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i'm supposd to get my nose pierced today, but i got a really bad cold over night, and have a stuffy nose. what should i do?
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I think it'd be better not to have the nose ring when you're sick. It just gets in the way. But if you can deal with it go ahead. BUt the pierced part of your nose might get germs inside from all the mucas and dust. So id rather not. Hope i helped!


Hey, did anyone dry that new Dessert by Jessica Simpson? What lip gloss flavor tastes the best? (link)
I really liked the coconut confetti. The vanilla made me a bit dizzy lol. I also like the chocolate. The shimmer blush stuff has realli good fragrances too(but arent the best merchandise). Anyways if u want opinions on the blush i like banana split, bubblegum, and toffee.Hope i helped!
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My mother has been unemployed since... 2000 I'll guess. She has been trying to start a real estate company. Every night I hear her crying and when I ask her what's wrong, she says that she's not a good mother and she's sorry she can't provide for this family. Some guy ripped her off illegally and lawyers keep ignoring her about it, so she doesn't think she's going to get the money back, and it was a lot of money. She says we probably won't have enough money to live on. She's my mom and I love her and I need a way to help her. I can't get a job because I'm too young. My father is a lawyer but they have had a rocky relationship ever since the divorce and I highly doubt he will help her for free. We have nowhere to turn. (link)
Wow..i wish i could help. This might get your mom even more stressed out but she can try working more than one job.She can also sell stuff from your house to antique shops or something.You can maybe baby sit if someone near you needs a sitter. Also i'd advise your mom to sit the lawyer down and tell him clearly that she has a problem and he needs to actually help her.Maybe he'll listen..if he doesnt you should fire him i mean he sux! Hope i helped! ♥


My hair is such a hassle. It's naturally wavy and frizzy. I try blow-drying it straight, but it just makes it more frizzy and ends up being wavy again by the end of the day. I like it best when I let it air dry because it gets some curl, but it is still is sort of frizzy. I've tried some different products, but they make my hair look greasy and weigh it down. So I was wanting any tips on how to keep the frizziness down without smoothing out my curls. Thanks! (link)
I have the same problem!I just use Garnier Fructis or Frizzease.I usually use a straightener or curling iron to keep it in place.Use should brush your hair more often and use a lot of conditioner! You can also buy different shampoos that help or give your hair more vitamins.Hope i helped!


hey well my ex b/f broke up with me like a month and a half ago and i still like him...the only reason we broke up is b/c of the distance of where we live. i know nothing can happen between us b/c of this but i just want to know if he still likes me like i still like him. should i tell him i like him next time i talk to him? i have a feeling if i told him he might tell me how he felt...what should i do???????? i'll rate high for no smart answers!!!
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You should just be friends and take it mellow. Call him and talk to him for a while. Maybe you can talk to him online or something. But just keep the conversations going and sooner or later you'll tell him. Hope it works out!


I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.

This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.

I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions? (link)
Hurry! Call 1-800-ChildAbuse or something like that and fast!


Ok, i have a major problem! My best friend started goin out w/ this girl at the beginning of this school year. The problem is, he's not aloud to have a girlfriend. His parents obviously don't let him hang out w/ her outside of school but our families are good friends so i hang out with him every weekend. His girlfriend is incredibly jelous and despises me. She's told me that if i hang with him that she'll "dump" him. He's so happy with this girl and i don't want him to be sad. This girl and i are constantly fighting over the fact that me and him are nothin more than friends and that he luvs her. Well, recently he said that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore becuase his girlfriend said that he can't! Understand that i luv this guy like the closest brother ever and i've cried myself to sleep every night. what do i do? we're only 13! (link)
Just ask are you going to let this one girlfriend you've been dating for not even _ months get in between our friendship that lasted for more than _ years? If he says yes screw him! Just hang out with someone else. And when they eventually break up talk to him again.Hope I Helped!
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Ok well this is long but I need help! I used to like Dj and then as soon as I got to go out with Dj, I find out that Stephen likes me. I like stephen alot. Hes more my type. So I break up with Dj and start talking to stephen, He hasnt asked me out yet, but i hope its coming SOON! I really like him. I dont know how to push him into asking me out without being pushy as to where he hets angry? What shouls I say?

N E thing will help.
I will rate answers that make sense 4's and 5's!
Thankz

*MICHAELA
Im a girl
13
Florida (link)
I think you should ask him yourself.But that's nerveracking.Just hang out with him a lot.Talk to him about everything and keep the conversation flowing. In one of your conversations talk about dating, say stuff like I haven't been on a date in 2 months!If he doesnt ask you he's dumb. I mean if he likes you he should ask you right? That's when you get really flirty, look hot, wear perfume, and ask him yourself.Hope it works!

