My name is Colleen but all of my friends call me Leena. Call me what whatever you'd like. I'm reallly tiny. 4'11 :) I like to type little smiley's like that, deal with it:) tehe; OKay, so it is November 6th, 2006. I just got this little website today. I was planning on asking a question but then i read somone else's questiona nd i decided to answer their question first. Im about to as a question of my own. I am 14, but I am pretty matur for my age. I ahve a myspace. My link is www.myspace.com/c0ll33nismyname You should check it out. I also have a boyfrined named Dylan. I love him..:) I ahd to see a shrink last year and plan to start seeing another one within about the next week but im not sure how to tell my mom I want to do to a different person. You can ask me anything frmo somthing really personal to the most random question ever or even just a question about me. I'm up for whatever, and I hope to make some friends.
Gender: Female
Location: Louisiana
Age: 14
AIM: colleenALISE
Member Since: November 6, 2006
Answers: 15
Last Update: November 8, 2006
Visitors: 2507
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i am fourteen. i don't love to read, but i am looking for an inspirational book. if you know of any, of friendship, harships, anything like that, i would appreciate it. [[name&author please!] thanks. (link)
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heyy, i don't know how long ago you asked this question but im new at this whole site lol.
I've read very few books that I've actuallly enjoyed but one of them is called They Cage the Animals at Night and it has absolutely nothing to do with animalss.. it is a botu a little boy who is ina n orphanage and he gets sent to some horrible foster homes and stuff, overalll its a reallly goood book. another one of my favorite books is My Abnormal Life by Lee McClain(sp?) and its about a girl who seems to be about our age. They have both of the books no Amazon.com if you need a way to find them.
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My ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. 15 days ago he broke up with me because he was unhappy. For the last couple of days I was fine.. but last night and today I have been really upset. I cant seem to let him go. I still cant accept that me and my ex are over. I told him my deepest darkest secret and trusted him with my life. I truley loved him. And still do. I want to know how to let go and get past this so I can move on. I like my friend and he's asked me out but I havent gone out with him because I'm still hung up on my ex.
By the way, my ex used to be this sweet loving guy and now he's turned into a complete idiot. He is trying to take this girls innocence and virginity, ( a new girl in his life). I find this very hard to believe but it is true, I heard it from my ex, and I dont want to be with that kind of guy.. so how can I still want an idiot of a guy like this? WHAT DO I DO?!
Please help! (link)
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mmk... my last boyfrined broke up with me without much of a reason. I was 9 months and 26 days before i started dating somone new. Not to like scare you but the point is, you'lll ahve to jsut give it some time, ya knoww. yOU can't make yourself try to get over him. it'll happen. and you say he is an idiot, well my ex boyfrined was a complete dickhead. I don't know what i saw in him to ebgin with and dont get me wrong i still love him as a freind but he was a reallly not soo great boyfrined whihc i would never have admited when i was still like obsessed with him but you liek guys regardless of how they act now if he ever was a sweetheart you'll keep those time sin mind when you two are togetehrrr... SELECTIVE MEMORY :) iono, tahts the way things go. give it time babygirl:)
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can you give me some good ideas on wat i should give my friends which are girls for their birthdays they're turning 14 and give me some ideas on christmas presents for girls too they're 13 and 14 (link)
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-giftcards
-clothes
-purses
-scarves
-photoframes
- card or somthingg.
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Ok im trying to find i wanna fuck you ( or i wanna love you) by Akon on itunes and when i type it in it said your search has no matches and i know my friend has it on her ipod and i dont know what to type in! can you guys help me?
thanks!! (link)
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I believe that once you put somthing on Itunes you can re-name it so maybe your frined renamed it to whatever she has it under. you should askkk. thennn try to type in alternate names or loko it up onlinee? GOOGLE IT!:)
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out of chi sedu and solia which hair straightener is the best? I currently have a straightener i love but i want one that will make my hair even straighter and not damage it as much. also for how much i am paying i want one that will last me atleast a year (link)
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I have the Paul Mitchell it is blac and has green platess but my hair dresser said that its reallly not bad for your hair and my hair is very very curly but it gets realllly straiguht with my straightenerr.. it isn't that much more expensive than chi i don't think. You should ask your hair dresser.
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Okay.
I have a girlfriend, we have been together for a little over 13 months.
Just recently, she has been telling me that she's really scared that she is going to lose me and she is scared that she is going to get hurt again.
I don't know what to do.
I am scared that her not wanting to lose me, will cause her to breakup with me.
