Hey everyone! My name is megan; I'm 15 and going to be 16 in a few months. I've been through alot of stuff that some people haven't. I'm really good at giving advice and i love to try and help others. If you have a question or need someone to talk to message me and I will try my best to help you. I'm here for everyone and anyone. I'll do everything i can to help you. I'm looking forward to your questions. Thank you; megan!
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so i've liked the same guy since 10th grade, so it's been 2 years. he's already a freshmen in college and i haven't seen him since this past summer, anyways, i can't get over him and i can't stop thinking about him. gahh. it's really annoying. what should i do? (link)
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i have a friend who is going through the same thing. She has liked a boy for the past 2 years. I know it may be hard but you just have to let what happens, happen. Don't dread on it because who knows; you might be missing something. You seem like a very sweet person and you will find someone who will love you in return one day and you will be so incredablly happy. good luck doll and just remember; live life to it's fullest, lifes to short.
sorry if this didn't helpp. i wish you all the luck in the world. if you need anything message me.
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My ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. 15 days ago he broke up with me because he was unhappy. For the last couple of days I was fine.. but last night and today I have been really upset. I cant seem to let him go. I still cant accept that me and my ex are over. I told him my deepest darkest secret and trusted him with my life. I truley loved him. And still do. I want to know how to let go and get past this so I can move on. I like my friend and he's asked me out but I havent gone out with him because I'm still hung up on my ex.
By the way, my ex used to be this sweet loving guy and now he's turned into a complete idiot. He is trying to take this girls innocence and virginity, ( a new girl in his life). I find this very hard to believe but it is true, I heard it from my ex, and I dont want to be with that kind of guy.. so how can I still want an idiot of a guy like this? WHAT DO I DO?!
Please help! (link)
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girlly i know EXACTLY what your going through. I went through the SAME EXACT THING pretty much. it took me for forever to get over my ex. You just have to relize that if he doesnt want you then you DONT need him. Life is tooo short to worry about jerks like that. One day you will find someone who will make you happy. It may even be in the oddest situation. It's going to be hard and it may take a while. But you just need to live life and know that in the end everything will work out for the best. You know what they say "everything happens for a reason".
sorry if this doesnt help you very muchh. i have to go and do laundry. good luck hun and if you need anything message me.
-meg
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I have been dating a guy for almost 6 months now and as october 25 2006 I had known him a year. I have dated many guys but none I have felt the way I feel about him! He is amazing and i cant seem to get enough of him. Our relationship is pretty much everything I wanted in a rrelationship, could he be the one? (link)
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first love i'm guessing. WElll it doesn't say how old you are but if your younger i'm not gonna say for absolutley suree but you may not be together forever BUT YOU MIGHT. I'm going to relate with you; my first love i went out with for 2 and a half years. The first year and half was amazing; things did start to go downhill at some point in time. I kept telling myself "there is no way that we could break up; we love each other so much" I was 14 or 15 and things did get worse. I was like nooo, how could this happen, he was the one. BUT; i learned alot from it.
My advice to you is; life is too short; let whatever happenn, happen. He may just be "the one". i hopeee you 2 are happy and i wish you luck.
by the way; im not telling you that things weren't going to work out i was just trying to relate to you. I do have a new boyfriend now who i have been dating for 5 months and it feels like the one all over again; i'm just saying live life girly. :]
GOOD LUCK, I ONLY HOPE THE BEST FOR YOU xox
-meg :]
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13/F
Okay, my boyfriend and I haven't even been going out for a WEEK, and he's already kind of hinting that he wants to have sex with me. I know I shouldn't, and I won't give in, being as that I am Catholic and have religious morals. But, I was with him yesterday and he had an erection. It kind of freaked me out, because we weren't even kissing or anything, and I really don't think I'm ready to have the same type of relationship he wants. And also, yesterday, he showed me condoms he had bought, and that pretty much just took me over the edge. He told me if I really wanted him to just stop everything, he would, and I do believe him, but when I'm trying to tell him no, my shy-side won't let me say anything. Is there any way I can simply tell him no and I want to wait for things like this until I'm older? (link)
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okay hun; i know this is really hard for you and that you shouldn't even have to deal with this at the age you are but; it's going to come up many times in your life. Just like you i didn't want to have sex before i was MUCH MUCH older or until i was married but i DIDN'T talk about it and just let the boy control my thoughts on the idea and did it anyways. My advice for you doll is; 1. talk to him about it. i kow it will be akward but it's good for you to be open with him especially if he is showing signs that he REALLY wants to; and it seems to me he does.
2. Don't loose your morals because your afraid to loose him; i did. Now that i have and think about it i wish i didn't because it's something your never going to forget.