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well,i like this guy. we're both the same age and in the same grade. (we're 14, in 9th grade) i've known him for 2 years and we're basically friends and all,right? I like him alot. I've liked him for 7 months or so. He's really nice and funny. I see him on the weekends and hang out with him. And my friend thinks he likes me. And sometimes I think so too,because it seems as if he's flirting with me at times. But then I dont know,he might just be friendly. But when I look at him, he looks at me and smiles after a couple of seconds. He teases me alot. And he helps me open my locker when I cant open it. We always try to trip each other,which is kinda strange I guess. But well...yeah stuff like that. And i dont know if he just likes me as a friend or more. and how can i tell him i like him? other than of course,just saying it straight out. well,i guess i could do that. but uhmm...yeah i dont know. and also...well,do you think he might like me?

help plz!?!?
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He probably likes you.You don't need to tell him you like him. Just give him some hints. Give him glances,smile, body language, link arms, be playful,maybe even watch a scary movie and squeeze him like a giant teddy bear. I think he'll know by then. Hope i helped!
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well..
i have known my best friend since 7th grade ((we're in college now))&& we are very close..and last thursday..we got even closer..well we were at his apartment and we were watching a movie..and out of no where he stopped the movie..and we were already cuddling..and yes..durin the movie..i did feel him get.."happy"..but anyways..he kissed me..and we started makin out..one thing led to another and we endin up having sex..now everytime i see him we end up makin out and doing it..i talked about being in a serious relationship and he seemed hesitant but he said he wants to think about it..and i told him that i am not going to be his little whore and everything..and he was like..i would never think of you like that..i like you a lot..but i don't want our friendship to be weird..but i told him that it already was weird after we had sex..so what should i do..i really want to be his girlfriend..but i am so confused about everything..i need sum good advice..and i rate 5's for good advice (link)
Well he seems to like you....but if he wanted you as his girlfriend he'd say yes in a heartbeat.But if he doesnt ask you and your not going to date and your having sex uhh...then he's using you as his little whore.Before he "does" you again you should talk to him and ask to be the same old friends.Or you can ask to be his girlfriend again. If he's still hesitant leave and ask him to think about it and talk to him the next day. Hope it works out for the best!

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i have a boyfriend, mike, and he has liked me since 6th grade (thats 3 years) and im finally giving him a chance this year but the thing is he is so annoying!! Espeically since he doesn't trust me one bit, he told me im an overly obsessive flirt, and then he plans out this whole date thing just to end is having sex with me. I've talked to him about it a million times and i've tried all that i can to get him to break up with me so that i won't feel bad breaking up with him but i can not stand it anymore so i was wondering if anyone know a way to break up with someone that is obsessive over you without hurting them to much. Anyones help is greatly appreciated.
Thank You

p.s i'm 13 f/ (link)
Lol That's funny! But I feel your pain that happened to me a lot!
Here are some excuses i used....
>Sorry im not ready for a boyfriend right now it's too stressful.
>Im too young to have a boyfriend im only 13!
>This really isn't working I need a little break from you.(nvr get back together if he says OK lol)
>I've lost my interest in you, SORRY!
>I think it'd be better to end this relationship for the both of us.
> I need more 'me' time less 'we' time...C YA!
> Can you give me some space???
>I dont really like you so bye!
>Get away from me, FREAK!
Sry some of those excuses were mean but you can use them anyways!!!!!

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I just spent about $150 on my honey for Christmas, and I didn't get him anything for our one year anniverssary!I dont' know what to get him and I'm low on cash! Help me out and I'll rate sky high! thanks (link)
You can get him the following....
>UNDER $100
iPod(regular)
Gift Certificates
Digital Camera
Watch
Rings
>A LITTLE OVER $100
iPod mini or nano
Concert Tickets to the Stones
Tickets to his favorite sports team
Video Camera(a nice one)
Hope I helped!Have a Happy Anniversary!

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I only got about 7 hours of sleep last night. I can't take a nap and my head hurts and my eyes are really hot like. So Whats Going on? I don't think I am sick. All 5's (link)
That happens to me alot! I usually have stress or had an intense workout the day before. It can also be that while you were sleeping you were tossing and turning. Just try sleeping earlier,relaxing during the day(spa or bath), and get some ocean breeze music that makes you go to sleep, or aromatherapy, also lay off on the coffe. Hope i helped!

