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Hi, im 14 and I could help you with any
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i had sex with this guy, and we'vehung out many times after and we're still friends. He always IMs me and talks to me on the phone but i cant tell if he jsut kinda lieks me, or lies me alot. Hes told me that he likes me but i know he also liked other girls then too, and he doenst want a relationship. I dont want to be in a relationship now either but i just want to find out if he likes me more than i liek him. so how can i find this out? i cant just straight out ask him because im afriad it will be awkward. (link)
it might be awkward, But it'd be nice to get things out with, and you'd feel alot better, because maybe he wants the same thing as you, You never know.


There is this System of a Down song that goes like this,

"When we when we die' it goes on like that for awhile but its got a cool beat just need the name of it. (link)
The songs name is

Chop Suey-System of a down

that other person was wrong..
And the lyrics are

"When Angels deserve to Die."


Hi something really weird happened to my computer. Today I went into my recieved files (all my music and pictures are like saved in one) and the format was different. Usually it'd look like this http://i105.photobucket.com/albums/m232/gunner08_200/print1.jpg
but now it looks like the format in the My Scans file: http://i105.photobucket.com/albums/m232/gunner08_200/print.jpg
I fixed it so it'd go back to the original format but all my pictures and files are all jumbled out and not in order! In an empty section, I right clicked and clicked on every single option in the Arrange Icons By but it still won't make the pictures go in the order they were before! I move all my music in sections: in order by the japanese music, a couple of pictures, chinese songs, couple of pictures, and so on and then just the rest of the pictures but now that's it's all scrambled, I might have to take forever to sort everything out and I swear there's over a million things in that folder! I'll give this a week and if there's no answers or noone answers then I'll get to the long pain of sorting..
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Okay,
Click View
Then tehre should be
Film Strip
Thumbnail
Tiles
Icons
List
Detail

I'd click Thumbnails, that should get it back to normal :)


So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months now and i love him half to def... but the other dy me and him went to the mall and got into a hung fight over something stupid... it wassent just the thing he said it was more about what this other dude had told me about him. This dude named garry has liked me for the longest time, hes cute, he has money, and he has a mustang confertable and a ford truck, and well at ut swim meet Sat. he told me that my boyfrined was a reject that i could do so much better then him and that i deserved so much more... but i rele love my boyfriend and this got me thinking alot... and that all i can think of is what garry had told me, and me and my boyfriend brandon got into a fight and i sorta broke up with him for about 5 min. but i still have what garry said running throw my head... im not sure why but it bothers me i dont know what do do... do i like this dude garry or am i just freeked out about the time that we have spent togehter... and i dont want to take a break form him... if i say its over its over... i dont know wht to do or whats going on...please help... (link)
you may not be attracted to him physically, but for his money..haha,If you still have feelings for your boyfriend, don't let him go, ever, All Garry wants to do is win you, and he's trying to fill your head with bad things, once you find someone you love, don't let them go, if you do, it could never come back, but hey it's not my choice what you do. do you want a guy with Money who would buy you stuff. or a guy who would accually love you, Money doesnt buy happiness.
p.s. (I'd go with they Boyfriend)
Hope i helped.

-noname :)


okay well my friend is bi and i didnt mean to but i told one of her bestfriends she was and i mean i thought she knew b/c she neva told me not to say nuttin so i dunno what to do i hope she aint mad at me wdid? (link)
Take the bull by its horns, you shouldn't say stuff to people if they told you not to, just tell your friends that your sorry, and you didn't mean to, try and solve the problem, whatever you do, don't try to lie or cover it up or anything, that will just add fuel to the fire.

Good luck


im 14, a freshman, and have never had a boyfriend. its odd. i feel so left out since so many people have lost their "IT" (lol) already. i mean i dont want to do that. but i want a bf and plus, i've never kissed anyone either, i know its because of my looks, i mean i've tried everything. i've even tried annorexia. i KNEW it was the wrong answer, so i stoped while i was ahead. oh im a girl, but i guess you caould have figured that out.
sorry if it was stupid. (link)
Okay, so don't worry, Just be yourself, because if you do get a boyfriend, you want him to like you for who you are not who your trying to be, and they will come to you. don't lower your standards for anyone, you are fine the way you are. a lot of people haven't had boyfriends, and when the times right, things will eventually fall in the right place, its a little thing called..fate.


I'm not into drugs at all, but it's my friend who is freaking out. I don't want a lecture, I would just appreciate a simple answer. How long does it take marijuana to "dissolve" or "exit" from the body? My friend has a drug test soon and smoked weed a few weeks ago. Is there also any ways to speed up this process? (link)
tell her to drink cranberry juice, and lots, it works really good.


I personally dont get many pimples, but whenever I do, they're horrible and huge! Unfortunatly its just one of those weeks and its so big that I just wanna hide from the world. Anyone have any suggestions as what to do?




serious answers only please! Thanks in advance :] (link)
okay, this may seem a bit weird, but put some bacon Greece on it, im not even kidding, it actually works!

hope i helped :]


Ew! How do you get ciggarettes off your breath FAST?! I'm scared my parents are going to notice. Oh, and if you're going to critisize me for my dessision to smoke then don't EVEN bother reading the rest of this question, let alone answer it. Yes I've smoked before but I always stayed at a friends house. Now I'm home and don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP FAST!!! (link)
okay, so this is going to sound wierd, but chew on leaf, im not even kidding, it accually works, whatever you do dont over spray yourself with perfume they will know somethings up, just spray yourself once. and wash your hands.