3. If he decides that he doesn't want to be with you because of this; forget him. There is going to be so many more guys in the world and you WILL find one who will love you for you.
i know it's hard because i remember i was 13 and i wanted someone i could call my own but; you have your whole life. You shouldn't be worrying about this. Cheer up hun and follow your heart.
-megg.
ps.i hope this helps. if you need anything message me :]
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ok i miss my exboyfriend like crazy! and i hung out with him for the first time sence we broke up (2 months) yesterday and i fell right back in love with him. he is the first gut ive ever been in love with and so i had my freinds ask him if he still liked me at all and he said he didnt which made me really upset and i want him soooo bad!! i talk to him alot but never see him. none of my friends understand what im goin through but when we were goin out he told me he was in love with me. i need advive on how to get him to love me again. i miss him terribly!!! (link)
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I can COMPLETLEY relate to how you feel;
i went out with a boy for over 2 years and i was so in love with him and he said he loved me too. Well things started going down hilll and we broke up a year ago. Well; after we broke up we stilll hung out and i tried so hard to get him back. Well; this is what i learned from that experience and i hope you really take this into consideration;
I learned the best way to make him really want you is to just MOVE ON; people want what they can't have. I mean it took me almost one year to relize that and 4756834756873465847 tears until i finally learned that HE ISNT WORTH IT. Do you really want someone who doesn't want you? Your going to cry and feel like dying but in the end; You will survive and you will learn from it.
I know it's hard now but one day your going to find love in the weirdest place. What you told me is that you still want to be with him BUT he doesnt want to be with you. You want to be with someone who WANTS to be with you. I know you may think; you don't know how much i love him but hun; i doo. I've been through it. And now i'm so much happier without my old guy in my life. I still think about what we had and he will always be in my heart because he was my first love; but now i'm happy because i DID find someone who love me for me and wants to be with me and one day you will to. You have to give it time. For now just have fun and live life.
--i hope this helps. and if you need anything message me. I'm here for you
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Here it is. The famous kissing question. I know you are all probably sick of answering this question, but please I'm desperate.
A few weeks ago this boy and I started liking each other. I went over his house,but nothing happened because of a certain reason that has nothing to do wtih this story. anyway, and then the other day he kissed me on the lips, and so soon I'm pretty sure that soon we're probably going to make out. A lot of my friends just said go with the flow, do whatever feels right but is that really it? Can anyone relate me back to there first make out and what happened and how they felt? My guy friends always talk about how when someone is a good kisser, they just want to kiss them over and over again. How do you be a good kisser, liek what qualities does a good kisser have? Please, no one send me links to teen magazines telling you how to kiss. I want the real deal from actual people.
Thank you so much :) (link)
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My first kiss was in 6th grade playing spin the bottle with my boyfriend at his birthday. We all we're outside sitting on the sidewalk and all of a sudden he shoves his tounge down my throat. I knew he was going to though and i was so unbeliavably nervous. It was HORRIBLE; i mean i had no clue what i was doing. Well; after that we didn't do it for a while. One week later we made out all night and as we continued to do it got better. Here are some tips to try and make it so you get a better idea how;
1. dont open your mouth up super wide.
2. let him make the first move
3. dont shove your tounge down his throat
4. if your really into it play with his hair; let him know he makes you feel comfortable.
5. Start out slow; massage his tounge slowly and then when things heat up start to go faster.
6. Don't think to much about it, if it happens it happens.
7. laugh and giggle; flirt and play hard to get. Guys like when you play hard to get.
8. whisper in his ear; dont be selfish. Do stuff that you think he will like when you kiss.
9. Just have fun; live life. He wont be your last kiss.
anything else; message me. i'll try my best.
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Female/sophomore in highschool
Guys just don't see me in "that way"
I'm overweight and I feel ugly all the time
It's really bringing down my confidence.
I try to brush it off, but it still hurts.
What can I do to give my confidence a boost?
Sincerely, ME. (link)
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I have a friend who i go to school with; her names **ALLY**. She's a sophmore and has never had a boyfriend. She feeels just like you do; like no one sees her in that way and she thinks she is so ugly. I tell her all the time that one day she is going to have it better than all of us because when she finds the one she's going to be so happy because "good things come to those who wait". I'm almost positive someone likes you; maybe they're just to shy to say anything. Just open up to guys more; flirt and have fun. I promise one day you WILL find somone. It may hurt waiting; but doll, life is to short to waist time being sad. LAUGH, LIVE and one dayy you willl LOVE.