It doesnt really make since but thats how it is.
I keep telling her that she will not lose me.
I keep telling her how much in love with her I am, and I know she feels the same way.
I have asked her to please trust me with her heart, and I will never leave.
I just don't know what to say to make her stop being so scared. I don't know what to say to make her stop worrying.
PLEASE HELP ME TO KNOW WHAT TO SAY!
pleasepleaseplease.
Thankyou so much. (link)
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OKay, I have a boyfrined that Im in love with.
The boyfrined I had right befor this one broke my heart. It took my nine months to get over him. Im glad I did but i know where your girlfrined is coming from and if you have any feelings that she might break up with you you should ask her about it. Being that you guys have been togetehr for longer than a year i assume you guys are reallly close and you can talk to her about anything. Ask her somehting like, " Babby, I know you're scared that I'll hurt you but I promise you, i give you my word, I won't ever do anything to hurt you and I really don't want you to end what we've got so that you don't get hurt because i promise i've got no reason to hurt you and i don't intend to, everr." you know to like make her more secure and if sh doesn't respond to that be straigth forward and tell her that you don't want her to end your realtionship because she is scared and like just hugg her a lot and kiss her on her forehead more often, let her know you reallly do care about her. I dont know if you guys are sexuallly active or whatever but if so then you could maybe slow it down a little for a couple months so that she knows that you're not using her, hich i doubt she thinks that but you never knwo. just talk to her more about it and don't ONLY promise her that you'll not hurt her but ALSO try to make her feel goood about herself and say things to her like you don't know how in the world that guy could have hurt her because she is the most precious thing everr, and he must be a total idiot to get rid of somone so amazing. make her feel goood. hope IM helpinggg:)
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I AM SORRY THAT IT IS SOOOOO LONG!!!
ok....I am a 13/m. I have some really confusing girl issues...Now see I am happy that about 12girls (no joke) like me but now I have known one for quite a while.....She likes me and broke up w/ her boyfriend about 1.5months ago to go out w/ me but neva got the courage to....I also received word from my sister that she liked me...in disquise I like her to....I am a person who lays low.....I don't let out my life..I really like her and she likes me according to my mom and my sister. See everyday that I see her me and her make eye contact and we give each other high fives....I am not sure though what to do...I know she also likes me because one of her best friends keeps telling me that me and her should go out..now yea I would love to try that but I don't know how to tell her that I like her to. See my sister has convinced her that I don't like her but I do.Very Very Much.I am not sure what to do here though..I am in a predictament that I can't help I am to shy to write notes and to scared to go up to her face and tell her.So what to do.Me and her used to sit around on the bus close to each other but since one of my friends got moved to the front of the bus she has been sitting in the back while I am in the front. I have not known that she liked me though bus since about 2weeks ago..I have written her notes to see if she liked me but she ignored me. she has told my sister that she likes me but won't admit it to me. Once last week I was sitting up front and I told her I was bored so she said to move back there.when I did we chatted and laughed till I got off. I know that she likes me now just don't know how to tell her that I like her A LOT!!!! Me and her get along soo well when we are together and also here is the big impact..We both LOVE soccer. I haven't told anyone this but sometimes when she gets hurt I just wanna put my arm around her and give her a hug but I can't because I am way to shy and also she doesn't even know that I like her to. I am soooo confused....Because I have her that I really like and then another girl I just like..but I have a bunch of people that like me and that is a first for me..I am so very confused..Help ME out...I am sorry this is so long. But advicenators.....Could this be good signs that she likes me and that it might work out or what??????ADVICENATORS>>HELP ME!!!!! (link)
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heyy kiddd,
Im a girl. I've liked boys a lot, too. And I usuallly dind't admit it but i would get one of my frineds to tell them. I have a boyfrined right now and the one thing i enjoy most about our relationship is we're always soo open about stuff we'll just be like I love you so much. you're amazing you know, whateverr. It makes me feel realllly gooood when the guy i like tellls me he likes/loves me. I think that you should deffinately hug her next time you see her or next time you guys sit together and if yo're feelign daring give aher a little kiss on the forehead or somthing. I think that might give her the picture i know you said you're shy but im just telling you, she'll like you even more if you pay some attention to her. Tell your sister to sht up. Make sure your sister knows you like this girl. maybe she'll be like oh my goshhh, my brother changed his mind and he likes you noww... lol... I hope IM helppinggg.