I have a pretty confusing situation.

I'm a girl, 15 and a sophomore. There are two guys that are involved, the first, whom I'll call L, is a really nice, funny, and cute guy. I talk to him every day, and I think that we're friends and get along pretty well. He's 17 and a senior, and I've liked him since about the 2nd week of this school year. The second guy, F, I only met less than a month ago. He is the sweetest guy I know, and we talk pretty often nowadays, which is weird, as he has said that he usually can't stand sophomores. He's also a senior, and kindof an artsy, non-conventional guy. The problems? L is dating an AMAZINGLY gorgeous and talented girl, who lives 6 hours away but he has been dating since summer. He's never talked to me about her, but this weekend I saw them together for the first time and I almost had a stroke, which is weird for me. F drinks, smokes, etc, while I am 100% straightedge. L also has a really cool girlfriend, whom he has been going out with at least since the summer, and I know reasonably well.

I don't want to be a homewrecker. Are my hopes way too high? Will I ever be anything than just a friend with either of them? Do I just wait it out and see what happens? Should I even bother with F?

If you could bring any clarity to this situation, I would appreciate it so much!
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wow, difficult situation, well first, i'd give you a hug, lol, now, you need to realize that the guy that Drinks and stuff, you have to know if he drinks, is he an ass when he does drink because if he is, you dont want anything to do with him, and with the other guy, if you like him and you really think you do, tell him, and maybe he will understand, Your not really being a homewrecker, you can't help what you feel, and who knows maybe he will realalize that he has a beautiful nice girl here, not 6 hours away. long tearm relashionships are hard to deal with, he might concider wanting to go out with you, if he likes you alot, Hopefully i helped


my best friend may be pregnant; I have a really strong feeling that she is. The thing is, I know shes going to need a lot of comfort and support if that is the case. can someone please help me with that? I have no idea what to say to her, what to say to her when she says that she really is pregnant. Please, help.

[15/f; friend's 14] (link)
let her take a pregnantcy test, if it's positive, then dont worry about it, be there for her, and tell her that your going to be there for her 100 % of the way. Dont abanden her, if your friendship means that much, then dont worry if she has a kid, you need to ask her if she wants an aborshion or if she wnats to give it up for adoption or keep it, and let her break it too her parents, if she is completely honest with them, they wont get that mad. everything should be fine, hopefully i helped.


ok soo i`m 14/f and i have just feel soo shity about everything me and my mom got into a pretty big fight today and it was really heart breaking because we were getting along soooo great. and now things feel like everythings falling apart i broke up with the guy i liked a lot because he never had time for me because of fucking hockey and he really hurt me when i broke up with him. we`re not even friends. its soo heart breaking and i try to talk to him but either he gives me dirty looks for ignors me or makes fun of my text messages. i keep telling myself hes not worth it but it hurts soo god damn much! the only person that has stuck by myside my hole life almost is my best friend Nes. she understands me and i love that. and she knows how much mike might to me. and it just sucks i trying to flirt with other guys but they are starting to get annoying, i think i need a vacation. really or like go to the spa!! i got no sleep lastnight because i couldn`t stop thinking about him. i`m just slowly getting over him. and i really need to!! for ym health i have lost 15 pounds because of the break up. i need help fast!! (link)
wow, Well remember that your mom loves you, and is doing the best she can for you, and she probley Doesn't realize what you are going through, Guys are gay, haha, i know that you like him alot, but you just need to take a deep breath, and ignore him, hes a fucking idiot for not liking you and making fun of you, if he sees that your having fun wiht your friends, and not mourning over him, he will stop being an ass. so just have fun with your friends, try and find something that relazes you, today when you get home, go into your room, and rip his picture up and all his things, and tell yourself that your completely over him. hopefully i helped.


14/f
okay so there is is this guy and he's a year older than me. i have a big crush on him and he's the perfect guy for me. he's really good looking, he gets to his classes on time, he does his school work, and he's into sports and really good at them, but he's not a jock (which is good) and he's really nice. i just met him this school year and i've gotten to know him pretty well. we have a lot of things in common.

the thing is, is that i have no idea if he likes me. (he knows i like him already. totally different story) he's one of my really good friends and he never acted any different when he knew i liked him. but what i have noticed is sometimes he'll start flirting with me (of course i'll flirt back) we'll have fun, but other times it seems like he just likes me as a really good friend.

and i can never tell if a guy likes a girl. they always make it confusing.

what do you think. does he like or just want to be friends?
and even guys answer, how do i know if a guy likes a girl?

thanx. :) (link)
Well, you should just ask, if you never ask, you'll never know, as scared as you are, just ask. maybe not at this moment, wwait about 3 weeks, hang out with him, or ask if he want's to do something, or hang out or something, if you guys seem to be having fun, ask if he ever wants to go on a date with you, gradually ask him, dont just throw it in his face. let me know how it goes though.


My boyfriend's best friend is a girl. This girl is his ex girlfriend that he was in a relationship with years ago. She's always trying to make me look bad & has admitted that she still loves him. He claims to have no interest in her at all. I don't even bring her up ever but the jealousy is finally getting to me. He says that he can't ditch her since they've been friends for years. What am I supposed to do? I don't want to make him choose but I can't take it anymore. (link)
Well, I think you should let him countinue being friends with her, because if you ruin there friendship it might ruin your relasionship, so just ignore it, it will all work out, dont be jealouse of her, if your going out with him, he obviously really likes you, and doens;t care for her anymore, your probley wayy prettier and have a greater personality than her dont worry about it, just love what you have.




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