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16/F
okay well theres this boy that ive like for a while and i KNOW that he likes me back, weve been talkin on the phone and weve been talking about us being together but i know that im not that good in relationships.. ive only had a couple of good relationships and obviously they didnt work out in the end or i wouldnt be single noe.. btu well my point is i REALLY do like him and i wanna try to make things work but idk how to tell him all of this that i just explained.. likke in a way he will understand.. can u help me?? (link)
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I can completley relate with you. I am not very good in realtionships either; but that is just because of my past. I went out with someone for 2 years and then we broke up. Before i went out with him i was in 2days to one week relationships. After we broke up i was in like 3 day relationships. Everyone knew i couldn't make relationships last. but you know what;When i met the right person it lasted. I've been going out with someone for 5 months now and everyone is so shocked. NOW FOR THE REAL ADVICE; Sence you know he likes you and you talk on the phone explain to him; "i'm not the best with relationships but i really like you and i want to see if things will work out" Ask him out for a movie or something just as friends and see if your feelings stay the same after you really get to know him. Maybe you will just like him as a friend maybe your feelings will become stronger. Just let him know how you feel and let whatever happens, happen. Lifes to short; go gett your man.
-Hope this helps; Megg.
ps. if you have any other questions let me know.
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ok the thought of a guys thing going into your thing kinda gets me freaked out cause it sounds like it hurts and is painful i mean really.. so what does it really feel like.. does it hurt? (link)
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okay yeah it hurts the first few times but after that it gets better. It may hurt alot the first 3 or 4 times but after a while it gets better and you will like it. I remember i was really scared to!
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Okay this may seem strange but my friend is going out with my ex boyfriend and i'm really mad. Jordan (( my ex )) and I broke up in August and I really don't think that i still like him, that is untill my best friend decided to date him. I could've told her that it bothered me but I didn't! I think I like Jordan again but i don't know...I just don't want my friend to date him or any of my friends...what's going on and what should I do about this? Please Help! I'll rate 5's unless you're mean...
sincerley,
brokenhearted && confused =/ (link)
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well of course your jealous HELL yeah i would be, but your friend shouldn't have gone out with him depending how much you liked him and stuff. Talk to your friend about it but don't be mean and be like, what if i went out with one of your ex's that you really liked. Hope thiss helps :)
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okay i have to begin from the start but bare with me. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months now. last year tho, we went to an event and got in to a fight(lemme say over nothing) and he like hooked up with his ex-girfriend not like sex but still. ever since then i havent been able to get over it. i mean i forgave him and have tried to let it go but it hasnt really helped. sometimes i will be sitting alone and i start to think about it and it makes me want to cry. this event is coming up again in a couple months and his ex will deff be there and omg im soo scared of what is going to happen. i told him that if hes good this time i will be happy and finally over it for good but if he does it again its OVER for sure. is this a good way to go about it or what should i do to get over my jealousy? do i have a right to be upset about it or am i over exaggerating? HELP!!!! rate high. (link)
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okay, yeah i had the same problem w/ my ex i know exacltyy how you feel. Your always going to be jealouss so many girlss are.. But if he is good this time and and he hasnt done anything else w/ anyone then you should trust him. You dont want to push him away. It was probally a stupid mistake, people make them were not perfect. So think about that okay?
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i have a boyfriend, mike, and he has liked me since 6th grade (thats 3 years) and im finally giving him a chance this year but the thing is he is so annoying!! Espeically since he doesn't trust me one bit, he told me im an overly obsessive flirt, and then he plans out this whole date thing just to end is having sex with me. I've talked to him about it a million times and i've tried all that i can to get him to break up with me so that i won't feel bad breaking up with him but i can not stand it anymore so i was wondering if anyone know a way to break up with someone that is obsessive over you without hurting them to much. Anyones help is greatly appreciated.
Thank You
p.s i'm 13 f/ (link)
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Okay, first if he doesn't trust you, you don't have much of a relationship there. One thing i would do if i were you would tell him that you need time for yourself for a while. Say that your not sure if things are going to work out between you to and that you to are still teenagers. Also tell him that you think you are better off being just friends and if he doesn't respect your desicion then he does not respect you. If you don't like someone then you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person, it's not fair to you or him& he doesn't sound like the niciest person either. Say your sorry if you hurt him, and you didn't mean to but you need time to yourself. TRUST ME doll, i've made way to many mistakes in a relationship to last me a life time, and in order to find your true love your going to have to play the field, becuase how do you know you found true love until you've dated around. Besides your 13 you have your whole life to find someone&you can tell him the same thing, be like "hey were only 13 theres going to be so many girls" and if he says he wants you, be like "thats what you think now, and besides were can still be good friends" Well i hope this helped you, just remember follow your heart, and that if you don't respect yourself no one else in this world will either.
