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I cannot let go.
My ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. 15 days ago he broke up with me because he was unhappy. For the last couple of days I was fine.. but last night and today I have been really upset. I cant seem to let him go. I still cant accept that me and my ex are over. I told him my deepest darkest secret and trusted him with my life. I truley loved him. And still do. I want to know how to let go and get past this so I can move on. I like my friend and he's asked me out but I havent gone out with him because I'm still hung up on my ex.
By the way, my ex used to be this sweet loving guy and now he's turned into a complete idiot. He is trying to take this girls innocence and virginity, ( a new girl in his life). I find this very hard to believe but it is true, I heard it from my ex, and I dont want to be with that kind of guy.. so how can I still want an idiot of a guy like this? WHAT DO I DO?!
Please help!
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Firstly, I dont truss anyone with my secrets because you never know. so i would serouisly start trying to meet other guys and not constintaly be thinking of your ex. and if he has turned in to a total idoit- why should you care? hes not your boyfriend anymore and let him learn from his mistakes. that girl, you could tell her but she might not believe you, she might tell ur ex and he'll get pissed. i wouldnt tell her because it doesnt really involve you. even maybe just forgeting about guys for a while might be good. hang out with your firends instead and get you mind off him!
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come on. you should work on your future.. what you need to do is focusing on what you need to do with your life. getting job and taken responblites.. ccan't expect guy come right under your noses. you find that someone. he is there but maybe not yet. maybe there something there need to be done frist. god hase his plans set up for you. so enjoy being singul and so you have time to focues other things in life is graduating and spending times with people u havne't seen why you had bf like your family and cousins and stuff. life is short so go out there spend time your families they are friends to they help you find right guy. just have fun and i am sure that guy out there but maybe not in same school. maybe a a job or a cummity or any where where u go find it.. maybe he had that feeling he want find something he missing and not know right in font of him.
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Keep yourself distracted try not to think of him but really the only cure is time, in time you will learn to accept he has moved on and then eventually you will move on.
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mmk... my last boyfrined broke up with me without much of a reason. I was 9 months and 26 days before i started dating somone new. Not to like scare you but the point is, you'lll ahve to jsut give it some time, ya knoww. yOU can't make yourself try to get over him. it'll happen. and you say he is an idiot, well my ex boyfrined was a complete dickhead. I don't know what i saw in him to ebgin with and dont get me wrong i still love him as a freind but he was a reallly not soo great boyfrined whihc i would never have admited when i was still like obsessed with him but you liek guys regardless of how they act now if he ever was a sweetheart you'll keep those time sin mind when you two are togetehrrr... SELECTIVE MEMORY :) iono, tahts the way things go. give it time babygirl:)
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girlly i know EXACTLY what your going through. I went through the SAME EXACT THING pretty much. it took me for forever to get over my ex. You just have to relize that if he doesnt want you then you DONT need him. Life is tooo short to worry about jerks like that. One day you will find someone who will make you happy. It may even be in the oddest situation. It's going to be hard and it may take a while. But you just need to live life and know that in the end everything will work out for the best. You know what they say "everything happens for a reason".
sorry if this doesnt help you very muchh. i have to go and do laundry. good luck hun and if you need anything message me.
-meg
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