it to my face. So when I was in the bathroom he took off his clothes and kissed me. He then told me if I wanted to join then I could, then he got in the shower. I stood there not sure what I should do. I sat there and thought about what I should he stuck his head out and told me to come here. So I did actually thinking he was going to pull me in but he kissed me. After about 5 minutes I finally broke and just got into the shower with him. After that I started thinking I was a slut. I mean I had slept with three guys. Him, one of his friends, and this one guy I had dated at my school. I had slept with him about 8 times, his friend once, and that one guy 3 times. So now I don't know if I am or not. So I'm actually kinda confused. SO PLEASE respond to this. I'm really confused!!!
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Um, yeah.
You're a slut.
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no I dont think you are as slut.I mean its not like you knew all this was going to happen.and just face it once you start having sex its hard to stop.
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hey there my name is Ashley I'm 15 and is having kinda the same problem your having i had sex 2 times with a 18 year old guy but i mean we do really like eachother and we both understand the risks and we are willing to take them but ive often wondered if i could be called a slut for one having sex at 15 and with a guy who is kinda alot older then me....but in your sitution i wouldnt call you a slut or anything the whole kissing on the nose then blow job leading to sex i think you guys just seem to really like eachother and who cares what your parents think if you love him you love him you cant help that and also the shower thing is very romantic so the answer to your question from me is no i wouldnt call you a slut or a whore :)
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You should already know the answer to that. Being a slut is like finding someone pretty. One person may think someone is butt ugly, while another thinks they are beautiful. Some may call you a slut, yes. But does that mean you are one? No. Do I think you are? No.
I think you should be more careful about who you have sex with though. Loving someone and having sex with them is one thing. But to continue to sleep with multiple people will give people the motive to call you a slut. Don't give them that motive.
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The fact that you even have to ask this question should give you your answer. It doesn't matter if you're a slut or not, what matters is what people think. Technically, you're probably not a slut. However, you know that what you're did isn't entirely acceptable. I know you got caught up in the moment, but this story makes you sound very easy.
Since it wasn't planned, my guess is that you didn't use a condom. If you did, or if you're taking birth control pills, that's great. If not, don't you realize what could happen? Do you want to get pregnant with someone's baby that you're not in love with so early in your life?
What you need to do, is accept that you're easy. It may be hard, but it will make things so much better. You're not a bad person or anything for being easy. You just have a weakness when it comes to guys so you have to be more careful. Try not to put yourself in one on one situations with a guy and if you do, bring a condom even if you don't plan on doing anything. It could easily happen. Carry one with you all the time if you can. Know yourself and prepare.
Don't feel bad about what you did. It can happen to the best of us. Learn from it though. You may not be able to change your personality, but you're smarter now and can be safe about it. Good luck. :)
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Alright baby, listen. A slut would be a prostitute, which to me it sounds like you are NOT. don't worry about it, seriously. If you like him that much, and you sleep with him then your not a slut. Just make sure he's not playing you because you know how guys can be. Now if you went and slept with some other guy while you still liked him, that would be a different story haha. But for now, your not a slut(:
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No... you're not a slut. You're just in love. Sex is fine if you're in love.
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no i dont think your a slut at all..im the same way..i slept with 3 people and my ex boyfriend was eighteen and my mom didnt like that but even when we broke up we still had sex..but your not a slut at all..i think a slut would be considerd somebody who sex sex with TONS of different guys one after another yah know?:..like without feeling any emotion for any them...(:
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well to called a true slut you have to sleep with guys and overlap like guy#1 then guy#2 back to guy#1 and then to guy#3. doing all of this within a few weeks like 2 or 3 so i would have to say no. this does bring up a few concerns about the age difference between the two of you if you are like 17 or 16 would be pushing it anything lower the 16 and a half or younger then i would have to say to stop it before your mom finds out and the cops get involved.
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