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So i've been with this boy on & off for about 2 years now...i think i am in love with him but idk like i still want other guys. What should i do?
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Well if you want other guys you cannot be in love. Because love means never doubting that you are with that guy and wanting another. However dont break it off with him. Just try to focus more on him
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Well, I know I'm not there to actually witness the two of you together, but if you make me guess, I say it's not love. Personally, I've always believed that if you "love" two, you don't "love" either one enough.. period. I just feel that if you really and truly are IN love with somebody, then you wouldn't WANT anyone else... because no one else in the WORLD would be able to compare to that person, and to what the two of you have together, ya know? But, that's just me talkin'...
As far as what you "should do": You've been on and off with this guy for two years; why? Why can't it just ever work out? Two years is a long time to try to work things out. Two years of your teenage years (assuming you're a teen?) is a humongous difference in maturity. Why not just give it one final romantic go with this guy, and then "move on", so to speak. Just because you might not romantically be involved doesn't mean you won't lose the friendship also, ya know? Again, I've always believe that if it's "meant to be", it WILL BE. So, there's something to think about. ;)
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here's how i see it, you have alot of life ahead of you, but never play games with a guy you really like or even love. Wanting other guys is natural for you but you need to decide if you want to be with your guy, or if you would rather have fun with lots of guys. I think this is a choice that only you can make for yourself. Good luck
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1st don't play games with him becuase that will completley make him hate you. You should talk to him and tell him that you really do care about him alot but you just want to be a little more open. Tell him you want to date others to make sure you to are meant for one another, because how are you suppose to know if you are meant to be if you haven't dated others. Also tell him if you are meant to be then you will be back together and if he truly cares about you then he will give you time. I kind of know where you are going, i have dated the same person for over 2 years and were only teenagers, you need to live your life, and you need to still be a kid. Just make sure you tell him you still want to be really good friends and that you will always care about him, One thing is dont ever play with his heart cuz then he will never trust you.
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you`re young.* it sounds to me like. you love him. but you don`t wanna commit to JUST him. && that`s perfectly fine.* you shouldn`t have to make your mind up now that you want to be with him for a long long time.* get out there. meet new people. don`t be tied down by one guy. you have to see what is out there.* ya kno??
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Well there's good and bad parts in this whole thing. I would say go look for someone else but then maybe you'd lose *all* your chances with the man you think you love but you ALSO might find your soul mate you never know that he is really your soul mate for life or not. And the other part is trying to stay with him but that could cause like cheating because if you keep thinking about being with someone else you guys will break up again eventually. So I don't really know what to tell you just hope to god your descion **either one of those up there^^** is the right one. Sorry if I didn't help..
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A boy is like a bus if you dont catch one another one comes in 15 minutes. If you do catch one then you'll get off and go on another....in other words switch it around. If you truly loved him you wouldnt be looking right now. Hope i helped!
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When you are in love, you don't want anyone but that guy. Also, you would be sure. Since you're young, you should expirience more things and date other guys and see what is out there. If you feel like you truely love this guy, stay with him. There is nothing wrong with wanting to do and want other guys. If it's meant to be, you will end up together no matter how.
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