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my best friend may be pregnant; I have a really strong feeling that she is. The thing is, I know shes going to need a lot of comfort and support if that is the case. can someone please help me with that? I have no idea what to say to her, what to say to her when she says that she really is pregnant. Please, help.
[15/f; friend's 14] (link)
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mmk, so it sounds to me like you're in a realllyl crummmy situation. I don't think she should rely 100% on at at home test. she needs to talk to her mom as hard as that may be. I know that it will be because somtimes even tellling your mom you want to go buy tampons and stuff ins't too easy(( a little akward )) but hat im sayyign is her mom reallly needs to knwo so that she can get help, you shoudl reallly encourage her to talk to her mom. Then, once she finds out for sure you've got to be there for her whether she is or isnot pregnant. I know she might be happpy if she isn't but then again she'll still feel reallyl stressed for a while. Then her and her mom I am sure will still have a LOT to talk about. JUST encourage her and make sure she keeps her head up. Hope I helpedd.
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My name is **SARAH** and im 15 [[16 in 2 months]]. I have a boyfriend **JOHN** who is also 15 and going to be 16 in 2 months. Well JOHN and I have been going out for 5 months this Saturday. We get along so well and we talk about EVERYTHING. When we hang out we don't have to do stuff to have fun; we cuddle, talk about everything, watch movies, sit outside and watch the stars. Well the past few days we got ALOT closer. He is the first boy i went out with for longer the 1 week after my very first love and hardest break up of 2 years. Well; the other day we became alot more physical. I mean before that all we did was BARELY make out; but the other day. It was like we made out for 2 hours and he fingered me. I was the first girl he ever did anything with like that and he was the second guy who did it to me. [[my first love was obv. my first]]. Well; we both have talked and decided we don't want to ruin our relationship with being sexual all the time. He knows about my past and i told him i didn't want to have sex until i was WAYYY older and hopefully married. He tells me all the time he wants to marry me and that he loves me more then anything in the world and i believe him. Well, he also doesnt want to have sex until he is married. We have talked about this so many times; but i am afraid that one day i'm going to get to crazy and give in. I REALLY DONT want to. I already made this mistake before. Do any of you have advice for me? PLease don't tell me to talk to him about, we have. It doesnt have to be 1,000,000 dollar advice ANYTHING would help. Please help me and please don't criticize me.
**SARAH** (link)
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mmk, so i've been in a situation somthing like yourss.. like the whole its your boyfrineds first time thing and all of that jazz, but being that you're more experienced or you've been "experienced" for longer then you'll prolly be the one leading into most of the physical things you guys do. not that you'll alsways be the one doing stuff, but i doubt that he'll ask you to have sex unles he is kidding. And fi he does or if you guys are like ina moment or somthing don't be afraid to ruin it or stop it or whatever IM sud\re that if he told you he wants to wait then he will end up appreciating it mroe in the long run. i know you said don't tell you to talk to him so i won't and i realize that sometimes talkignt o peopel doesn't help butdon't like STOP talking to him about it. Its okayy to talk about stuff like that pretty often and not just liek completely kill the idea ya know? i hope what i've said has helped...
noe more thing, if anyone critisizes you its because they don't know what you feel, screw themm:)
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Well, my best friend's mom just died today.
I don't know what to say or do?
I was going to make her a large card [although it might not help] to let her know I'm here.
Is there anything else I can do for her to keep her from falling apart? (link)
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yeah, that is a reallly tough situationa nd my best friend's dad died a few years ago and it was reallly hard for her. She still cries when she hears songs that remind her about him and stuff. It won't be easy for your frined to talk right now, so don't ask too many quesions. Just listen when she is ready to talk. I think the card will go well. and if you can make it to the wake and the funeral it would be nice of you to go. i realize that she may not invite you first but just tell her that you're always there for her not mattter what it is and you're readyy to talk when she is and that you love herrr:)
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i recently asked a question about what to do about a girl named B asking my boyfriend out .. well now one of her friends is saying that my boyfriend and B hookedup .. i dont know what to do .. if anyone has any idea just please write back and i will give u my screenname and i will send u the message the girl sent me PLEASS PLEASE!! (link)
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Heyy, I'm Colleen.
If I was in your position I would talk to my boyfrined and B.... You should talk to your boyfrined and just see what is going on. If he denies it then you'll have to see whether or not you believe him. Then,when you're talkign to be just make sure she is clear that you and your man are togetehr and that you don't want her trying anything. Its not fair to you that you're worrying about your boyfrined getting with other girls. Oh, another thing when you're talking to B you should tell her that she isn't supposed to ask boys out, the boy should ask her.
