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i have a boyfriend, mike, and he has liked me since 6th grade (thats 3 years) and im finally giving him a chance this year but the thing is he is so annoying!! Espeically since he doesn't trust me one bit, he told me im an overly obsessive flirt, and then he plans out this whole date thing just to end is having sex with me. I've talked to him about it a million times and i've tried all that i can to get him to break up with me so that i won't feel bad breaking up with him but i can not stand it anymore so i was wondering if anyone know a way to break up with someone that is obsessive over you without hurting them to much. Anyones help is greatly appreciated.
Thank You
p.s i'm 13 f/
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Okay, first if he doesn't trust you, you don't have much of a relationship there. One thing i would do if i were you would tell him that you need time for yourself for a while. Say that your not sure if things are going to work out between you to and that you to are still teenagers. Also tell him that you think you are better off being just friends and if he doesn't respect your desicion then he does not respect you. If you don't like someone then you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person, it's not fair to you or him& he doesn't sound like the niciest person either. Say your sorry if you hurt him, and you didn't mean to but you need time to yourself. TRUST ME doll, i've made way to many mistakes in a relationship to last me a life time, and in order to find your true love your going to have to play the field, becuase how do you know you found true love until you've dated around. Besides your 13 you have your whole life to find someone&you can tell him the same thing, be like "hey were only 13 theres going to be so many girls" and if he says he wants you, be like "thats what you think now, and besides were can still be good friends" Well i hope this helped you, just remember follow your heart, and that if you don't respect yourself no one else in this world will either.
Megan
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wow .. you need to just dump his sorry ass !!! He is way too obessive, and for your own safety you should tell him that you need to stop seeing him because he is suffocating you. And if you decide to stay with him then you need to be careful, because that could turn into an abussive relationship. That is a hard situation so think it over before taking action.
Hope I helped !
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The longer you wait the harder it will be. Tell him that this relationship is too intense for you and its not the kind of relationship you expected. Be prepared for him to be hurt, he may try to convince you to stay with him and that he deserves another chance. Its okay to give him another chance but don't do it repeatedly.
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Kate
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sometimes its impossible to not hurt someone. so the sooner the better. just do it.
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Lol That's funny! But I feel your pain that happened to me a lot!
Here are some excuses i used....
>Sorry im not ready for a boyfriend right now it's too stressful.
>Im too young to have a boyfriend im only 13!
>This really isn't working I need a little break from you.(nvr get back together if he says OK lol)
>I've lost my interest in you, SORRY!
>I think it'd be better to end this relationship for the both of us.
> I need more 'me' time less 'we' time...C YA!
> Can you give me some space???
>I dont really like you so bye!
>Get away from me, FREAK!
Sry some of those excuses were mean but you can use them anyways!!!!!
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