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i want him back
ok i miss my exboyfriend like crazy! and i hung out with him for the first time sence we broke up (2 months) yesterday and i fell right back in love with him. he is the first gut ive ever been in love with and so i had my freinds ask him if he still liked me at all and he said he didnt which made me really upset and i want him soooo bad!! i talk to him alot but never see him. none of my friends understand what im goin through but when we were goin out he told me he was in love with me. i need advive on how to get him to love me again. i miss him terribly!!!
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I can COMPLETLEY relate to how you feel;
i went out with a boy for over 2 years and i was so in love with him and he said he loved me too. Well things started going down hilll and we broke up a year ago. Well; after we broke up we stilll hung out and i tried so hard to get him back. Well; this is what i learned from that experience and i hope you really take this into consideration;
I learned the best way to make him really want you is to just MOVE ON; people want what they can't have. I mean it took me almost one year to relize that and 4756834756873465847 tears until i finally learned that HE ISNT WORTH IT. Do you really want someone who doesn't want you? Your going to cry and feel like dying but in the end; You will survive and you will learn from it.
I know it's hard now but one day your going to find love in the weirdest place. What you told me is that you still want to be with him BUT he doesnt want to be with you. You want to be with someone who WANTS to be with you. I know you may think; you don't know how much i love him but hun; i doo. I've been through it. And now i'm so much happier without my old guy in my life. I still think about what we had and he will always be in my heart because he was my first love; but now i'm happy because i DID find someone who love me for me and wants to be with me and one day you will to. You have to give it time. For now just have fun and live life.
--i hope this helps. and if you need anything message me. I'm here for you
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Alright i always like to start my advice with something personal so you know that i can relate. I went out with a boy for 7 months and we thought we were in love. We broke up and all of a sudden i didnt love him anymore, it was the weirdest thing.
--now for you, all i can say is you have to try and let go..everything happens for a reason, so if you and your ex were meant to be, then someday you will get back together. but for now you have to live your life and esp. BE HAPPY! i am sure he still cares about you and wishes the best or he wouldnt be talking to you. You have to let him "think" your over him and just want to be friends..let him know what hes missing out on!
i hope i helped in some way
_bri
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