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this girl ( lets call her "a") told this guy(lets call him "b") that i like him. ew. hes gross, but he has a good number of friends because hes funny. b thought i liked him. we were callling each other names. then he blamed the rumor on a. she blocked me on aim and im in none of her classes. me and b solved it. we said itt was done. today, i found out that he was talking about me behind my back. i dont know what to do! i wrote a hate letter but i dont think im giving it to him. im too scared to go up to a and b in person. what should i do?? (link)
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you shouldd tear up the hate lettter, you'll feel much more nice if you just deal with it the mature way and either
1. talk to them in person/on the phone
or
2. write nice letters trying to solve it
p.s if this guy is talkign about you and this girl still doesn't want totalk to you then i don't really think you shoudl worry about it. Maybe if you just give it some tim it'll cool down and stuff.
-Lena
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I like my best guy friend. He doesn't know it. But I get extremely jealous when he spends time with this one girl. I don't care if he spends time with girls, there's just this certain girl I'm worried about. I KNOW they're just friends, and that he for sure doesn't like her, but why do I get so jealous? I cry myself to sleep every night they hang out/talk. I know I can't control him, he's not mine. We've talked about it, he knows I don't like her, etc. Whenever they talk/hang out I never get mad I just get seriously depressed, I can cry for up to 2 hours. What is wrong with me? I think I just don't understand why he's spending time with her, and not me, but I'm not sure. Is there any tips you guys can give me about how to calm down when I get jealous? Thanks. (link)
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mmk, i've been in your situation andthere is nothgin "wrong with you" you simply get jealous because like you've already saidd... you like him. Its completely normal. and I know it won't be easy but you should probabbly tell him you like him even if its harddd.... just be like look, i know we're really close but i've got feelings for you and i thought i should let you knoww. If i were able to guess, he probabbly likes you too. it isn't often that best friends of the oposite sex don't at least have a little bit of feelings you knoww?
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for some reason whenever i am in school i sweat alot under my arms even when it is cold out. i put deoderante on (duh, im not that dumb) but it still doesnt do anything expect the fact that i dont smell. I think it might be a nerve thing but i was just wondering if there is any product or deoderante just for like wetness (link)
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heyyy, i sweat a lot too. me and one of my friends always wear a jacket whether it is hot of cold to cover ti and sometimes i even sweat through my jacke. i get so embarrassed. Deoderants have things called anti-persperants and they help you not to perspire(sweat) as much. There make products that are strictly anti-perspirants. I use one called certain-dri. they sell it at like CVS and all sorts of places. i hope this helps.-Leena
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i really need help. like, from a pyschatrist. and i really don't know how to ask my parents.
but first i wanted to ask everyone on here a few questions.
IF YOU HAVE BEEN TO A SHRINK;
-- is it weird talking to them?
-- does it really help?
-- how did you ask your parents?
-- how does it work? like the visits?
thank you everyone that takes the time to answer. (link)
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mmk, yeahhh so I went to a shrink last year and hopefull can go back really soon. I went like once a week and i know it may seem like it would be really hard to talk to them but after you talk to them for a coule of minutes ou reallly feel like they are on your side. Its like you've got a friend who can't reallly take anyone elses side and they won't be able to tell your parents/ liek anyone elsee what you're sayying to them .. its illegal. It really does help like i came home from that first visit and I felt so refreshed. sometimes it helps just to get stuff off of your chest.
mmk, i feel whre you're comign from it was reallly hard for me to tel my parents because we weren't exactly close ya knoww... but noww we're a lot closer. ONe night we were just watching television or eating dinnenr and my dad asked me about how my frined was doing and I started crying and my perents had no idea the way i felt but i just let it all otu and told them that i needed help or i would keep doing what I was doing and I needed to see somone who could help me and the next day they picked me up from school to take me to my new shrink. you'll go for a visit and the first time they'll mainly ask them to tell you why you're there and if it has anythgint o do with a boyfrined or a friend or like some people they'll ask you abotu hwo long you've known them and if yall were goood frineds or like yall donn't really liek one another and they'll write a lot of stuff down just to have your records and stuff to look back on but then after that viit they'll either askk you ro your parents when you want to /can come back and then you'll schedule another appointmentt. its kind fo liek a doctor you just go see them more often and they examine you're feelings instead of your healthhh ya know? i hope this helpss:) goood luckk with everythinggg.
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