Megan
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ok there was this guy i met shopping.
and then i found him like 3 monthes later on myspace.
and now i like him and i dont no if he likes me.
but he has me on 2 on his top 8.
and he said
do you still like me?
and i was like
YES.
and he goes.
do you wanna hang out sometime.
then i said.
definently.
and yeah
he never replied.
i need help!!
please!
i rate 5s for trying! (link)
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Hm, he may be playing with you but you never know. How old are you and how old is this guy? Try and talk to him again guys are weird it's like they want what they can't have, Maybe if you make yourself seem a little bit more unavailiable he will want you, but do you honestly want someone who only wants you when you act like you dont like him much. I'm sure you can do much better then him sweetie :)
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So i've been with this boy on & off for about 2 years now...i think i am in love with him but idk like i still want other guys. What should i do? (link)
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1st don't play games with him becuase that will completley make him hate you. You should talk to him and tell him that you really do care about him alot but you just want to be a little more open. Tell him you want to date others to make sure you to are meant for one another, because how are you suppose to know if you are meant to be if you haven't dated others. Also tell him if you are meant to be then you will be back together and if he truly cares about you then he will give you time. I kind of know where you are going, i have dated the same person for over 2 years and were only teenagers, you need to live your life, and you need to still be a kid. Just make sure you tell him you still want to be really good friends and that you will always care about him, One thing is dont ever play with his heart cuz then he will never trust you.
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ive been using deodorant and it makes the skin dark and i was just wondering if theres anyway to get it my skin color again? (link)
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What kinda of deoderandt? And is this your first time ever using it? Try and use a different brand.
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14/f
me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a month and a few days and when im around him i cant speak. he makes me so happy and im always smilin and he even said i dont tell him things. i want to tell him things but we only talk on AIM and when we r at skool we might see each other maybe 4 times for like a few minutes. i love him with all my heart and he means the world to me. before we were goin out i could tell him anything but now i lose all my words and when he says somethin i just laugh or somethin. how can i talk to him like i do everyone else?pleae help (link)
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Ahh you have the new relationshipp butterflies. You have to trust him and have to tell him things becuase communication is the key to all relationships. I know it is hard, but mayb you could hang out more, or call each other on the phone, becuase when you talk on the computer it's a little different then hearing that person talk. Try and let your guard down a little let him get to know you better. I hope everything works out.
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ok im 13 8th grade and this guy asked me to go with him.
i really dont know how to say no to guys.
I AM EXTREMLY NOT ATRACTED TO HIM.
and i dont want to go with him.
hes going to kiss me.
PLEASE HELP.
i rate 5s. (link)
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okay 1st you have to learn to sayy no.
Just tell him you don't like him like that and you would be better off as friends, and if he wants to hang out that's okay but just as friends. Justt be honestt.. Hope everything workss out..i/m me if you need more help.. i3lueyeddx3
ooo yeah and if you do hang out w/ him mayb you should be like and i'll bring a friend just so it doesnt feel weird
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Ok well,...my best friend, I like her boyfriend, and she's knows but she didn't care, and he's in 3 of my classes including my two longest ones. ANYWAY, my friend Gavin, he was havin' some girl issues and he said "Like everytime I'm around her I just feel like we're ment to be." and I thought that was sweet and all, so I asked Ryan ((my best friend's boyfriend)) if he ever had any feelings or weird feelings whenever he was around Katie ((I said I wouldn't tell anyone it was just a random thought and I told him to tell the God's honest truth)) ((Katie; my best friend)) And he said no. And I was going to ask Katie the same thing and I said, "I won't tell anyone, I already asked Ryan." And that, was the beginning of the Hell that's gonna happen. And she kept buggin' me and asking me what he said then I finally told her and she said, "He doesn't like me anymore?" and I said "No, I mean, he still does, he just doesn't have weird feelings when he's around you." And then she said, "I got to go,...bye" and gosh this is terrible! Please help me! (link)
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Okay don't be madd at me for saying this but, how would you feel if your best friend liked you boy friend. First i think it was wrong for you to ask him and then keep it from your friend.. Even if you did ask him you should have never even mentioned it to your friend, because all you did was hurt her feelings.Apologizee sayy your sorry and that it you should have never even got involved with her love life. I know you can't control who you have feelings for but if you best friend is involved with that person you should just keep your thoughts to yourself..But good luck
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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f (link)
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Hm maybe he thinks he has control over you..you need to talk to him and make sure he knows that when you say NO or stopp. or even slower that he needs to. (it possibly could be considered rape) and if he doesnt listen to you, you need to drop his ass
megan&kayla
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i was on birth control for about a year and i just recently stopped because me and my boyfriend broke up. i figured i didn't need to be on it if i wasn't going to be sexually active. so now that i'm not on it is my period going to be really messed up? i'm just wondering so i'll be aware of this.. (link)
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when i stopped using birth control the only shock that came to me was no knowing exactly when it came. but you'll be okay
megan & kayla
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