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pregnancy
my best friend may be pregnant; I have a really strong feeling that she is. The thing is, I know shes going to need a lot of comfort and support if that is the case. can someone please help me with that? I have no idea what to say to her, what to say to her when she says that she really is pregnant. Please, help.
[15/f; friend's 14]
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First of all. This was totaly her desision. So don't abandan her. Friends and friends, and then stick together through thick and thin.
If she is, or isn't pregnant, always offer her help. I really hope she decides to keep the baby, because im totaly aginst abortion ( just saying )
But anyways, be a good friend to her. Make sure you always help her if she needs it.
Hope I helped :)
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mmk, so it sounds to me like you're in a realllyl crummmy situation. I don't think she should rely 100% on at at home test. she needs to talk to her mom as hard as that may be. I know that it will be because somtimes even tellling your mom you want to go buy tampons and stuff ins't too easy(( a little akward )) but hat im sayyign is her mom reallly needs to knwo so that she can get help, you shoudl reallly encourage her to talk to her mom. Then, once she finds out for sure you've got to be there for her whether she is or isnot pregnant. I know she might be happpy if she isn't but then again she'll still feel reallyl stressed for a while. Then her and her mom I am sure will still have a LOT to talk about. JUST encourage her and make sure she keeps her head up. Hope I helpedd.
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i dont no if this will be much help but all you can do is stand by and be there for you friend and just tell her no matter what happends you will be there for her thats all you can do reght now and you will no what to say when the time comes good luck hope everythink turns ot ok for you and your friend
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let her take a pregnantcy test, if it's positive, then dont worry about it, be there for her, and tell her that your going to be there for her 100 % of the way. Dont abanden her, if your friendship means that much, then dont worry if she has a kid, you need to ask her if she wants an aborshion or if she wnats to give it up for adoption or keep it, and let her break it too her parents, if she is completely honest with them, they wont get that mad. everything should be fine, hopefully i helped.
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first thhiing is to telll her to take a pregnancy test. If its positive, then just tell her to relax and u guys will go through it together.
Hope i helped
peace.
-jan
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Just don't abandon her after she has the baby, should she decide to keep it. That is really hard on a person.
Be a good listener. She will need someone just to bounce ideas off of. She will be scared and need someone to hold her hand. Just be a friend and listen. That's all you need to do. :)
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