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okay so im a virgin but all i can think about is having sex with my crush. its always on my mind. is there something wrong with me?! or is that actualy normal.. (im 16/f) HELP :/ (link)
It's perfectly normal even guys do it too.


Heyy everyone!

It's Lauren again. I just thought of one thing I want. Books. I love to read. I love books about real life situations. Does anyone know any good books (and authors too!) about teenagers (male or female) dealing with relashionships or teenagers dealing with being raped/sexually harrassed?

Thanks Again!
-Lauren =) (link)
Hi again! I would recommend....
-All of the chicken soups
-Dating by Toby B. Simmon
-Darkness before Dawn by Sharon Mills Draper
-To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
- Date Rape by Kathleen Winkler
-Voices of Rape by Katie Bode
-Teen love on relationships by Kimberly Kirberger
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Hello There!

My name is Lauren. My birthday and Christmas are coming up really soon. I'm turning 14 years old. My only problem is, I dont know what I want! Can I have some ideas?!?

I like:
- body sprays and lotions
- jeans
- make up (only mascara, eye liner, and eyeshadow.)
- picture frames

anyone know any good things along those lines? Im looking for specific things. 5's for prices and store. 1's for sarcasm. 3's for trying but basically repeating what everyone else said.

thank you!
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-Escada(yellow and pink bottle)-designer fragrances $40 for big bottles
-Make me Gorgeous Supermodel Makeup Kit- $45 at Victoria's Secret
-Give Me a Glow-$22 at Victorias Secret
-Abercrombie Jeans-$40+ at ABercrombie
-Maybelline Great Lash Mascara-$6 at Drugstores
-Playboy Hollywood Nights Eyeshadow-$16 at beauty.com
-J&company cordoroy pants(that look like jeans)-$130 at Nordstroms
-Rock & Replublic Jeans(by Victoria BEckham)-$215 at Kitsons
-Bongo painted Denim Jeans-$40+ at bongo.com
-Victoria's Secret VEry SExy Lashes Mascara-$12 at VS
-Neutrogena Clean Lash Tint-$7.50 at drugstores
-Bonnebell Eyeliner-$8 at Bonnebell.com(also has Eyeshadow and mascara)
-Picture FRames are probably at various stores like PacSun, Gap, or Nordstroms they cost around $5-$10
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There is a semi-formal dance on December 2 at my school. Here are some possible outfits I might wear, which is the best???:

--Black silk assymetrical tanktop with black beads on the bust and straps, a black pinstripe blazer with red and white stripes, and a pair of dark green corduroys

--An awesome long tye-dyeish indie/boho skirt, and some cute top like the one above or a long sleeve princess-necked one with a halter underneath

--Nothing ;-) hehe just kidding

Which do you like the best, and don't say nothing... (link)
The second one sounds awesome! The blazer with red and white stripes and dark green corduroys arent working. But who knows you might be pretty in both. But still go with the second one!Hope I helped!
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So i've been with this boy on & off for about 2 years now...i think i am in love with him but idk like i still want other guys. What should i do? (link)
A boy is like a bus if you dont catch one another one comes in 15 minutes. If you do catch one then you'll get off and go on another....in other words switch it around. If you truly loved him you wouldnt be looking right now. Hope i helped!
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I think that I might be becoming dyslexic. I'm not sure if that can happen so I'm debating on whether to tell my parents.


I've recently (starting about a year ago) started having trouble with reading and with reading numbers.


Say I try to give a number out and it's something like, 764-383-9827. If I try to read it off of something that it was written on it would probably come out something like, 764-833-9728. It's really agrivating because it doesn't matter how long I look at the number; whenever it comes out of my mouth, they are always flip flopped.


It also happen with words and reading; it was just easier to explain with numbers. Sometimes I even read things that aren't even on the paper I'm reading off of. Like, if the word was "with" I might read it as "when" or "what". Should I tell my parents about it?

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YOu should tell your parents, i mean if you started this a year ago then its time to tell them. You probably have to go to the doctors or something.Hop i helped!
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Me and my friend (we're 14/f and 15/f) and we dunno what to do tonight. She dones't wanna go to the mall and we don't wanna see a movie..any other ideas fo what to do thanks. (link)
You can go...
Tipping
Prank Phone calling
Pedicure/Manicure
Throw a get-together with 5-6 friends
Play games(cards, board games, twister, DDR)
Rent a movie at Blockbuster(House of Wax, The Grudge, Along came Polly, Mean girls)
Listen to Music
Make Ice Cream/ Frappuccino-ask me how if u want to and dont kno
Watch TV
Make up a dance/game
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